My boyfriend says he loves me but insults and criticizes me. I am so confused!
Q. well its like this. i had this relationship with fazmi at first. we had the affair for about ten or eleven months. we truly loved each other. but we had to break up because my mum got to know about our relationship and she made a big mess. but i tr...
A. 5 April 2011: I think that you need to tell him how you feel and if nothing changes then I would say break up. I don't see how saying you still love your ex girlfriend is a joke and I think he possibly still does love his ex and thats why he got touchy about the ... (read in full...)
My friend bought his girlfriend a puppy even though they fight all the time
Q. My guy friend who ive known for a while now hes like a brother to me, cheated on his girlfriend maybe about 6 months ago. There on and off, they fight all they time, his girlfriend says she doesn't trust him or believe him but she still spends most ...
A. 31 March 2011: I know hes a friend but you have to leave them to it. He's unhappy but hes with her because he loves her and vice versa. I think they're trying to make this relationship work and until they're both ready to admit defeat and ditch the relationship ... (read in full...)
My family won't allow me to date, so how can I stop thinking about it?
Q. Hey I'm really very confused because...some boys love me...and I cannot say yes to them because I am scared of my family and teachers too..so in this situation what should I do now????? Because my family and the teachers won't allow me to do ...
A. 31 March 2011: Aww sweeti teen years can be tough. If this boy doesn't have a good character then it's not worth pursuing. I think that your parents and your teacher are concerned about your studies as your school years are crucial. You've said that it's affect... (read in full...)
I cant choose between the older boy or the boy I have been in love with for ages.....what should I do?
Q. Hi there. I'm 13 years old and I'm in Year 9. I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Between two boys. I'll call them Boy A and Boy B. Boy A has been my best friend since Year 8, even though he's in the year above me. He's one of the funniest, kindest and most ...
A. 30 March 2011: Hey sweeti, I think Boy A as you would put it is a lost cause. Although he's said your beautiful etc he's already said he sees you as a friend even though that was a while ago i would think it still stands unless he says that he's interested in yo... (read in full...)
He broke up because he didn't want the hassle of a girlfriend anymore
Q. About 10 weeks ago my bf broke up with me after nearly 2 years of being together. His reason? He didnt want the hassle of a gf anymore, wanted to do what he wants when he wants. Basically he wanted space. He is a huge mummys boy and plays footy and ...
A. 30 March 2011: I think no contact would be better in this case and if you talk to him and tell him how you feel he should respect the way you feel. He does want to have his cake and eat it and as much as you love him you shouldn't let him treat you this way. ... (read in full...)
Facebook guy trying to make me do stuff!
Q. my name is matthew and im having trouuble online on facebook with this boy he's trying to make to do stuff on cam and he is asking me to have sex with him and im not gay and i dont know what to do if anyone can help me it would be appriciated ...
A. 30 March 2011: Tell him your not that way inclined. If he still persists just delete him and block him that way he wouldn't be able to talk to you let alone view your profile. You don't need to be hassled in this way. Good luck xoxoxox... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher... I think?
Q. basically i have a obsession with my teacher. whenever hes behind me i feel sick and like im going to faint, when i'm in his class i'm quiet but he doesn't notice me? he notices the naughty ones, should i start being naughty? and well to finish this ...
A. 29 March 2011: Sweetie everyone has crushes. You have to remember he's your teacher and even if your teacher did show some interest in the wrong way he could lose his job and he wouldn't be able to get a job anywhere else either. I would delete his picture. Don't ... (read in full...)
Should I try, even though it may be short and unenjoyable?
Q. I have known this girl 4 a long time now,i like her and i think she likes me too. I want 2 ask her out but my fear is dat the relationship might be short and unenjoyable. should i express my feelings 4 her or not, even though the relationship might ...
A. 26 March 2011: Ask her out you can't shoot down a relationship that hasn't even started. If we all did that we would be very lonely. Stop thinking about the negatives and think about the positives to this relationship.
xoxoxox... (read in full...)
Can I trust my online gf who I have never met? I even doubt sometimes that she is a girl!!
Q. Hello first thanks for reading me and a girl met online. i met her while she was waiting for a boy that she said loved him. first she met him, so i hung out with her for sometime. then she started to love me but i used to love somebody else. i ...
A. 26 March 2011: I don't think she is the girl in the pics. Shes either self conscious and posted another pic or shes just given you another pic. Other wise she would go on cam to prove that she is who she says she is.
I don't mean to be harsh but i think you shou... (read in full...)
I always help out my partner if I can, he never returns the favor!
Q. I’ve been with my partner for 2 years. Neither of us earn a lot. I live within my means, so does he, but sometimes things happen that you didn’t budget for. I always try to help him out financially if necessary. He’ll tell me about the problem and ...
A. 26 March 2011: It's not unreasonable at all however you have been the one to offer him that life line. So maybe he doesn't feel obliged to help you even though he said yes to your offer. Just bare this in mind next time he has a money problem don't feel obliged to ... (read in full...)
He says we need to stay away from each other for 2 months, does he love me?
Q. I have been going out with this guy for a for a month now. We slept together twice, since that day he has been telling me we need stay away from each other for two months and talk on the phone. Please help me I really luv this guy I don't know if he ...
A. 26 March 2011: I think you just need to ask him just as the comment from Lucy said other wise your going to be worrying what you've done wrong. Ask him why 2months why such a specific amount of time. Seems rather fishy to me but you can't make assumptions until ... (read in full...)
His story doesn't add up!
Q. My boyfriend who works away in the week now says to save petrol money he will be staying near where he works every other week. He told me that he was going to visit his aunts today (and told me that he visited her a couple of months ago). I rang ...
A. 26 March 2011: Just be honest with him. Make it clear that you weren't checking up on him and that you were having trouble with the car. There shouldn't be any reason why he should feel he has to lie to you.
Just say to him she stressed she hasn't seen you in 18 m... (read in full...)
How do I tactfully deal with my boy friend's lonely Mom? Am I being bitchy not wanting to go out as a group of three on dates with my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend's mom is very nice and friendly, and I do like her. The problem is that she is always around, and several times while he and I are hanging out, she has tried to get us to do things with her, like go out to dinner, go to the movies, etc. ...
A. 26 March 2011: Well it's nice that that you get on with his mother and I don't think your being bitchy at all. Going to the movies and going out to dinner with your boyfriend are suppose to be intimate thing just you and him share.
Has your bf noticed this or ... (read in full...)
Am I asking too many specific questions about her sexual past?
Q. My girlfriend and I are very much in love and very open in talking about our sexual past, although I tend to ask a lot of questions and she does not. I know she feels a bit uncomfortable talking about detail, so I don't ask too many questions, but ...
A. 25 March 2011: Honesty is great don't get me wrong but some questions can be very awkward. What is in the past is in the past and I dont see why the question about who you slept with most and ranking them is something a girlfriend would want to discuss in to much ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or go. Don't want to be 'second' in his life. I think I am about to break up with my boyfriend.
Q. I am about to break up with my boyfriend.. The reason is because I found out sweet messages between some chick who he met years ago.. I checked the messages and sent time, was the time where we went through the darkest time together as a co...
A. 25 March 2011: Leave him you wouldn't be able to trust him. Just because you've had some hard doesn't mean he can go out and jump into bed with someone else. You both work through it as a couple.
You shouldn't be or accept being 2nd best. He had his chance t... (read in full...)
What are top tried and tested ways to tell our families that I'm pregnant?
Q. Hi. I have been dating my amazing boyfriend for 3 years. He lived 2+ hrs away but he moved in with him aunt and her husband when were positive we wanted to be together. We have know each other since I was born since I'm 17 and he's 20. I'm grad...
A. 25 March 2011: This is going to be very hard. At least you've both decided what your going to do about the baby thats one step covered as thats one of the questions they're definately going to want answered.
Probably best to make sure they're sat down and it's... (read in full...)
Why is he treating me like this? Seems he's not bothered by breaking up with me.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been Togther for fifteen months. Three months into our relationship I fell pregnant, and now we have a daughter who is beautiful. Though in my mind something in our relationship is missing. he works and all, but it's always a...
A. 25 March 2011: This must be really hard on you. It isn't fair that your left holding the baby. Pregnancy happened quite quickly i understand did he say at the beginning that he was unsure of the baby situation? Maybe it has become to much for him on the scale of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend stopped talking to me and a girl answers his phone every time I call!
Q. Hi aunts! So I need some advice on what to do in this situation. Me and my boyfriend of 2 months broke up 2 days ago. He was at a party and I was going out to. Well I called him and was asking who was ther and stuff nothing mean though. And he said ...
A. 25 March 2011: What I would say is try one more time to ring and try and get closure.If he doesn't bother speaking to you then leave it and stop ringing him. I know it's hard when you don't have that closure but if he wants to be like that then you better off out ... (read in full...)
Should I be angry at my boyfriend for sharing his fantasy??
Q. Last night while I was in bed with my boyfriend making love, he asked me if I had any fantasies lately. I said no but asked him if he did. Earlier on ITR I introduced a little kinkiness to our sex life by talking about fantasies together to turn ...
A. 25 March 2011: I think you may have opened Pandoras box with this one. I do understand somethings are better left unsaid most definately. If you haven't had any reason not to trust him then I would say it was a bit of misjudgement on his part. It's good in a... (read in full...)
He left me when I was a month pregnant and I never hear from him until a year later when he wants to marry me!?
Q. Hi everybody,Please help!My boyfriend left me when i was a month pregnant.I take care of myseslf during all my pregnancy time.I had never heard about him and I did not know where he was neither.I took over everything on my own,no child support,and ...
A. 25 March 2011: I don't blame your parents to be honest but why all the sudden change of heart you need to make him understand he can't pick and choose when he wants to be in and out your babies life. I had a dad like that and it was the hardest thing for me you... (read in full...)
He always doesn't apologise when he does wrong,he puts the blame on me
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year now we are crazy about each other or thats what he wants me 2 believe we have been thru alot 2gether we have had fights but we always find our way in each others arms the ...
A. 24 March 2011: A relationship is all about give and take and there doesn't seem to be a lot of giving on his part. His excuse is poor just because he saw you hugging someone isn't a good enough excuse for him to cheat on you. You shouldn't be apologisng when you ... (read in full...)
What am I doing with this guy? I'm concerned about his sexual past
Q. Hello. I am a gay guy dating another gay guy for the past six months. We are very different in a lot of ways, but one is bugging me. I would like to know -- is this normal? is it something I should just get over? He's had a very active sexual ...
A. 24 March 2011: What you have to remember they had sex but that is in the past. Everyone makes mistakes about who they have dated or may have regretted a sexual conquest. So judging him on what his friend does is a bit unfair. Haven't you had sex with someone ... (read in full...)
I like him but he's ignoring me, how do I get him back?
Q. Hi guys. Me and this guy really like each other. We have been hanging out as friends for the last six months. A couple of months ago, he started working two jobs and I have not been seeing him as much. So we haven't been hanging out like we used...
A. 24 March 2011: Mens ego's do get bruised and I think he is ignoring you because you ignored him first. I think he may of taken it as a brush off. Pride probably did get in the way but the only way to try and sort this and stop the petty games is to try and talk to ... (read in full...)
Betrayed by my own sister!
Q. It all started when i was in 7 grade i had this big crush on this guy name Adam. we would flirt all the time! oh how he gave me the butterflies! we had very little classes in school together and we never saw each other out of school! but it was ok ...
A. 24 March 2011: Oh Gosh! Sorry to hear this has happened. You NEED to confront your sister about this and ask her why she did this to you when she knew how much you loved him. 2nd of all she shouldn't of lied to him don't get me wrong but he didn't need to pursue ... (read in full...)
Will I be able to pleasure my girlfriend in different positions even with my penis size?
Q. I know this might be similar to my other questions, but I just want some realistic validation, my penis is 5 1/2 inches when it's erect, and my girlfriend are both virgins and we want to wait until we both get married when she gets out of college, ...
A. 24 March 2011: You definately will be able to pleasure her in different positions. It's great that your waiting till marriage as well. You also have an advantage because your both virgins so you can't compare each other to previous partners. You have no worries ... (read in full...)
How do I come clean to him about the fake pictures, without losing him?
Q. One day i was bored at home and decided to create a Smeet.I decided to use fake pics because I wanted the attention from guys. I searched on google pretty girls and I found this one girl that looked somewhat like one of my classmates in school. I ...
A. 24 March 2011: O dear! I know you wanted attention but why didn't you post a picture of yourself? Have you got low self esteem? You have dug yourself a hole here and there isn't a good way to get out of out except honesty. Theres a high chance you will lose him... (read in full...)
She didnt respond when I proposed to her, how can I tell her that I love her?
Q. i met a girl in my school and i fell in love with her and i proposed her and she didn't gave response but i still love her but she doesn't. how can i tell her that i am in love with her...
A. 24 March 2011: Hello there, She may have not responded because she was shocked or maybe shes not quite ready for that much commitment and it's a lot to think about. Don't take it to much to heart. she's probably thinking the same thing that i'm thinking tha... (read in full...)
He was having sex with another girl while I was pregnant, I know he has done me wrong but he has my heart.....what should I do?
Q. Need help please!.... I have known this guy since 2006 we dated for almost 3yrs.. We broke up for good 10 months ago.... We started to go back out in 09 of October im now pregnant by him I will have the baby in 5 days .... im so in love with him I ...
A. 24 March 2011: I am so sorry to hear that. This has got be very tough for your right now. I know you still love him and you will because you've been together a while but as much as this is going to hurt you by me saying this I think you well shot of him. You ... (read in full...)
Gay sex with second cousin?
Q. Heya i am a gay boy who needs some help. i am gay, so is my cousin (2nd), can i have sex with him? please let me know =)...
A. 23 March 2011: Some people might think its ok but I think a majority would agree that it's very wrong don't do it xoxox... (read in full...)
After 26 years of marriage my husband left me for another woman
Q. 3 months ago after 26 years of marriage my husband left me for another woman.The first month we had hardly any contact but now we speak and see each other every day. He says he still loves me and that no one will ever compare to how he feels about ...
A. 23 March 2011: I am so sorry to hear that hun. I think that hes regretting leaving you and rightly so, and of course your going to still love him because you've been together 26 whole years your feelings can't dont just disappear.I think that hes realised he's ... (read in full...)
Why do I still have strong feelings for my ex? Should I break it off with my current bf?
Q. Ok, so please bare with me it's kind of long. I am a gamer chick who loves to play role playing games and live action role play "Larp" and when I first started back in July 20, 2010 I met up with a guy who was older than me by about 12 years. Well, ...
A. 23 March 2011: Where to start ay? I think as much as you need closure you arn't going to get it from him. You will get over him but it will take time sweeti. Time is a great healer might take a while but I don't think you messaging him is going to help. I think ... (read in full...)
Should I let my boyfriend be a real guy like other guys?
Q. i dont really no what is true love. but maybe i could get some help. see i really love this guy. We're pretty serious, he's not my first boyfriend but i'm his first. sometimes he complains that he didnt get time to be a "real" boy ( like a player) ...
A. 23 March 2011: The answer to your question is no don't feel like you should let him play the field while he's still going out with you because you might not only end up losing him to someone else but will regret you let him do that. If he feels this way then he... (read in full...)
Boyfriend had sex with me while I was asleep!
Q. Have a problem, don't know who to talk to. I've been with my bf for three years straight. Before we got serious, I told him I wanted to wait till we got married before we actually had sex. I've been grown in a Christian home and yea I know this ...
A. 22 March 2011: First of all this is very wrong and I wish you stuck to your guns if you wanted to wait till marriage he should of fully understood that and not pressure you into anything you don't want to do. I think you should of said something when this whole ... (read in full...)
I always get a rash after shaving! What's wrong with me?
Q. Hi, well I've got a very embarrassing question that really needs answering. I'm 15 years old and well I'm a bit worried. Every time I shave my legs and nether regions I seem to get these little spots that appear like a rash. Its worse on my nether ...
A. 22 March 2011: First of all I want to start by saying your not abnormal and actually this is quite common a lot of girls get a shaving rash, or sometimes what you call ingrown hairs when more than one hair get trapped in the same hair follicle and create a spot. ... (read in full...)
Do all girls shave, down there? what bits need shaving? What styles are there?
Q. Hello everyone, Apparently girls should shave their pubic hair, so I did, however I'm not sure where you actually shave. Say you stood naked infront of a mirror, all the hair you can see - that's what I shaved. Is that right or do you need to shav...
A. 22 March 2011: well to answer the first bit "Apparantly all girls should shave down there" It's all down to personal preference as to whether you want a "Shaven Haven" as they would call it. Some people rather it shaved or just a little bit left there or some ... (read in full...)
Scared that my small penis will cause my first experience to be bad
Q. hi i m 24..asian.. i have never had any kind of experience with any women.. but now i m kind of desperate becoz i think its time to get into a relationship and know women.... above that what makes me most conscious is i have a average sized ...
A. 22 March 2011: There is nothing wrong with an average sized penis, plus its not always about the size its the way you use it. If you feel very conscious of it there are different sexual positions that you can use to your advantage and make penetration very ... (read in full...)
I like porn and get turned on by women. Am I bisexual?
Q. Hey, well im sort of touching a senstive matter and i could perhaps use abit of advice. Im 14 years old and well im a girl and i like to watch porn. i watch metro sex porn, the thing that i dont really understa...
A. 22 March 2011: The answer is No yournot bisexual. If you don't physically find girls attractive when you look at them on the street and don't think wow and you DEFINATELY wouldn't sleep with when then your now a bisexual. Everyone find different things turn them ... (read in full...)
Friend suspects I like his girlfriend, I do but don't want to wreck their relationship!
Q. When I started college at the end of last year I met some new friends and one of them has a girlfriend. I met her once and I added her on Facebook and we have been talking online and the odd time we see each other in person. She broke up with my...
A. 22 March 2011: O dear! I know you really like her but you have got to remember its you friends gf. Even if they split up would you get with her if she felt the same way? because thats what will happen.
If the answer is you still would get with her then just lea... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex he received an email from a girl, inviting him for a drink?
Q. My ex partner of 10 years and I separated 4 months ago but still stay very close - it's not over for me and I believe we can recover from it given time - we still care deeply for each other. A girl has emailed him to ask him out for a drink and it ...
A. 22 March 2011: I'm sorry to hear that. This is definately a difficult situation. I it isn't over for you, but how do you think he feels about this? do you think its not over for him? or do you think he just wants to stay friends? as hard as it is I think it's best ... (read in full...)
Is this boy a waste of time and space?
Q. i need some help... i like this boy but one minute he is talking to me and then the next he is blocking me and ignoring me. i really fancy him and cant stop the feelings. ive had these strong feeligns for 9 months. the thing is when he talks to me ...
A. 22 March 2011: hmm.. why did he block you? is it because you didn't want to jump into bed with him straight away? Blocking and ignoring someone is a bit harsh if that is the reason. If this is all he talks about then I would say he's definately after one thing and ... (read in full...)
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