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He says we need to stay away from each other for 2 months, does he love me?

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Question - (26 March 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been going out with this guy for a for a month now. We slept together twice, since that day he has been telling me we need stay away from each other for two months and talk on the phone. Please help me I really luv this guy I don't know if he loves me or not.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (28 March 2011):

Honeypie agony auntThat is about the dumbest reason I have ever heard for needing a break! so having sex for a while then a long break ensures you won't get pregnant? ILLOGICAL! IT only takes 1 time. 1 little swimmer.

WHY are you risking pregnancy? STD's?

Also WHY are you letting him dictate the relationship?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011):

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i have asked him wy he said he is afraid that i might get pregnant.He doesnt want to use a condom when he is sleeping with me.Thank u so so much for the answers u have given me.I hope so too that it works out for me and him.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (27 March 2011):

Honeypie agony auntYou guys went out for a month and he is asking for space already? And right after you two slept together? It sounds all together odd.

I would seriously ask him why.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (26 March 2011):

Danielepew agony auntAccording to your post, this man decided you should not see each other right after you two had slept together. That sounds very bad to me. It seems he had what he wanted and is now leaving.

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A female reader, kaykay1989 United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2011):

kaykay1989 agony auntI think you just need to ask him just as the comment from Lucy said other wise your going to be worrying what you've done wrong. Ask him why 2months why such a specific amount of time. Seems rather fishy to me but you can't make assumptions until he's given you a valid reason why.

Hope all goes well xoxoxo

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A male reader, Alden Plows United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2011):

Alden Plows agony auntGive him time and space. If he loves you back he'll come back. Try not to get too attached however hard and keep yourself busy to take your mind off it and see what happens. Try not to be too nagging and keep a smile on at all times. Be happy that what happened did and just hope the rest follows but dont get worried about it :)

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