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writes:me and my girl friend are both 14, we love echother a lot. even at this age.we have been told it's real, a few time's so we think it is.......but she is not a vergin and i am.......would it be wrong if she took my verginity? i wont do enything with her till i know she trust's me completly.i hear that it would be wrong if she did. but i dont think so. you'r opinion?thank's Reply to this Question
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reader, x-Happy-Feet-x  +, writes (29 December 2007):
 well im underage and if you want to know sumfin my boyfiend is 14 i am 13 and weve been together 1 year and i love him so much he takes me out and looks after me buys me presents and hes lovely i wouldnt never leave him we had sex but he had alredy lost his virginity so he says but i did trust him alot and he trusted me we had sex but yes it was a mistake i learnt from that im still with him i no we was young but i think it was a silly move but i dont think this is wrong once its gone its gone and tell you the truth i dont regret it x hope this helps
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reader, XxBxX +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Tbh honey, i think your a bit too young. But then again thats my opinion and its not my life. Plus, if you loose your virginity to this girl whom, yes i can see you love alot, you dont know whether you will spend the rest of your life with/a long time together. Virgnity is a precious thing and should be cherished, once lost is lost forever.
I advise you wait.
xxx
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reader, soldierred +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Ok I know you are getting a lot of replies to waiting, and 14 yes you should wait at least a few more year. But on the other hand the real question is can she take your virginity. It is not advisable when you take some ones virginity your taking every emotion they have especially being so young. I did this once it was a mess.
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reader, deejayanna +, writes (28 December 2007):
 14 is sooo youngit would be silly to lose your virginaty at this agewait and look back in a few years and realise you did the right thing to wait14 is to young to start having sex
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reader, red1982 +, writes (28 December 2007):
It's not wrong for a woman to take a mans virginity society just makes us feel that it should be the other way round.That said I think you are both too young to be making decisions like this. Sex at 14 is illegal for good reason. You may end up regretting it for the rest of your life, especially if she becomes pregnant - young girls are very fertile and often not aware of the consequences of having a baby so young. If I were you I would stop worrying about the sex part of a relationship until you're both a little older and concentrate on having fun together. Good luck to you both.
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reader, kenny +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Maybe its not want you want to hear but i think you should wait. Virginity is a precious thing and should be kept for as long as possibe and lost with someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with. Wait it out, you are both still so young, go out have fun, enjoy being 14 and leave the sex stuff till later. Later on in life you will look back and be glad you waited.
All the best
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reader, Landie  +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Its not wrong it happens every day. But You both are really young. Sex at your age is silly. At your age there is alot of better things to do.
Stay a virgin as long as you can or till you get married you will appreciat it more if you wait.
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