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writes:My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year now we are crazy about each other or thats what he wants me 2 believe we have been thru alot 2gether we have had fights but we always find our way in each others arms the problem is he doesnt wanna admit that he is wrong when he did something wrong,he always make excuses or put e blame on me like i found pictures of him and another gal making luv he did it for months he said he did it because he saw me giving another a hug so he thought i waz cheating i 4gave him but he just continue giving me all the blame,i luv him but his attitude is pushing me away what should i do sometimes i just say sorry When he has done wrong just 2 keep the peace am getting tired of it now,pliz help Reply to this Question
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reader, kaykay1989  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 A relationship is all about give and take and there doesn't seem to be a lot of giving on his part. His excuse is poor just because he saw you hugging someone isn't a good enough excuse for him to cheat on you. You shouldn't be apologisng when you have done absolutely nothing wrong.I think you should run a hundred miles in the other direction because if he can do that he will think he can get away with murder by putting you down and blaming you for all his mistakes. xoxoxox
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reader, niki1970 +, writes (24 March 2011):
the main issue here is that he has cheated on you and you have seen the evidence. The chances are he will continue this behaviour. You know your not to blame as his excuses are pretty lame. Or as i was taught 2 wrongs dont make a right. You need to ask why was you with this other person and in retaliation why did he go with someone else. It seems that if you are in love with each other you would not treat each other this way. If you want to continue your relationship maybe consider some ground rules for you both. To answer why he blames you my guess is he probably feels guilty for his actions. Talk to each other .
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