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writes:i encountered an old boyfriend. I'm 40. Now back then I was 15. He was really excited and he gave me all of his phone numbers so we chatted. A week went by and he decided to stop talking to me. I'm married he's married. In the beginning he only wanted to talk about sex. I declined to talk about that i thought he really liked me. Now he told me he wants to end our relationship he wanted just to be only lover via e mail without touching. I still want to be his friend but he refuses Reply to this Question
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reader, DollyShot +, writes (8 January 2008):
If that's ALL he wants from you, then obviously it's a conflict of interest, unfortunately. Especially if he says he wants to end your relationship because you DON'T want to be his email lover? What kind of friendship is that? Your time is best spent NOT worrying about such a fellow.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 You cannot force a horse to drink water if he is not thirsty.Your wants and needs are different.He did not find what he wanted from you and he is afraid of being a friend to you, can lead to extra marital affairs.It is better to remove those temptations. End of the chapter of this book. Move on.
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reader, Landie  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 he's not worth it. You're married and it would be wrong for you do have cyber sex with somebody that's not your husband.In a way he's cheating on his wife by having cyber sex. If he only wants you for the cyber sex then you should forget about him. Cos if you give in just once he will always want that.
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