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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We love each other very much but lately we keep arguing, I dont know what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): Dear Argue Troubles,
I believe maybe you should find out what the problem is and try to work it out the best way possible. Find the core of the problem and take charge of it. Do not scream or yell Thats one thing that makes the argument worse. So next time a little argument breaks out just start laughing and say this is silly and i love you...
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reader, layla +, writes (25 August 2006):
 i think that you two should have a talk and if talking dont work then i would consider councelling. my sister and her husband have taken on councelling andthey are akting like they just met again. i hope this has helped you. good luck. you could also suprise him one night and do something special and see where you go from there. xx
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reader, Tine  +, writes (25 August 2006):
 do you think that maybe you are spending far too much time with your boyfriend?? if so then i think that its because you are with each other too much to have something to talk about. if you are with someone too much then you wont have anything different to talk about for example like what you did that day because your boyfriend was with you then he was goin ghtrough the exact same experience as you. How about spending time apart for a couple of days in the wk so that you are experiencing new things apart from each other then when ever you get together you have things to tlk about, then you'll not be able to argue because you'll be having a conversation.
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (25 August 2006):
 Maybe you are spending too much time together and are running out of things to talk about so you just keep arguing. You obviously love eachother very much but you both need to do some things on your own. Suggest to your boyfriend that you do some things apart from eachother then when you see eachother you will have missed each other and will have a lot more to talk about. This will stop the arguing. Good luck
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (25 August 2006):
 Maybe you're both getting a bit suffocated by the relationship so lash out at the other because you secretly want more space. Spend some time apart so that the time you spend together will be more valuable and you won't argue through it.
Is it both of you causing the rows? If it's just one of you, maybe they have issues inside themselves that need resolving. If it's you, speak to a counsellor about why you are feeling so angry. If it's him who initiates rows, speak to him and try and get him to seek some help.
If you would like a bit more advice, personal mail me a bit more detail. Good luck
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (25 August 2006):
 You've offered too little info for anyone to really help. Who is starting the arguments? What are you arguing about? - are two questions that come to mind that might help. It takes two to argue. Maybe you need some time away from each other. Give us the scope.
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