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*hona18
writes:Well I am a 17 year old girl soon turning into 18 and the guy whom I am in a relation is 27 year old. And only thing that strikes in my mind is that am I doing anything wrong? As the matter of fact love is blind. But still I think there is too long age gap. Talking about him he is a very caring person he takes care of me very well and most important thing he loves me truely, but he wants to marry me after 4 years. So is it ok after 4 years?Please help me out!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Shona18 +, writes (3 January 2009):
Shona18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks a lot!!!!
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reader, Shona18 +, writes (3 January 2009):
Shona18 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for suggesting me it has really helped to solve my problem!Thanks once again...
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reader, Landie  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 There is nothing wrong with dating somebody who is older than you. My grandparents are 10 years apart and they have been marred for like 49 years.
As long as you happy go for it. And make the most of your time together
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 I dont think there is anything wrong with the age gap you have if you are fixing to turn 18 . dont worry about what others think and if you Love him go ahead do so freely and dont feel guilty .
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reader, loner +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Hello there, a 10 year age difference is not much, my sister married a guy 14 years older, he has 3 kids by his exwife. They seem really happy together, and he takes care of her too. Im dating a guy 12 years older then myself, he happens to be devoiced, sometimes i think or feel that i mean nothing to him, as he is pull hurting that he wife left him in such a horrible way. Although i mean the world to him and he means the same to me. If you really love him wait 4 years to get married to him. I believe age is just a number, older not younger.
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Love has no boundaries. Age does not matter. How old is Tom Cruise 45 and Katie Holmes 26?
As long as you are consenting adults and as long as you genuinely love each other then where is the age gap?
People denounce and even mocked at age gap because they envy oh yes deep in their hearts I should be the one right there. But they cant, so they have this crab like mentality.
The time to marry is not measured in years, months and days. What is important is love. There could be a marraige but there is an absence of love. Love is important and that should be your focus.
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