How can I meet new male friends ?
Q. How can i meet new male friends? i arnt very forward but would still like to meet some more boys. any ideas? please help x x x...
A. 26 August 2006: well i think that you can meet boys when you go out with your friends and try to make yourself stand out. im not sure how old you are but dont let them use you. good luck xx... (read in full...)
I have a big crush on my Teacher... should I tell her ?
Q. i am in love with my english teacher i even dream about her she is so nice to me in class. should i tell i tell her that i love her or not....
A. 26 August 2006: i think that you shoudnt tell her because if she has a relationship with any pupil this can result her in getting the sack and also she may never teach again and have no job. you could also be moved into another school. sorry and good luck. xx... (read in full...)
Are all men really only after one thing ?
Q. Hi. are all men after one thing? I'm a youg 27 odd year old and I'm too afraid to sleep with a guy for the simple fact that they are using me. My father brought me up to believe all men were after one thing. from learning this I don't plan on let...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that your dad just said this so that you dont turn out to be the type of person who would let men in easily.
i think that your dad is wrong, there are men that will notice your personality that stands out. However some men do just want sex.... (read in full...)
During lovemaking he shouted "I love you, Betty" Guess what...I'n not Betty!
Q. My boyfriend of three years and i were making love after a few drinks recently when he shouted "Betty, i love you! Well my name is not Betty!Immediately this happened I pulled away. Betty is his ex girlfriend whom i know he is still very fond of and ...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that you should talk to him and ask why he said this and tell him that this is serious. you know him more than anyone else to know if hes capable of having an affair. good luck and take care. xx... (read in full...)
When I have sex I bleed! Why?
Q. have met somone new! when we have sex i bleed! Why?...
A. 25 August 2006: i think this is normal and wouldt realy worry about it only if its happened for a long while then you should go and visit your gp. but personally i wouldnt worry. good luck. xx... (read in full...)
He doesn't trust me, he calls me a liar, he's jealous, he rants and raves...what can I do about this guy?
Q. Hi I am in a relationship with a guy for nearly a year now. when we first met we both had just come out of serious relationships. we were pretty casual at first but now it's pretty serious. the problem is the way he treats me and speaks to me. if h...
A. 25 August 2006: you havent done nothing wrong. I think that you tell him how much you love him and try to make him realise that he either loves you or hes under stress and trys to get rid of it by shouting at you.
I hope this helps and also hope this works out betw... (read in full...)
I keep giving him oral sex while e dates other girls! I can't seem to give him up. What's wrong here?
Q. hi im a teen and i had a boyfriend and we broke up and after that he said he still liked me but was with another girl and after they finished i gave him oral sex and then 2 weeks later he went out another girl. Then whilst he was with this other ...
A. 25 August 2006: im sorry to say this but i think you should finish this relationship. if he likes you then why would he go with another girl, why would he not say thanx and not do the same back to you. i think this is because he wants all the pleasure to himself. ... (read in full...)
My friend and I fancy the same guy. She's told everyone she likes him so what should I do?
Q. I'm 14 and there's a guy at school that I fancy. I'm scared to tell him, and to tell anyone else, because one of my friends fancies him too, and she's told most of her friends. What should I do? Katie xx...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that you should tell your friend you like him before you tell anyone else because she may take it the wrong way if she hears it from any one else. This also depends on how long she has liked him for because if it was long i think you ... (read in full...)
I feel rejected and alone...can anyone help help me
Q. im having a really hard life at the moment. My brothers are leaving home to travel for a year, i will miss them so so much. To top it im moving schools and everyone has already forgotten about me :( i feel so rejected and alone and no one ...
A. 25 August 2006: well i think that you shouldnt feel alone because your not. i bet theres poeple not nessercerily (soz for the spelling) your family but your friends as well could help talk to them and start a conversation. I think they are worried about your ... (read in full...)
Why so many arguments?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We love each other very much but lately we keep arguing, I dont know what to do?...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that you two should have a talk and if talking dont work then i would consider councelling. my sister and her husband have taken on councelling andthey are akting like they just met again. i hope this has helped you. good luck. you could ... (read in full...)
All she goes on about is work work work.....
Q. I know this might sound a bit petty but when i see my partner she constantly talks about work its like i ask how was your day and then i get a full run down off her working day.But it dont stop there its almost the topic of conversation and when i ...
A. 25 August 2006: i think maybe shes finding work to stressful i think that you should suprise her and make her feel wanted and special. i hope this helps although its short. good luck. ... (read in full...)
How do you tell if the affair is over ?
Q. how do you know if an affair is truly over? I only see my lover once a week anyway but are usually in contact throughout the week by either phone or texts,the last time we were together felt wierd because my lover is a friend who people knew i w...
A. 25 August 2006: hi, i think that you should wait for him to contact you and tell him that you are having doubts. i also think that you should wait for a while untill you talk to him. sorry. i know ths may turn out to be realy hard. but good luck. xx dont let men do ... (read in full...)
Im worried that I have left it too long before being intimate with someone again and scared that now I never will be....
Q. I lost my virginity when I was 16 to my boyfriend and i havnt slept with anyone since i broke up with him. That was 3 years ago!!! furthermore, ive only kissed 2 people. The problem is that because im so self conscious about myself, whenever i have ...
A. 25 August 2006: not all men want sex they want to get to know you and your personality. i think that you are loosing your confidence in yourself. i think that you can build this up by going out with your friends and buying new clothes. also spend time and money and ... (read in full...)
What to do with my not so "everyday" journals ?
Q. I know this problem may seem a bit silly, but it is worrying me, and I WILL have to make a decision one day. It has been playing on my mind more than usual as my father died recently, very suddenly, and at a young age, so I know how unpredictable ...
A. 25 August 2006: i agree with them, you should publish them they are your memories whether you want to shair them memories or not it up to you. it would be great to publish them and it could be anomomous too. you could tell your family and ask for their opinion on ... (read in full...)
A co-worker treats me disdainfully! How do I nip this behaviour of hers...in the bud??
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for awhile and work with his ex. She broke up with him a year and a half ago, has a new boyfriend whom she seems happy with so her current behaviour has me puzzled. She is a player and puts on a really good face to ...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that she is jealous that you have her ex. i also think that she may still have feelings for him. dont let her get in the way i think that if shes doing this to you, you should ask her and tell her boss. i also think shes being a bit childish ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm ruining his life because of my moods...
Q. I started seeing my boyfriend when we were both with previous partners. We work together, but in separate offices, I'm nearly 21 and he's 31. We have been together properly for about 5 months. He has a daughter from his previous relationship and ...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that any women would feel insecure when there partner goes to see there ex. i think that if he doesnt keep in contact with his ex then he may be banned from seeing his child then think how this would effect him. I also think that you need to ... (read in full...)
Its like dating the mum as well as the daughter! Please help!!!
Q. I have been dating a girl for about 3 months now. She is the most important thing in my life! She has relationship problems that she contributes mostly to her parents. In all her relationships that she has had where her parents approve...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that you talk to your gf and tell her that her mum is kind of getting in the way and that you want to tell her parents together. i also think that if you do tell them you should think of all the different possibilities that could happen. ... (read in full...)
He only sees our relationship as friends, as he says he doesnt have luck with the girls!
Q. hi my name is lilly i meet a young man a year ago ,when we just started seeing each other ,he told me he doesn't have luck with girl and he does want to put a label on me ,so as of now i am still his friend . I loved him alot ,it hurts me mor...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that you shouldnt let go. i think that you should talk to him and ask him what his feelings are on you and then you tell him your feelings.
i hope this works. what makes a relationship is talking. thats the key. good luck. xx... (read in full...)
My 14 year old GF said she feels like we're a married couple!
Q. Okay so ive been with my gf for about a month and a half now, I'm 15 and she's 14. Everything has been great and then yesterday she told me she felt like we were a married couple, as you can imagine this took me by surprise. I was glad to hear it,...
A. 25 August 2006: i wouldnt say that she was bored at all. i think that she just wants to spend more time with you. when you meet up together you should take her somewhere to suprise her so she feels specail everytime shes with you . i think that being together for a ... (read in full...)
I love my married friend...
Q. I am in love with my friend who is married but I am afraid that if I say anything I could loose him as a friend. What should I do?...
A. 25 August 2006: i think if your friends married then you shouldnt say nothing i know this would be hard but i think that you are better of as keeping him as a friend. sorry. but good luck and be strong. xx... (read in full...)
My GF dumped me, then tried to kiss me and said she wanted me back! I just don't know anymore!
Q. Please help me, i split with my girlfriend a couple of weeks ago as she seemed to have gone off the relationship but wouldnt talk to me at all, ignoring my calls n not answering the door, i tried everything. A few days ago she tried to kiss me ...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that if you have strong felings for her and you think that the relationship could last, then yes. but if you do have strong feelings for but not as strong as you did then no. you know her more than anyone. good luck i hoped this has helped. ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my friend but he is having a 'casual sex relationship' with someone else!
Q. I've fallen in love with one of my close friends and was thinking about telling him this weekend but now hes just told me that hes spent all day with a girl hes been seeing. He says its just a casual sex relationship and he doesnt think it will de...
A. 25 August 2006: well i think if hes seeing her and she has a boyfriend then i think you should wait and see if this relationship will last. Yes i think that you should tell him but wait a while. good luck i hope this helps.... (read in full...)
My BF tells all his mates about our sex life!
Q. I just found out my boyfriend is telling all his friends about our sex life. I dont know what to do! Should i end it?...
A. 25 August 2006: i would'nt say you should end it with him i would say that you should tell him not to tell his friends because you feel uncomftorble with it. i think that if he cant respect how you feel you should end it. good luck i find it hard when boys brag ... (read in full...)
I really like my mates girlfriend!
Q. I really fancy this girl in my class. I know her and we're friends but she has a boyfriend and he's my mate. How do i tell her?...
A. 25 August 2006: well i think if shes going out with your best friend then you are going to have to wait a while to go out with her.
Me and my friends had this problem and we werent talkin to each other for about a month. I say that you shouldnt let any one come... (read in full...)
I like my supervisor but he said he's in a relationship, but I can't help thinking he wants me!
Q. I really like the supervisor in my office and we have been flirting non-stop. I plucked up the courage to ask him out and he said 'for now I'm in a relationship, so at the moment anything other than a friendship would not be possible at this time.' ...
A. 25 August 2006: although your carzy about him i think that you should wait because you will hurt poeple if you go with him like the person hes with, i know i dont know you very well its how strong do you feel about him to go with him. but good luck.... (read in full...)
My parents are upset that I am dating a co-worker! What wrong with that??
Q. I really need help!! My parents are upset that I got invovled with someone from work! Is getting invovled with someone that you work with that bad or is it just them? Help PLEASE!!...
A. 25 August 2006: I dont think its bad, i think that they are worried because if you split up then you stop talking or something then you would see him everyday at work. they are just worried about you. my advice to you woould be just stop worrying, im sure that he ... (read in full...)
He's in a band and I trust him..but I don't trust the girls he's around. What can I do?
Q. My boyfriend is in a band and are on tour now i managed to go to the first gig where a girl from another band was giving me dirty looks becuase i was talking to my boyfriend and now she is stayin at the same hotel as him for the next week, also my ...
A. 25 August 2006: whats a relationship when you dont trust your partner. If he said he loves you and he tells all the other girls to go away then i think that you have nothing to worry about. I also think that every girl gets suspicious about there partner when they ... (read in full...)
I love her so much that when we are apart it hurts so much, how can I deal a bit better ?
Q. Is it possible to love somebody TOO much? I am engaged to a girl, she has made me the happiest I have ever been in my life. When we are together, I am in heaven, but when we are apart, I am like a lost puppy. When she is not around, I become moo...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that you should use your friends to use the spare time to keep your mind of her for a while. I think shes the luckiest person on earth to be thought about so much. gd luck xx... (read in full...)
Im always putting others first so as to not feel guilty.. but this is ruining my life!!
Q. My life seems to revolve around guilt and I have no idea how to handle this emotion. I feel guilty about everything from not bringing in the bin before being asked to do so, to telling my boss I can't work because I have to go out. I constantly put ...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that you never get time for yourself. i also think that you never get time to go out with your friends because your doing things for people.
my answer to your question would be to
1) go shopping for clothes that you woudlnt normally... (read in full...)
Is it love that I'm feeling?
Q. How do you know if you love someone? There is this guy I know and are dating. I have known him for quite a while and we only see each other at weekends but as it's the holidays and I'm seeing him more often at the moment. I feel as if i can smel...
A. 25 August 2006: well i think that this is definatly love. im sure he feels the same way to. good luck with him im sure that this will be your longest relationship. good luck xx... (read in full...)
Me and my fiance are stuck in an expensive rut!
Q. Hi, Im with my fiancee over a yr now and lately im beginning to get bored and fedup of the same routine of doing things.We are both in our early 30s, with good jobs and fell in love very quickly when we met.She has a habit of wanting to stay ...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that its nothing to do with the money. I think that shes not ready to move in with you either shes scared or shes just not ready.
have you asked her anything about moving in together so that you can be together longer? or asked how she feel... (read in full...)
Did this girl just use me to have a baby? What do you think?
Q. my relationship with this girl to say the least started rocky,firstly i am a recovering alcoholic and willingly admit all of my wrongs and realise the trust and time thing,i have a 5 week old baby girl and accept the mother i would do the same.i ...
A. 25 August 2006: i think that she didnt use you to have a baby i think she just wanted some attention. maybe she never wanted a baby in the first place, maybe she did. i think this had something to do with her sister. I think that you would make a good father by ... (read in full...)
My bf has no patience with my son and says I need to be tougher!
Q. My boyfriend has no patience with my 15 year old son. We are talking about a quiet, confident teen boy, who is on the honor roll in high school, is polite and shows respect to all, loves sports, doesn't party, doesn't drink or act out in any way. He ...
A. 24 August 2006: well i think you should talk to your bf and ask him to point out to you when he thinks your not being tough enough. and also what or how does he think you should handle the situation. I think that your bf is just taking an interest in your son. so ... (read in full...)
Go to the party that my ex will be at and annoy my current GF?
Q. OKay, so I got invited to this party by a good friend of mine, which i know some okay friends will be going to. But the problem is is that my ex-girlfriend is going to be there, and i have no desire to see her until i am forced to by school (seeing ...
A. 24 August 2006: I think that you should wait until you go to school because of your recent girlfreind and how she would feel. sometimes ex's can trouble you. not saying that she might but just to be prepared.
p.s you can always invite your freinds to yours and ... (read in full...)
My ex was the biggest slob, we have a kid together - how do I act around her now? (long post)
Q. SOMEONE HELP. I KNOW IT IS LONG, BUT I NEED HELP FAST!!!! I was with a girl for three and half years, living together for 3. We have now split and i am heartbroken, although i am starting to think, "lucky escape". She lived like a slob, never c...
A. 24 August 2006: I think that you should say nothing to her about it and even if she does realise what you have put up with theres not alot you can do, because you wont want to take her back. I can understand you just cant forget about her and move on because of the ... (read in full...)
My fiancee wants to experiment with another girl!
Q. My fiancee wants to experiment with another girl, I see this as cheating, but also am quite turned on by the thought. She also wants a 3some with me and another girl, I just feel that seeing her being intimate with somebody else, end vice versa, c...
A. 24 August 2006: well i think that its up to you whehter you want to go with another girl, then yes. But if you dont want to go with the girl then no.
I think that it may destroy what you have depending on what you feel about the girl. ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin at 38 years old...do I tell this to my new guy?
Q. I have just met the man of my dreams, but i dont know whether i should tell him i am a virgin at 38 as he might think i am some sort of weirdo or something or will he work it out for himself, also as he is thin i am over weight he has not mentioned ...
A. 24 August 2006: hi, i think that you should stop putting yourself down too much. If he thinks your fat or overweight then he wouldnt be with you. And yes, i think that you should tell him the truth that you havent had sex and start your relationship honestly.
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I think I _may_ have married too soon... My wife can't bear to be touched by me!
Q. How do you tell the difference between settling down, and just settling? Married, and regretting it. Finding my wife and I are quite incompatible sexualy, and I often wonder whether I just gave up looking, and settled too early. I feel unwanted, and ...
A. 24 August 2006: I think if she cant stand to be touched by you, you should sit her dwn and have a long talk about where she would like to go in the relationship because she doesnt seem to want to go far.... (read in full...)
Don't care for the boys at school. Where are other places I can meet guys?
Q. I'm 14 and all the lads in my school are not boyfriend material. I'm looking for a boyfriend and don't go to any clubs. Where can I meet some nice guys other than school? thanks x x...
A. 24 August 2006: well when your 14 you think your looking for a boy who can stand by you and never let you go type of thing. This is what happends in a serious relationship. I think that you should wait untill you finished sckool and also boys that are 14 are mainly ... (read in full...)
I broke it off because she wouldn't tell her parents about us...
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend because she didn't tell her parents about us. I gave her almost 3 months to tell them she said she didn't know what they may say and that she is stupid. Did I do right? ...
A. 24 August 2006: i think you did do right because if shes not willing to tell anyone about you she shows that she embarresed of you and also shows that the relationship is not serious. ... (read in full...)
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