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writes:I dont Understand him at all...A couple days ago he wanted me to sneak out of the house so I could spend the night with him...I didnt sneak out of the house because I wuz to afraid...SO today when I check my myspace friends I find out that he had deleted me....This makes no sense to me...I mean one day he tells me oh I wanna see you real bad and then the next day he erases me off his myspace friends whats up with that seriously...Plz give me your advice before I call him and practically ask whats your deal ..what game are you trying to play or what?
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reader, Butterflyfly  +, writes (11 August 2007):
 yeah I agree with Danielpew, hoe's he;s behaving now is the best feedback you can need from him.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 August 2007):
 I'm with Midge and DeeJuliet. All this guy wanted was to take you to bed. If you had agreed to, he would have thrown you away just like he is doing now. You were very smart not to sneak out.
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reader, Midge +, writes (10 August 2007):
 I think its clear that he only had one thing on his mind and it wasnt spending time with someone he cared about. He only had one goal in mind and that was to get you into bed.Dont fall for pratts like that! They are no good and in the event, God forbid, you fall pregnant, he would drop you faster than a hot potato!Ignore him! Delete him of your myspace and forget the guy existed. You may care for him, but he obviously doesnt feel the same way about you! You may find that if you delete him of your myspace, he may be the one to call you and ask why you have taken him off your myspace. If he doesnt, then it just proves my point that you didnt play his game, and he didnt get what he wants, so he doesnt care about you, just what you can do for him.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (10 August 2007):
 He was saying the things to you that he thought would convince you to have sex with him. He doesnt actually care about you in the least and when he didnt get the sex he wanted he 'broke up' with you. Dont fall for this kind of BS from any guy. A guy who actually cares about you will never pressure you to sneak out or to have sex and will certainly will stick around if you choose not to do those things. I know it can be hurtful. I have had guys break up with me because I wouldnt sleep with them and at that moment I have felt very sad. But later, with a clear head, I am soooooooo glad I did not sleep with some loser who was just using me. Good luck and keep your pants on, girl!
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reader, myp +, writes (10 August 2007):
 Why dont u do just that? Ask him why hes acting strange.
Sounds to me like he was tryna get u to sneak outta the house for a booty call and then decided that since u werent cooperating hed jus cut contact. But i dont kno the guy so i cant give you an accurate assesment of his behavior.
best of luck
-Myesha
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