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writes:OKay, so I got invited to this party by a good friend of mine, which i know some okay friends will be going to. But the problem is is that my ex-girlfriend is going to be there, and i have no desire to see her until i am forced to by school (seeing as she pretty much tried [but failed] to publicly embarrass me and try to make my life a living hell). Also, my current girlfriend still feels a tiny bit that if i do become friends with my ex, then me and my ex would go run off together and be a couple agian. SHould I go to the party anyway and trouble my girlfriend? or do i not see my friends untill school?
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (25 August 2006):
 Friends are very important and your present girlfriend should understand this. You should go, but avoid yourex. Just stick with your mates and ignore her. Show her your not bothered. Make sure you reassure your now girlfriend that she is the one you want to be with but you also want to see your friends too. Goodluck
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reader, Yos  +, writes (25 August 2006):
 Perhaps you can take your new girlfriend to the party with you? Stay with her as much as you can during the party. She'll probably like to be with you and your friends, and your ex will see you together. If you two play it cool then she can't really do anything without it making her look bad. Hopefully she'll not do anything and you can start to put her behind you.
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (25 August 2006):
 Try getting your girlfriend to understand that there's not a hope in hell of you getting back with your ex (that's what I figure from the post anyway). Once she really believes that, she should have no problem at all.
If you do go to the party, have a good time! Your ex failed to screw things up for you before, I doubt she can do much more now. Enjoy yourself!
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reader, layla +, writes (24 August 2006):
 I think that you should wait until you go to school because of your recent girlfreind and how she would feel. sometimes ex's can trouble you. not saying that she might but just to be prepared.
p.s you can always invite your freinds to yours and see them then.
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reader, lucyloo135 +, writes (24 August 2006):
 hi hun
sorry to hear about your troubles, this is a tricky one but first of all you need to speak yo your current gilfriend tell her how you feel and how your ex tried to publicly embarrass you she will (hopefully) sense how upset you are by all this and understand how much it is bothering you and may even be ok with you going to this party.
also your current gilfriend needs to understand that you would like to spend time with your friends aswell as her. you need to determine if you would be up to going to the same party as your ex.
needless to say if you do dont let her spoil your fun ignore the comments or jokes she may make about you hold your head up high and walk away be the better man its her thats going to look the fool at the end of the day.
hope this helps and good look, lucy xxx
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