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writes: my relationship with this girl to say the least started rocky,firstly i am a recovering alcoholic and willingly admit all of my wrongs and realise the trust and time thing,i have a 5 week old baby girl and accept the mother i would do the same.i have access at least.but i but feel she only used me to have the child in the 1st place.heres my reason,i never had any woman in my life. as in girlfriend hence i did,nt know how to treat them anyway,never mind throwing a child in and me being an alcoholic.i was working in my first long lasting job in a factory finally thought i found a job that suited me which it did.end up at a staff party,girl jumped on me and we went from there but thats not all.i used to go drinking heavily with her sister,who i might add introduced herself to me 1st again i might add,she also has a child but no father fighting for the child regardless if he is worst than me or not.they r twins.i hated 1st girl she loved me ,now visa versa.
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reader, layla +, writes (25 August 2006):
 i think that she didnt use you to have a baby i think she just wanted some attention. maybe she never wanted a baby in the first place, maybe she did. i think this had something to do with her sister. I think that you would make a good father by proving that you was determined to get what you want and that USED to be an alcholic and how determined you would be to see your child.
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (24 August 2006):
 I dont think she used you to have a baby I think she used you to have sex and to repay you for rejecting her sister. I think the baby was an accident but she decided to keep it. I think that just because you used to be an alcoholic you should still be able to see your baby. Prove to her that you are still seeking help and that you will never go down that track again. Explain to her how much you love your baby and how much she needs a father in her life. If she still doesn't let you see your child I think you should take it to court. Good luck
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