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*ohnye
writes:Hey,I was born with a condition called micropenis which means my dick is smaller than 0.5 inch erect - a very small size. I'm 37 years old now, so I can't expect my penis to grow for me even a few mm. My penis is also bent severely to the left, which I understand to be the Pelagius disease. So far, I have had 15 girlfriends, but never married, as they have all scattered at the sight of my small, bent, crooked and sore penis. All of the girlfriends I had loved me dearly, and, I can assure you are the best I will ever find, they were worth it, they were just scared of my penis and scared it may damage their reputation if anyone found out. Additionally to this, I also possess a damaged self confidence. As well as 15 loving girlfriends, I've had 3 teasing, uncaring lovers, all of whom had a great method of suggesting sex, getting me excited, and then not delivering the goods at the sight of my penis - a great impact on my self esteem.I've spoken to both my G.P and my doctor, but they both seem to think there's nothing that can be done to fix my bent, micro penis. I've used cream and oils to cure the soreness and redness of my penis (a result of the constant teasing, hence erection from my three past uncaring girlfriends), but nothing has worked. I've searched the web, but found no resources that are of any use, I've contacted a sexologist but they never turned up and I've even gone into consulting, but I was forced out for being too embarrassing (I also have a penis condition which causes me to urinate unexpectedly). Desperately, I asked one of my closest friends for advice - they advised me to go to a penis building club, at least they said it was a penis building club - truly it was a swimming club, and I was forced to hit the showers, only to face ridicule and shame, due to my little man.As a penultimate resort, I decided to try penis building pills, and go in for surgery that could straighten my embarrasingly bent penis, but, the pills made no difference, and I could not afford the surgery. I have also taken herbal teas and remedies known for increasing penis size, only to be let down again.In great need, now, I have turned to you. PLEASE HELP!
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reader, tabitha1  +, writes (24 July 2010):
http://www.theage.com.au/news/World/Man-gets-new-chance/2005/04/10/1113071851548.html
i found this story couldnt find much else on it but sounds promising for your situation
hang in there!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): Hi there!
I am a middle age male with a similar condition (2 in.).
I do not think that any ''miracle'' solution exist so acceptance is the key for guys like us in order to live a ''peaceful life''. Easily said but not easily done !
If I can provide you comfort, there are more women out there than we think that will accept and live happy with such a condition. In my case I met one many years ago and the only thing that she was concerned about was infertility. We now have children and the size of my penis is not an issue for her. There are many ways to give pleasure to a woman (tongue, fingers, toys, ... and a 2 in penis). Pleasure for a man is mainly physical but it is not the same for a woman. Do not forget that, for women, pleasure starts in their heads. If they are feeling loved and respected you have got more that half of the job done!
I do admire you for having been able to open yourself to more than 15 women. I do not have that self confidence. I did it only once and when I was entirely sure that her feelings for me were strong and true. It is silly but I sometimes regret the fact that I had sex with only one person in my entire life.
Good luck and keep searching... I am sure that you will find the right person for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): First off, any stuff you find on the net for penis enlargement is a scam. There will be no creams, pills etc that work because if they did EVERY MALE would take them.
There are surgery options, but they are extremely drastic, this ain't like a boobjob and consequently very expensive.
Try and find a support group, just a simple google will tell you that there are plenty of others. Dealing with issues like this is always easier when you know you are not alone.
As for the girlfriends, well better of without them, but at least you are not shy, you are obviously good enough to get this many girls to even consider having sex with you. Keep at it, someday you will find the right person. Rejection over something you cannot help must really suck, but don't let it get you down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): Really feel for u buddy, but never fear, sweet salvation is here!!
a hospital in london, called the university college hospital, they did a micro penis surgical trail in 2006 i think.
they managed to construct a 6 inch penis from skin from the forearm and incorparated ur own penile tissues with it to maintain sensations in the penis.
check the site out: http://www.newscientist.com/article.ns?id=dn6761
hope this helps you.
all the very best
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): Just think of all the blokes who have had their balls removed. They can't even get a hard on. If you can still function, then that is 10 times better then a disfunctional 8"er. Try and find a website dedicated to women who have a fetish regarding your condition. You may be suprised what you find. There all all sorts of strange people out there with wierd kinks. I would reckon that is your best bet. There has to be a tiny willie admireres club somewhere OR you could always go to thialand and get a mail order girl. These women will love you and do anything no matter what if you can offer them a better way of life. So there are 2 leads for you and there are people who are worse off than yourself.
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reader, Cherriepie  +, writes (22 January 2008):
 Hi Hunny. You didnt mention your weight, but that could be a factor too. I had a boyfriend who lost sixty pounds and gained quite a bit in his penis length. Weight loss is the single healthiest way to gain length there. After that I would look into surgury, but i cant tell you much about that....you need to do some homework.
Please be strong. DOnt let this shake your confidence. You got to find a good girl who will love you fist and not worry about your penis. There are other ways besides intercourse to make a girl happy. You have two hands and a tongue. And the biggest sex organ you or anyone has got is your brain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): stay strong. dont worry what all bitch say. you only get one life live to its fullest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): Okay, first of all, let me honestly say that I would probably not have sex with you either...but that doesn't mean I'm not attracted to you or find you less of a man. :) I think maybe these girls feel that maybe you won't fulfill thier sexual needs. There are other ways than vaginal-penile intercourse to feel pleasure, such as oral, manual, etc. Get into a truly loving relationship that grows and matures, and then lay it on easy. Explain your condition, but let her know that she won't lack in the pleasure department, and not to worry about you, you know? If my boyfriend couldn't have vaginal-penile sex with me, I wouldn't really mind...he can please me other ways. Can you still have children? That's another question. lol. Happy hunting, so to speak.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): I too have a small penis (2 in) and I've had the rejection. Firstly - YOU ARE NOT ALONE. There are many men out there who have a similar problem. I know how much it can dent you self confidence, I've been there.
It is about learning to accept it, its not easy and every set back takes you back again but you can and will become strong enough to be confident about yourself. There are plenty of things that you can do to please a woman without needing to use you penis and I'm sure that one day you will find someone who trully cares about you and will not be so hurtful. When you do find them, talk to them as soon as you feel comfortable. I know its not exactly a winning chatup line but it is essential to be up front rather than leaving it to the last moment.
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reader, Landie  +, writes (14 January 2008):
 I really feel bad for you what those women did was just mean to put it nicely. The best you can do is go to a specialist who has experience with your type of problem. Here in South Africa the Blacks believe in a root that they say makes your penis bigger i don't know how true it is.
I'm sorry for what those whomen put you throuth and its there own lose because you sound like a sweet nice guy who could make a women happen by just spending time with here/
You could try go to a specialist thats the only thing I can think of.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): I think you could possibly have it surgically enlarged (perhaps more research needed) although it may not necessarily function to become erect - possibly defeating the whole point. I think you should concentrate on the surgical route and make your search global. I hope you find a solution as, with so much hi-tech cosmetic surgery going on these days there should be nobody suffering in the way you are. Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 January 2008):
 I am very sorry to hear of your conditions. All those penis enlargement pills or creams are con jobs. Since you have already tried all the methods except surgery , you should come to terms with your conditions.
I hope and pray some day , you will find a kind and loving woman who would love you for who you are.
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