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Can oral sex be negociated, or will it drive us apart?

Q.   Well, I'm not sure where to start. I am very in love with my boyfriend and we have the best laughter together. Everything is good except.. He doesn't seem to care at all whether I orgasm or not. He refuses to give oral, and we've talked about it ...

A.   30 May 2010: i don't think it's crazy to leave him, sex is one of the most important parts of a relationship, it's up there with honesty, communication and, respect. how long have you been togeather? me and my partner have been togeather four months and the ... (read in full...)

I just stopped taking the pill. How long should it take for me to get pregnant?

Q.   Hi im 23yrs old and have just stopped my pill on the 3rd last day of my period, i want to have a baby... i want to know how long it should take for me to get pregnant.? Also i fell pregnant about a yr and half ago but had it aborted,... i a...

A.   30 May 2010: stop smoking weed, if your trying to concieve and because the average pregnancy test doesn't tell you if your pregnant until your at least two weeks, so you'll still be smoking it if your pregnant before you know, thats bad. my friend smoked w... (read in full...)

How do I handle the feelings I have for my friend?

Q.   I think I'm falling for my friend, or actually I may have already... It's so weird, usually when I have crushes it doesn't last long its just like a couple weeks and then when they get a girlfriend I get over it. But my friend has a girlfriend for a ...

A.   30 May 2010: one, your feelings for your friend have only increased since he's been seeing someone because he's more unavailable then before, which in turn makes you want him more, and also because he's said that he thinks friends can't become lovers etc, which ... (read in full...)

My husband loves bj's but I don't like the taste

Q.   My husband loves bjs. What guy doesn't right? Well, I hate the taste of sperm, I mean I really hate it, but I adore my husband. I went online to find spermicide free condoms to see if maybe giving him a bj with out tasting it would leave us both ...

A.   24 May 2010: is he freshly showerd when he asks you to do this? because if he's not i can understand where your coming from. a dirty penis tastes yuck!!! just get him to have a shower before or even join him in the shower, me and my partner do this, his penis ... (read in full...)

Help! I need my friends to understand me better, what do I do?

Q.   hey dear friends..... i just need your help out here... m a 17year old female m a really lively person always laughing joking n serious as well i dont like hurting people... the thing is like till now i was reli fine with all this i mean there are...

A.   24 May 2010: you can't control your frustration like you used to because i think you have reached your limit of patience. have you tried talking to all your friends that you do have feelings that can be hurt?that you may laugh and joke and be happy but that... (read in full...)

Can't make up my mind between two guys, what is the answer?

Q.   I'm 17.I'm split in between two guys. Guy 1 [ My ex boyfriend ] whom i know from a year n half and we been together.We broke up in dec and since then he's behind me!!I sort of like him..he says he's realized his mistake and wants me back.I so...

A.   24 May 2010: from what you have said it sounds like you are leaning more toward your ex and your friend is just a back up if you and your ex dont get back together, like your scared of being alone so having two guys after you at the same time is making you feel ... (read in full...)

Did I miss my chance?

Q.   this boy i really liked for a long time asked me out i said maybe at first because i thought they was messing about, past experiences they said they was just joking but it has been going on for too long. he asked out not long after again but the ...

A.   16 May 2010: if he's trying to shove it in your face that he's with someone else then i don't really think that you have missed your chance, i reckon you should talk to him just say that you do like him and that you didn't answer him because your shy and did'nt ... (read in full...)

He's suffering from emotional detachment?

Q.   I've been dating him for little more than 4 months now. He's the sweetest guy I ever knew, he treats me like a princess. But there are sometimes that he can be so detached from me, sometimes I just feel unwanted and that he's with me just because ...

A.   16 May 2010: hello, i feel for you honestly, my current boyfriend is also acting the same way, he and his ex lost a baby also. i know it hurts alot that when he doesnt seem to be one hundred percent into the relationship and how much it hurts that he wont let... (read in full...)

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