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writes:hi im a teen and i had a boyfriend and we broke up and after that he said he still liked me but was with another girl and after they finished i gave him oral sex and then 2 weeks later he went out another girl. Then whilst he was with this other girlfriend i did it again and a little later when i put my hand down there he sometimes let me but sometimes took it off he was messing with my head and he finished with his 2nd girlfriend and i gave him oral again but he gives me nothing in return he doesnt give me any praise for it and ive told him people think he is using me but he denies it he will kiss me and things but does pleasure me or say thanks. I love him too much to move on and the memories are too strong but i need help. I'm always the one who makes the moved first
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2006): You are setting yourself up for a life of hurt. Giving too much to get acceptance or love with nothing in return will only lead to loss of selfrespect and repeated mistakes with other partners. Give yourself some pleasure when you feel the need to be with someone who loves you until you meet a partner who sincerely does love you.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (27 August 2006):
 You will find a boyfriend soon and look back at this guy.
You will realise that he is a using loser, get rid now.
He probably cant believe his luck
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reader, bonym +, writes (26 August 2006):
 I agree with Layla and the anonymous poster below her, why do you keep doing it then, he is just having is caking and eating it too. He us using you, surely you can see that. Why continue to give him what he wants and then he goes off with other girls, I wouldnt allow him to do it to me thats for sure. My dear, dont allow yourself to be used.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2006): Nothing is really wrong here - I mean in terms of you. You're pleasuring him naturally because you love him. Possibly even have the hope that he would come back to you exclusively, and/or you're afraid of losing him altogether, so you continue to give him head...
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Well, I'm learning from Dr. Pete slowly and painfully (coupled with my lack of empathy at times), so what can u do? What do you want to do that is possible? Do you want to continue to give him pleasure while he dates and possibly sleep with other girls, or will you throw away all the things you two shared, and try to fill in that void with new hobbies and reaffirmations with your friends and new friends?
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reader, layla +, writes (25 August 2006):
 im sorry to say this but i think you should finish this relationship. if he likes you then why would he go with another girl, why would he not say thanx and not do the same back to you. i think this is because he wants all the pleasure to himself. soz i think you should leave him, i know this would be hard if you love him. i hope this helps life is hard. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2006): he is using you 4get about him now b4 it bcomes worse!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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