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writes:Hello. I am a gay guy dating another gay guy for the past six months. We are very different in a lot of ways, but one is bugging me. I would like to know -- is this normal? is it something I should just get over? He's had a very active sexual past, which is fine, a lot of gay guys do. But he's been with a lot of guys that are just not choosy, that also have a lot of sex. He has one friend who is constantly on the prowl and having sex with a lot of guys, has no life beyond sex and only talks about sex and hooking up, and spends his time online looking for the next one. The last night we went out, he had sex with several guys in the bathroom. Tonight, he told me that the two of them had gone out. And I wonder how could he be with this guy? And what am I doing with someone who was with this guy? I am having a hard time getting beyond my boyfriend's sexual past. Am I being unfair? What can help me get over this?
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reader, kaykay1989  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 What you have to remember they had sex but that is in the past. Everyone makes mistakes about who they have dated or may have regretted a sexual conquest. So judging him on what his friend does is a bit unfair.Haven't you had sex with someone you regret? I know their friends but try and put this to the back of your mind or it could end up ruining your relationship. xoxoxo
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