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writes:My fiancee wants to experiment with another girl, I see this as cheating, but also am quite turned on by the thought.She also wants a 3some with me and another girl, I just feel that seeing her being intimate with somebody else, end vice versa, could destroy what we have.What are your opinions on this?
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reader, bonym +, writes (29 August 2006):
 Well you are a brave man, I wouldnt allow my partner to do that, but each to their own as they say. Take care. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have decided to allow her to go with another female, but I do not want the 3some, she is curious about going with another girl, so I will accept that, but I do not want to be involved in it.
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (25 August 2006):
 A lot of people want to experiment but when you are in a relationship this is not a good idea. She is thinking it will be fun but when she sees you touching another woman she will think the oppositte. Persuade her to change her mind. Watch some porn together and bring some toys into the relationship to spice your sex life up a bit. Honestly don't give into her it will ruin things between you. Good luck
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reader, bonym +, writes (25 August 2006):
My opinion is that polygamy is wrong and monogamy is correct. You are right, it may well destroy what you have, I totally agree with you, it is a ludicrous idea, I personally would advise against it. Why introduce poison into a perfect remedy, i.e. introducing someone else to your relationship is like adding poison, it will destroy it. Do not do it that is my advice anyway. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2006): I don't think you should follow this route because it is too dangerous. You may destroy the intimacy between you and lose all trust. What if she thinks you are enjoying the other girl more than her, or you think she is getting more from the girl than she does from you? Are you being expected to watch or participate? Would she actually like you to have sex with another girl in front of her? I don't think she would afterwards, I think she would see you a whole other way.
What about you, by the way, how does this make you feel about yourself? I think I would be very upset and offended, but then that is me.
Why not introduce more fantasy into your sex life instead? It can be great fun to organise scenarios, close your eyes, invent things that are happening and talk about them. You need to be absolutely clear about the boundaries.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't really want to go with another girl, I am not sure I even could. I love my fiancee more than anything and she is the only one who does anything for me.
It has always been a fantasy of mine, but I think some fantasies should not become reality.
We are both terrified of losing each other.
As for my feelings about the other girl, I could only ever love my fiancee, she is the only one for me.
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reader, layla +, writes (24 August 2006):
 well i think that its up to you whehter you want to go with another girl, then yes. But if you dont want to go with the girl then no.
I think that it may destroy what you have depending on what you feel about the girl.
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (24 August 2006):
 Hey anon,
I reckon if you're having concerns about this now, then allowing it to go ahead could spell trouble. Although the idea of two girls getting it on, and a 3some may be your fantasies come true, I wonder how you'll actually cope with it, should it all happen as you describe.
Tread carefully and try and avoid being forced down a path you're not comfortable with,
Anon2907
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