When do the birth control pills start working?
Q. I just started taking birth control pills today(Wednesday) and I'm going to be at my boyfriends house on Saturday. My Question(s) are: -Will the birth control pills start actually..working by then? -If I'm on Birth Control and he still DOES Use a...
A. 16 April 2009: Birth control usually only becomes active between 2 weeks to a month after you start using it. I went to the clinic to get mine and they said 2 weeks but I've also read it takes a month so be careful Birth contol also is 92% effective. So yo... (read in full...)
Can you give me advice on how to leave Brent?
Q. THIS IS WORTH READING. Please help me out, I'm in a VERY tight spot. Thank you for taking a look at my pitiful problem. This one is kinda messed up. The main problem here is, Ive always liked this one guy but he's been a kinda player(so to s...
A. 19 January 2009: I really feel bad for you. You've had to go through a lot of terrible stuff from ( putting this nicely ) 2 asses.
You can't right what happened in the past (the abortion) but you can do something to improve your future. Leave them both and stay... (read in full...)
My mom made us break up
Q. Ok well I feel like I'm totally in love with this boy but I'm 13 and he's 15. He told me he loves me and he wanted to meet my mom so she wouldn't b scared about me liking someone older. We r not dating but we were. When we broke up cuz my mom said ...
A. 13 January 2009: I know there you coming from. Its hard when both or just one parent comes in the way of your relatyionship. There's no actual advice somebody can give you because only you actually know your mother and how she might react. But best you can do ... (read in full...)
Am I doing something wrong dating him I'm 17, he's 27
Q. Well I am a 17 year old girl soon turning into 18 and the guy whom I am in a relation is 27 year old. And only thing that strikes in my mind is that am I doing anything wrong? As the matter of fact love is blind. But still I think there is too long ...
A. 3 January 2009: There is nothing wrong with dating somebody who is older than you. My grandparents are 10 years apart and they have been marred for like 49 years.
As long as you happy go for it. And make the most of your time together... (read in full...)
I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???
Q. Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...
A. 15 December 2008: I agree with everybody no means no.
Leave her alone.
And why are you trying to have sex with her if she your cousin?
Stop just thinking about the sex and think about what could happen after you have sex and respect her wishes... (read in full...)
Will my young mistress ever come back? I plan on getting divorced...
Q. ok so here it goes . We met @ work and still work together. we dated for about a year during the time i was and still am married with 2 kids. just last month she says she can`t do this anymore and the reasons she gave was all over the board, from ...
A. 13 September 2008: If I was her i wouldn't go back. Sounds mean but thats how it is.
Imagine you were in her position you in a relationship with a person who is marrid and you tell them you love them and they say they not happy in there marriage yet they don't leav... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a guy but he prefers my sister!
Q. hey i had this huge crush on a guy in school very soon we became friends and he started coming home..i thought he liked me but its only later i found out that he has the hots for my elder sister..he had a crush on her since a long time and became ...
A. 16 June 2008: Honestly there is nothing you can do. I've been in your situation, except in my case its the guy always wants my younger sister. I've had 2 guys leave me for her and it sucks big time.
I know all the feeling you are going through, and there is... (read in full...)
He wants me back but isnt sure what to do with the girl he is dating now? Help!
Q. Well, I recently posted up stuff about my x and i... WELLLL... We ended up sort of working things out and now out of random we got into one little fight and now he is dating some 16 year old? OUT OF RANDOM!!!! That day he asked her out he was ...
A. 9 June 2008: Get rid of this guy. He is just playing you and he is going to carry on doing it to get a reaction out of you.
Any guy who will leave you for a another girl at the drop of a hot clearly does not love you. ... (read in full...)
Will I ever find that special girl, who's never had sex with anyone before me??
Q. Why does it seem like the whole world is having sex, when I've lived for 19 years and am still a virgin? My friends that I've known for many years are all in these serious relationships with girls that they liked for so long, and are now constantly ...
A. 6 June 2008: There are still girls who are virgins. I know I'm one. There are so many girls who go to school with me that have already had sex and many of them have had pregancy scares.
You probably will still find a girl who is still a virgin, if she resp... (read in full...)
How do I show my boyfriend I love him?
Q. how can i show my boyfriend that i love him? we are dating for 2 years and 3 months. i do tell him that i love him but i feel that it is not enough. ...
A. 3 June 2008: Do small things unexpectedly. Like send him a sms at like 6 in the morning or tell him to come over and make him his favourite meal.
... (read in full...)
My uncle asked me out, and we've talked about having sex, but I have some questions.
Q. Hey, im having trouble with a major issue in my life. My uncle asked me out and i like him a lot so I said yes. But we keep it a secret so he can spend the night. He is six years older than me. We talked about having sex, but I'm scared it will hurt ...
A. 27 May 2008: What you are doing is illegal in so many ways. First he is your uncle, wheather you love him or not, that does not change and he can be convicted for involving a minor in a incestious relationship. Second you are under 18 so having sex with him... (read in full...)
Can circumcision be reversed?
Q. i have a girlfriend and we been together for like 6 months and were planning on having sex but i have a circumsised penis....can i asked a docter to uncircumsise is or no??...
A. 27 May 2008: Your like 12, at 12 I was playing hide and seek and tag with friends not thinking what sex it.
You have your whole life ahead of you why have sex now. The longer you wait the more worth while it will be the day you give yourself to somebody that... (read in full...)
My legs cramp when an orgasm builds? Why?
Q. Thanks to some advice I'd been given from one of the Uncles on this site, I've finally started to orgasm and its wonderful! But, this that I'm about to mention has always happened and seems to still happen... Whenever I felt I might orgasm before, I ...
A. 20 January 2008: I spoke to somebody that I know and according to them its a sign of a zink Deficiency. I suggest asking your doctor to be sure. Incase its something serious.... (read in full...)
What do guys look for in girls?
Q. What do guys look in girls? ive never had a boyfriend as im not very pretty. Also how do you know if a guy does fancy you?...
A. 16 January 2008: From a girls point of view I think every guy looks at different things. Some go for looks, others personality.
As for how you can tell if a guy likes you it can be that he looks at you a lot and if you look at him he suddenly looks away. Other ti... (read in full...)
What makes you are Virgin?
Q. Okay so i have a question about what makes you a virgin. I know that different people fell different ways about this subject but i want opinions. I havent had sex but i have given oral, and hand jobs, and i have been fingered. Am I still considered ...
A. 15 January 2008: Its up to you and what you believe in. Some believe that you only loose your virginity if the penis enters the vigina. Others feel that you loose your virginity when you have any sexual contact.
Personally I believe that you only loose your vir... (read in full...)
I was born with a condition called micropenis which means my dick is smaller than 0.5 inch erect - a very small size.
Q. Hey, I was born with a condition called micropenis which means my dick is smaller than 0.5 inch erect - a very small size. I'm 37 years old now, so I can't expect my penis to grow for me even a few mm. My penis is also bent severely to the left...
A. 14 January 2008: I really feel bad for you what those women did was just mean to put it nicely. The best you can do is go to a specialist who has experience with your type of problem. Here in South Africa the Blacks believe in a root that they say makes your penis ... (read in full...)
How early can I take a pregnancy test? Do I HAVE to wait until my next period?
Q. Hi. On Friday night I had unprotected sex, which I know was stupid and everything, but now I'm worried I could be pregnant. I was just wondering whats the earliest I could possibly take the test?? I'd only just come off my period when we did it, ...
A. 14 January 2008: You can take a home pregnancy test 2 weeks after you had sex. That is not always 100% effective. The most effective way is a blood test which I think you can take at the same time
good luck... (read in full...)
Why do men need to watch porn and how should I handle my husband's preference to pornography?
Q. Why do men need to watch porn? Every time i go away from home my husband masturbates and watch porn,even if we had sex 2-3 times during the week. It makes me feel uncertain about his love for me. I have told him that but now he does it when I am not ...
A. 11 January 2008: Maybe be wants to have sex more. I don't believe he is cheating on you because if he was he would not be watching it but going out and having it.
I have asked guys that I know why they do it and they say its to gain experience and see how to p... (read in full...)
According to his rules, he's allowed to sleep with other girls, but I cannot sleep with other guys. If I went along with his idea what does this say about me?
Q. My ex and I have been seeing each other for awhile now. I REALLY like him, maybe even love him. He has said that he cares about me a lot, more than any other girl. We're not committed to each other although I do have deep feelings for him and I ...
A. 11 January 2008: There is no way you can even think of being in a relationship like that. Not only can he get a girl pregnant but he can get AIDS. And if you shave sex after he contracted it before he knows he has it, you WILL get it. And i'm sure you don't w... (read in full...)
Met a man online, he's much older and suggested that I lose virginity to him! I am not sure what to do.
Q. hi i have meet this man online. at first he used to annoy me but now he is easy to talk to and a right laugh. he is very forward though and has never hid the fact that he likes me. he has given me confidence about my hourglass size 14 figure...
A. 11 January 2008: Don't even think about meeting him. I chat on chat-sites alot and have met many weird ppl. Even ppl who have asked to marry me.
Its easy to lie on the internet and good chance he is lying. You can keep chatting to him but what eva you do don't meet... (read in full...)
How does a man feel if a woman he's with for the first time tells him of her desire and that she wants to be satisfied without delay? Should I feel so embarassed?
Q. I am feeling a bit embarrassed about something I did last night and would really like to know the opinions of some of you wise strangers. I have been dating a man for about 3 months now. I had told him up front that I did not want to rush into a ...
A. 11 January 2008: There's nothing wrong with it. Just wait till he gets off work and call him. Its the only way you will get an answer. If he thinks its strange that you wanted him so bad the best thing to do would be explain the whole thing to him.
good luck... (read in full...)
He only wanted cyber sex with me! But I still want to be his friend..what should I do?
Q. i encountered an old boyfriend. I'm 40. Now back then I was 15. He was really excited and he gave me all of his phone numbers so we chatted. A week went by and he decided to stop talking to me. I'm married he's married. In the beginning he only ...
A. 8 January 2008: he's not worth it. You're married and it would be wrong for you do have cyber sex with somebody that's not your husband. In a way he's cheating on his wife by having cyber sex. If he only wants you for the cyber sex then you should forget ab... (read in full...)
Will he react the same as before?
Q. I'm pregnant. He is not my boyfriend, we used to date, he is 29 yrs older than me. He got me pregnant before and he convinced me to have an abortion, he said we could have probably babies in the future but not at that time. I haven't told him yet ...
A. 7 January 2008: I really feel for you. This is not something you can go through on your own. By law as far as I know he can't ask you to leave the company and he can't fire you just cos you pregnant with his child.
Most important is do you can this child. I... (read in full...)
I accepted my husband back but I feel I am doing all the effort!
Q. for 2 yrs since my husband's dad died he has changed new job, selfish, wanted to do what he wants,lies. Anyway I finally kicked him out. 6 months later we are back together trying to work things out but i feel I am doing all the effort. A smal...
A. 6 January 2008: I understad what you must be going through even if I'm young. You tried to give him another chance and you are still trying from the sounds of it.
But it does not sound like he even cares. It also sounds like he is cheating on you.
Only thin... (read in full...)
He drove 5000 miles to see me (that's a long way!) Should I have let him m ove in with me?
Q. hello, i have been chatting on line with this really great guy for about a month now. its like we think the same and get along great. i have chatted with him on the phone a few times. well he drove over 5000 miles to meet me. he has family , not ...
A. 6 January 2008: A month is a short time. You shoult talk to him first make sure that he can get a job where you live. And that moving to where you live won't upset his life and job.
If he can get a job you could give it a try. You son't really have anything... (read in full...)
I'm shy - how do I get her number?
Q. im 20 and i like the 17year old cashier that works at the same store as me, its a little "corner store" type place. My problem is im too shy to actually ask her on a date or for her number, i can talk to her and make jokes with her but i just cant ...
A. 6 January 2008: It might sound a little silly but you could ty writing her secret admirer notes. Some girls find it sweet.
ask her to reply to your note and put it in the same place.
You can just write letters for a little while and once you have enough confi... (read in full...)
Will he react the same as before?
Q. I'm pregnant. He is not my boyfriend, we used to date, he is 29 yrs older than me. He got me pregnant before and he convinced me to have an abortion, he said we could have probably babies in the future but not at that time. I haven't told him yet ...
A. 6 January 2008: You should first decide for yourself do you want this child. If you do tell him you prgant and you keeping the baby if he likes it or not. If you don't want the baby then you should tell him anyway and see how he feels.
You both were involved... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with losing weight and have started to skip meals. Mother is against it, what should I do?
Q. This isn't a usual question, but... I started skipping meals and chewing and spitting out food when I was 13 (I'm 15) and now all I can think about is losing weight. Just 10 lbs, though. My mom told me not to lose weight, and now my friends are t...
A. 3 January 2008: Why do you want to lose weight? If its cos you are alot over weight then itts a good idea but if not you playing a dangerous game. If you are over weight DON'T skip meals its the worst thing you do. Eat healthy lots of fruits and vegtables and ea... (read in full...)
He slept with THREE different women while on a road trip. His excuse was "He had needs". I'm very hurt. What should I do?
Q. this past summer my boyfriend went on a month long road trip with his buddies. i stayed home to work for tuition money, so i couldnt go along. he called me everyday and we talked for a while. i never suspected anything bad was going on. but just a ...
A. 1 January 2008: Dump him. Don't think twice.
If he really cared about you he would never had done that. What if he did not use protection and got a STD that he passed on to you. You still young you can get a beter guy. Dump him and get it over with.
If he c... (read in full...)
I have a long problem. Please help me.
Q. I no longer know what to do. I feel as though my BF and I are getting inside this never ending suffering... Ok, I'm 19. He's 22. I have asked for help with this before, but even though he says it hasn't I feel this has gotten worse. He has is...
A. 1 January 2008: Thats long and very confusing.You and your bf have had many problems in the past not just with each other but also privatly.
You guys have to sit down and maybe spend a day trying to talk everything out. Be completely honest and add how your sel... (read in full...)
My husband has molested our daughter for years. What should I do now?
Q. I would like your opinion on this serious issue. I was in bed with my husband over 20 years ago when my daughter, then aged about 2, climbed into be between us. After some time, I noticed my husband was getting aroused and I thought he was masturba...
A. 30 December 2007: You should get our daughter to see somebody as soon as you can. And you can still lay a charge against her father even if it happened years ago.
I was molested when I was about 3 ad thankfully my mom got me out of the situation. But when I was ol... (read in full...)
I am so scared to ask boys out because I feel they will reject me.
Q. I am scared to ask boys out as i am afraid they will say no. because i am fat and ugly. I don't know what to do. I always have this same dream about going out with this boy i really fancy and we end up kissing in the end. but to make matters worse. ...
A. 30 December 2007: Don't worry about asking boys out you still young. Enjoy your life now.
I think i'm ugly too but amazingly there's a guy who actually thinks I'm sweet and sexy. I'm sure there is a guy out there who thinks you as a person is amazing. It might not ... (read in full...)
Who thinks I am being played for a fool??
Q. Hello all. Here goes: I'm a 37 year-old woman who's been dating a "separated" man (he's 41) for 8 months now. He has 2 minor children (ages 5 and 7) and has been married for 8 years. He lives alone. She lives w/another man. I know it sounds i...
A. 30 December 2007: To a certain point you are being played. Sounds like he might be going through a devorce but its not very clear cos if somebody wanted to be devorced so badly then they would not allow the paper work to sit for so long.
You should sit down wit... (read in full...)
I have a lump bigger than a grape in my vagina and I'm really scared, what could it be?
Q. im so scared and i have tried to research this but don't know what is wrong with me, can somebody please help!! My vagina has been swolen and sore for the past week or so, and i got green thick discharge the other day too. I thought i had a ...
A. 29 December 2007: Go see a doctor its the best thing to do. I don't think its a STD but next time both you and your partner go for STD tests before starting a sexual relationship.
Its the only way to be sure. But most important go see a doc as soon as you can.
goo... (read in full...)
Who do I contact to separate from my wife, 3 months after the marriage? Will I lose the house? Can I banish her?
Q. hiya any help on what to do next ive got to get out of this relationship i will start from the beginning, my girlfriend and her son (not mine) moved into my house about two years ago all seemed great she did not pay for any bills as said she had ...
A. 29 December 2007: I agree with the last poster. from the start it sounds like she is just using you. go see a lawyer as soon as you can, don't think twice about it.
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I'm a virgin but my girlfriend is not. I hear that it would be wrong if she took my virginity, but I don't think it is. What is your opinion?
Q. me and my girl friend are both 14, we love echother a lot. even at this age. we have been told it's real, a few time's so we think it is....... but she is not a vergin and i am.......would it be wrong if she took my verginity? i wont do eny...
A. 28 December 2007: Its not wrong it happens every day. But You both are really young. Sex at your age is silly. At your age there is alot of better things to do.
Stay a virgin as long as you can or till you get married you will appreciat it more if you wait.
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My boyfriend has been cheating and now possibly has 2 other children beside our son. I'm really tired and confused now, how do I work this out?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I have been on and off for alittle over 4 years. We've both cheated and forgave each other and I thought we moved on but a few months ago we moved out of town together and he cheated. Then I found out that he may have two ...
A. 28 December 2007: If he really loved you he would not have cheated on you again. first you both cheaed and forgave each other, but he did it again and that just means he will keep on doing it because there's nothing stopping him.
It sounds terrible and i really f... (read in full...)
I have an annoying little Sister--how should I deal with her?
Q. I have a younger sister who is always getting on my nerves. She is always taking and using my stuff without asking first. This may not seem like much but after a while it does get on your nerves, especially if your parents don't do anything about ...
A. 22 December 2007: I know what you going through. MY sister is just as bad if not worse. She is always giving attitude and when I say some thing about it its me that gets in trouble. Even when I just stay quiet i'm in trouble.
Its a normal thing, the youngest... (read in full...)
I told my best friend she hurt my feelings when she mentioned her love and even forbade them to kiss in front of me. Now I feel guilty for all that happened and need advice about how to react in the future.
Q. I'm a 21 year old guy in a 3 way relationship gone from bad to hell. I have had trouble with friends in the past..who betrayed me..or just used me..things like that, so i never wanted many friends just a few good ones. That's how things were a year ...
A. 21 December 2007: I feel for you, the situation you are in is not healthy.
I know you love her but is she worth the pain you going though? If you really ment that much to her as she says you do don't you think that she you concider how you felt when you asked them... (read in full...)
I'm worried that I won't find anyone to lose my virginity with
Q. I know I'm only 15, but I am really starting to worry that I will never lose my virginty. It's not that I don't want to, it's because I don't think that anyone would ever want to have sex with me! People at my school think I'm really wierd and don't ...
A. 19 December 2007: Be proud to still be a virgin. Having sex before marriage causes alot of problems trust me. Me and my bf have not even slept together and he has threatened not to visit me cos i said no to him. You will find a guy that is crazy about you i know. ... (read in full...)
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