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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (26 August 2006):
 Was this your first time of sexual liasons ? Has this happend before... are you being a tad too vigourus ? if this is due to recently losing your virginity then its quite possible for this to happen a few times down the line, the body getting used to sex and all that! Or sometimes if you havent had sex for a while, and get back in the saddle so to speak with someone new it may happen a couple of times, but shouldnt be anything to alarming and should be happening alot all of the time.. But if this is something that has been recurring for a long time as Julliette says it could be a warning sign that something isnt quite right... Does this happen every time or is it around certain times of the month, do you know if its from one area, ie the entrance and is more spotting than bleeding, or is it from higher up ? If its more than spotting and this isnt because you are new to sexaul contact then i would pop along to your doctor or GUM clinic if you dont want the doctor to know, and get it checked out, it could all be pretty normal, but get it checked out just in case you need to have something looked into. Chances are its something pretty simple but now knowing your sexual history its a bit hard to advise what could be the likely cause. Around the time of the month we can spot after sexual intercourse that is pretty normal, so if its just a smearing i wouldnt be that concenred but if its a lot more then I would get this checked out to be on the safe side.
Take care x
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reader, layla +, writes (25 August 2006):
 i think this is normal and wouldt realy worry about it only if its happened for a long while then you should go and visit your gp. but personally i wouldnt worry. good luck. xx
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reader, bonym +, writes (25 August 2006):
 Are you tense? Were you a virgin at the time, or have you had sex before? If were not a virgin when you slept with this guy has the problem happened before? If you tell me a bit more I may be able to sugest what it could be but until you do I dont want to say it may be this or that when I dont know the full facts. Let me know. xXx
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reader, Juliette +, writes (25 August 2006):
 I don't wish to scare you inappropriately but you haven't said much to go on. Possibilities that spring to mind are: 1. Chlamydia is a sexually transmitted disease that you can catch from sex just once with a person who has it. One of the symptoms can be what is known as a friable cervix that bleeds as soon as it is touched. 2. You could have an erosion which is not really anything to worry about, it is a raw patch on the cervix that can bleed and is quite common. 3. Vigourous sex causing skin breaks. 4. Near a period or a bit of period at the wrong time.
In any event I advise you to go to your doctor or family planning clinic or sexual health clinic and get a swab done for chlamydia just in case.
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reader, SoNzZz +, writes (25 August 2006):
 this is normal...when you have sex you go through sexual intercourse and because your man`s penis is entering your vagina it causes ache and bleeds. dont worry this is normal
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