Is it time to end this relationship? He only seems to care about getting sex for him.
Q. Hi guys, I am here to share a problem that I am going through. My relationship with my boyfriend is going through a very rough patch, and I want to know what exactly should I do in this situation. I am dating this guy and he is my first and a...
A. 19 May 2015: oh my goodness can you just read what you wrote? what kind of relationship is this? You are a doormat and you are being abused! you're obviously not happy in this relationship. He doesn't respect you. You need to have dignity. He may have been that ... (read in full...)
Would a penis pump work?
Q. I've thought of getting a penis pump. I'm not big, between 4.5 and 5.5 and not very thick either. I wanted to know if i use a penis pump and pump it up say just a half inch bigger everyday over a long period of time would it grow to say 6.5/7 and ...
A. 21 September 2013: Oral does the trick. Forget about penis size.... (read in full...)
The spark is gone, help!
Q. Ok so im going out with my boyfriend just over a year we moved in a month after we started dating. I love him but it feels like the spark has gone. He gets on great with my family and i get on great with his. He is very funny and we have the same ...
A. 11 September 2013: You need space, that's all i can say. Being together 24/7 can be annoying, it doesnt matter how much you love the person.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is clearly attracted to my friend and its starting to bother me, what should I do?
Q. I have a dilemma. My boyfriend and I have been together just over 2 years and in the last 6 months we've been spending a lot of time with another couple. One of my close friends got with a friend of his so we spend a lot of time together the 4 of ...
A. 6 September 2013: Sugarplum couldn't have said it any better.... (read in full...)
I hate this job but don't want to be seen as a quitter
Q. Would you quit a job you've been at 4 months if you hated it? I know it hasn't been long but I feel myself wanting to give up and walk out the door some days. I work with infants who are very demanding at a daycare. The crying babies, high ...
A. 30 August 2013: You're not enjoying your job and you have a chance for another job. Take it. Do you know how many people are stuck at a workplace enduring everyday just because they cant find another job? But you have the opportunity, so go for it and dont feel ... (read in full...)
Suggestions on how to decoy him for a few minutes?
Q. hi I need some suggestions... I want to do something special for my boyfriend for his birthday we are going out of town on vacation and will be at a nice hotel and resort. I want to decorate the room really romantic for him but i need an excuse t...
A. 19 August 2013: How abt you forgot sth important where you're coming from, like your purse or so, and he has to go back and get it.... (read in full...)
How much does fat matter during sex?
Q. So! I'm going to fool around with a really good guy friend this Friday, problem is he is super skinny and I've got about 30lbs on this guy. We are of the same height. I always wear baggy clothes (I have an eating disorder and I've always been ...
A. 1 August 2013: You seem to be too stressed about this. Are you sure you're ready? Dont let yourself be overtaken by your anxieties that in the end you'll fail to enjoy the moment because you care too much what he thinks.... (read in full...)
Advice for job interviews?
Q. Hi, right this isn;t really a relationship question but I wondered if you could still give me some advice. I have a job interview coming up, and I also have to do an assessment centre before hand. I've been to one before and failed miserably as it ...
A. 22 July 2013: Maybe another poster can answer the other questions but i'll just give a few tips: 1st of all, learn all you can about the organisation and the position you're vying for. This will give you confidence answering questions related to such. 2ndl... (read in full...)
Is she going to turn straight?
Q. I'm a butch lesbian and I'm in a relationship with a straight girl turned femme. I love her so much and I want her to be in my future, you know... those dreams that you have a partner for life. But something has been bothering me lately. I'm ...
A. 22 July 2013: Isnt it obvious why the previous partner cheated? OP, there's no such thing as one way loving. Giver eventually gets frustrated and the result isnt good.... (read in full...)
Is she going to turn straight?
Q. I'm a butch lesbian and I'm in a relationship with a straight girl turned femme. I love her so much and I want her to be in my future, you know... those dreams that you have a partner for life. But something has been bothering me lately. I'm ...
A. 21 July 2013: This is weird. All along i thought a relationship was a give and take situation not one way. How can she be comfortable receiving only without reciprocating? Is she sure of her sexual orientation? She should be able to pleasure you as much as you ... (read in full...)
After our weekend away together, my boyfriend called me a slut and a whore and said I never leave him alone.
Q. Dear Cupid I am in LDR now with my bf of 4 years. We went for a trip few days ago as we didn't meet for few months. As far as i could see the trip was great and fun. We came back to our respective cities. I called him next day, he sounded ok, but ...
A. 20 July 2013: So he called you a whore and he says you're disgusting simply because you had missed him and you enjoyed sex without holding back. Are you kidding me? It doesnt make sense. He's an idiot and you guys are not compatible. It doesnt matter how long ... (read in full...)
Porn is just images of women on a screen. The men will never meet those porn stars. So why is watching porn such an issue for women?
Q. I am curious about this. It seems that to some women the worst sin a man can commit is looking at porn and I don't get it. T hey are just images on a screen of women he most likely will never meet or ever have a chance with. The chances of him a...
A. 17 April 2013: To add on what Tisha-1 has said, it also becomes an issue when the guy cant do without porn. How do you think a lady feels when she has failed to turn on her man but he gets so aroused by looking at porn? How do you think she feels when he cant get ... (read in full...)
How to win a girl to be yours forever
Q. Im a boy aged 19.the three past years.i fall in deep love with a certain beatifull girl.we have been together and still loving each until today.the way i love this girl is incotrolable because i have passed a lot of problems which might end up our ...
A. 13 April 2013: Why are you afraid? Is your relationship not working? But basically you cant force her to be with you. Let her decide that herself. Whether in the end its in your favor or not, life goes on. Dont be so obsessed with this. Like previous posters ... (read in full...)
I can't wait till sex is over!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. Our sex life is great.. Maybe a little too great. We have sex everyday. Sometines more than once. T first it was great but now sometimes I can't wait till it's over. We've even stopped doing it so often ...
A. 20 March 2013: Try different positions, different settings, try role play, etc. Make it fun. A previous poster has asked if you orgasm. I agree its necessary to focus on this. He should make you cum and not using one way all the time. If you can cum using ... (read in full...)
His actions are not what I would expect from someone who claims to love me
Q. During my freshman year at college i met a guy we are from the same country, we were friends but not that close we just greeted each other when we met in the collidors, and then a year passed by without seeing him or hearing from him and then last ...
A. 12 March 2013: He doesnt sound like someone who's really interested. You nevr got a good foundation in the first place, then to build this relationship on a long distance level doesnt seem practical to me.
Just relax and keep an open mind. He may not be the one ... (read in full...)
He's married. We're strongly attracted. I even told his wife nothing was 'going on'. I want to have sex with him, should I?
Q. Hi...this is my first time seeking advice through the internet. I'm almost 20 years old. I applied for a job at a restaurant and I got the job and the general manager is 37. During the interview we made deeply eye contact and then once he...
A. 10 February 2013: Find another job and let go of this man. How would you feel if you were the wife and some young girl is disturbing your marriage?
Dont only think about yourself in this situation; think about the family you are hurting as well, not to mention ... (read in full...)
My wife has not had vaginal orgasms with me and it makes me feel very bad.
Q. I've been married for 3 years. This is my second marriage. I do love wife very deeply and she loves me. She has had many previous sex partners (around 25) and we met each other when she was 40. There is something I can not get over: She does not...
A. 30 December 2012: If it makes you feel any better, i cant achieve vaginal orgasms either. My current bf is the best lover ive ever had, he just cant get enough of giving me oral. And he also meks me orgasm through rubbing my clit. The only few times i orgasm when his ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable that I expect, and I am waiting for him to make the first move?
Q. Three months ago I met a guy and we both are in love with each other. Though we live quite far apart we have met a number of times to spend time with each other but we haven't yet been intimate. We talk to each other daily but my problem is t...
A. 26 December 2012: Why do you have to wait for him to say? Ask him what he thinks of you, and if he thinks you guys can have a relationship. Him trying to kiss you really doesn't say how much he feels about you,it might have just been the moment. At the same... (read in full...)
We argue alot and he changes what he says from one day to the next
Q. Hello, Everyone here, I think I am the loser of relationship. I with my bf just know each other 3 month, but we argue like a every 4 day , I feel bored about this relationship. The reason we argue, is more like about the communication talk. ...
A. 21 November 2012: Were you with him for his money? And was he trying to win you over using money and now that he has you he doesnt pay for you the things he used to anymore? Why is money the number one issue in this relationship? Are you capable of being independent; ... (read in full...)
Bizarre physical response to sexually stimulating thoughts, is it normal?
Q. Hi there, I just have a question about sexual response... I am a normal 21 year old female, and fully sexually functional, but I seem to experience this odd physical response to sexual thoughts. I could be in a completely un-aroused state of m...
A. 10 November 2012: I sometimes experience what you're saying, especially if i had a great time with my bf the previous night. When the following day i recall randomly i get this rushing a bit painful feeling in the pit of my stomach. Its really exciting.... (read in full...)
I love this guy, and I want it to work. So how do I handle him calling me "fat"(I'm not), and commenting on girls he thinks are hot?
Q. Straight to the story, Been dating this guy for 2 months now. Everything was perfect, he is the sweetest person ever! Just one problem and i don't know if i should feel insecure or not! Or what i should even do, i feel like shit! He is very ov...
A. 14 October 2012: I agree with all the below posters. There's nothing to hold on to, let go now before it gets any harder. Cute,loving,considerate,sweet etc guys do exist. Dont settle for less.... (read in full...)
Will the man get the yeast infection too?
Q. if a female has a yeast infection and has intercourse with a man, does the man gets it?!...
A. 30 September 2012: Yes he can get it.you both need to get treated at the same time otherwise you pass the infection to each other like hot potato ie you get cured he passes it to you, after he gets treated you pass it to him as well,etc.... (read in full...)
Why can't I enjoy oral sex?
Q. This is an embarrassing question but I'd like to know why I cannot orgasm from stimulation of the clitoris, either by myself or from oral sex. I can sometimes orgasm from vaginal intercourse, or during masturbation when I clench my pelvic floor ...
A. 22 September 2012: Dont be frustrated. Do you never feel anything when being orally stimulated, or maybe your clit feels uncomfortably sensitive when touched? Your man could use both his tongue and fingers when pleasuring you next time. But then everyone has a ... (read in full...)
I need to get over him. I need any ideas you can suggest to help me get over him completely
Q. Hi I need Advice here is the case: before 4 years my BF and I were together for about a year then I got pregnant. That time he didn't have job I have a job, he told me we gonna be together and he will do his best to get a job, a give birth and af...
A. 22 September 2012: If he cared about you he would quit friendship with this girl since it hurts you a lot. Looks like this relationship isnt getting anywhere. Make up your mind to move on without him, concentrate on other things, and you will meet a nice man.... (read in full...)
Why is it that only penetrative sex does it for me?
Q. So this is a sex question, I was wondering if anyone could help me understand why I can't orgasm from anything other than vaginal sex and very rarely clitoral stimulation with fingers. Basically I've been with my partner for 3 years and we've ...
A. 22 September 2012: You're really lucky to be able to orgasm through intercourse. That hardly happens to me unless my clit is being stimulated at the same time. Orgasming on your first time intercourse! I sure do envy you.
If you insist you want something external... (read in full...)
I said no to going further. But am I still a virgin, based on what happened?
Q. Okay so there's this military guy i met with. I just wanted someone to date.. we went out to dinner. i dropped him off to on base i get out the car we made out he was groping me and hugging me tight. Then we meet up again the next day ( i am a vir...
A. 6 July 2012: Dont just move with the wind. Take a firm stand if you dont want to have sex, and better not put yourself in awkward places like his bed. If you want someone to date, let things progress reasonably. Get to know each other, have a connection, then ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have an orgasm while you're sleeping?
Q. I have a question about orgasms and whether it is possible to have one while you're sleeping. I had one last night while dreaming and I realize that it wasn't the first time that it's happened. The dreams are sexual of course, but I can never ...
A. 9 June 2012: Clitoris is the source of orgasms,whether it has been stimulated or not, so you can even cum in your dreams. Contractions are only natural after orgasming. Even those who orgasm through intercouse achieve that because of their clit. You shouldnt ... (read in full...)
Should I take this job offer for the reality show?
Q. Should I take this job offer? Basically, I am currently the youngest assisstant head teacher in Britain and I have been approached by a TV network to make a reality show where I spend a week in different schools around the world to see what teac...
A. 5 May 2012: Its just 8weeks.not much to go out of your way for.i think this is a great opportunity to do something new,gain more experience in a wonderful way, know more about other cultures through 1st hand experience,etc.hopefully your husband will support ... (read in full...)
Never had a 'real' orgasm
Q. I have never experienced a 'real' g-spot orgasm. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now and have had to fake it every time. When we first started having sex, we had it a lot - he wasn't amazing then but he lost his virginity to me, so I...
A. 15 January 2012: You will never get anywhere if you dont communicate. What is it that you would like a guy to do for you sexually? Dont hide it from him, he must know so that he can satisfy you. I dont think its correct to just label him as not good in sex, because ... (read in full...)
Why do I day dream about future relationships but I've never been in one?
Q. Hi. I'm 14 and I've never had a boyfriend. Sometimes I worry about that but I know I'll find the right guy someday. But I do find myself fantasizing about having a boyfriend and our relationship. Like our conversations, dates, etc. It never gets ...
A. 3 October 2011: I dont see anything weird.... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm going to lose her! I don't want to take this break!
Q. My girlfriend wants to take a break. I'm okay with it but I feel like she's going to leave me for another boy. I recently found out she was flirting with someone else and now this has happend I really don't wants to break up with her. Is this really ...
A. 3 October 2011: Give her the break rather than force her to be in something she isnt interested in. If she moves on, then its fine she never liked you much, you will find someone who wants to be with you. They say if you love a bird, let it fly away. If it returns ... (read in full...)
All the things my ex is saying is making my skin crawl!
Q. Dear Cupid Had a fight with my bf of 2 years, since he blocked me from his facebook, saying like I am disturbing him often in chat. Got angry and we had a fight and after that he never called me, I tried to reach him after 3 days, he now says he m...
A. 3 October 2011: He said all that? Please, he's not someone who deserves to be with you! I'm not saying this to make you feel better, its true. You deserve a man who will love you for you. It hurts to move on from a long term relationship, but you will manage. Dont ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to feel this way? sometimes it feels like a FWB, yet when with him the sex is amazing.
Q. Sometimes my boyfriend feels more like a friend with benefits or something. I love him to pieces, I trust him completely, he understands me better than anyone; in short, he's the best mate I could ever wish for. But thinking of the fact that we're ...
A. 25 September 2011: Sounds fine to me. You're comfortable with each other, good friends, sex is great. Whats missing?... (read in full...)
I have only had sex with my current boyfriend, am I missing out on experiencing sex with other guys?
Q. ok so i am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend. im 23 and hes the only person ive had sex with and dated! and hes 24 and i am not his first, im his 13th sex object. right now in our relationship were happy, i know he loves me, he was the ...
A. 25 September 2011: How can you call yourself a sex object when he loves you? Grass is always greener on the other side. You think its more fun to sow your wild oats while a certain lady out there wishes she found a man who loved her and settled down with her. Life can ... (read in full...)
How can I know that my virgin girlfriend is really ready for sex?
Q. My gf and I met through mutal friends, I knew she was a virgin and planned to stay that way until she met`the perfect guy`` before we started dating.I am 23, she is 21. Its been over a year (14 months) and I respect her decision about sex. I will ...
A. 25 September 2011: You're such a sweet guy. I'll have to agree it seems she wasnt ready for sex when she asked you for it. And congrats to you for being a patient guy for so long. 1) you can show that you do love her by being there for her in every way that you can... (read in full...)
I've met a man I like-now, how do I catch him?! What will attract him to me?
Q. Ok guys. What can I do to help me catch the man of my dreams. I know he likes me. He has told me he likes me. I also know its not going to be easy getting him into a real relationship, beucase he has been hurt in the past. But what im a...
A. 23 September 2011: If he liked you back then you dont have too much work to do. Just continue doing what you do, continue having a good time with him and let things flow naturally. He'll eventually fall deep for you and will want to give love a second chance...... (read in full...)
I honey-trapped my own boyfriend.....he doesn't know it was me and hes broken my heart!!
Q. I am in bits right now.....really need some help. Ive been seing my long distant lover for 9 months. Hes in the army but we saw each other when we could. Latley he had become really distant from me though......his calls and texts became very rare ...
A. 23 September 2011: He was disrespectful and clearly he's not seriously into the relationship as you are. Just ending it by saying things are not working out is easier, though i agree with the poster who said he should know what he morally did wrong therefore he should ... (read in full...)
Does she even have an ounce of love for me? Or am I setting myself to be completely destroyed later on?
Q. My girlfriend of almost a year dumped me two days after my birthday (mid-august) completely out of the blue. That night, she texted me saying "I think I don't like you anymore" and our relationship to me ended at that moment. Mind you, not to make ...
A. 19 September 2011: She's using you for convenience. Get over her and find someone who will love , appreciate and be proud of you. The longer you stick with this girl, the more hurt you will be.... (read in full...)
Clarity versus accuracy on a resume?
Q. I got a job i really want and they want to call my boss after i give notice to probably verify a few things. I am really though about some details. The duties on my resume are well written with adjectives expressing what i do and it mentions ever...
A. 18 September 2011: I dont think its something to be worried about. In a resume you're selling yourself so i dont see much of a problem putting a fancy title. After all, an executive assistant and administrative assistant can have similar duties.
I think you need to ... (read in full...)
Does she even have an ounce of love for me? Or am I setting myself to be completely destroyed later on?
Q. My girlfriend of almost a year dumped me two days after my birthday (mid-august) completely out of the blue. That night, she texted me saying "I think I don't like you anymore" and our relationship to me ended at that moment. Mind you, not to make ...
A. 18 September 2011: "Am i setting myself to be destroyed later on?" Yes. She's having all the powers here, telling you she doesnt like you anymore, then easily charms her way back to you,etc. I see big trouble because the arrangement isnt balanced, she's the boss. ... (read in full...)
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