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writes:My boyfriend who works away in the week now says to save petrol money he will be staying near where he works every other week. He told me that he was going to visit his aunts today (and told me that he visited her a couple of months ago). I rang his aunt today as I had car trouble and couldn't get hold of my boyfriend. She told me he wasn't there and the last time she saw him was 18 months ago! What should I do? And what do I say to him when I next speak to him?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (27 March 2011):
 Ask him how the visit went. If he starts telling you about how nice it was to see his aunt, you know he is lying.
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reader, Aradeah +, writes (26 March 2011):
Hun I have heard this before from my husband...I am 99% sure he is seeing another woman. Finish the relationship. It will do two things, bring him back and knock some sense into him or he will openly admitt it. Either way is better than the alternative of being decieved and you worse letting it slide. I did it does no one any good.If he is seeing another woman he will eventually let you go anyway it seems he is feathering the nest to move on but keeoing you hanging just incase...monkeys never leave their tree branch until they are certain they have another to swing to. Don`t act emotionally or irrationally just end it..be prepared to move on, or your unexpected move may panic him into getting backside into gear. Do not make the mistake of letting him have his cake and eat it. Wish I could say differently but its very very similar to what I went through when hubby was having an affair. If it feels wrong generally it is...Thats what gut instinct is...womens survival. Trust it. xxx
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reader, kaykay1989 +, writes (26 March 2011):
 Just be honest with him. Make it clear that you weren't checking up on him and that you were having trouble with the car. There shouldn't be any reason why he should feel he has to lie to you.
Just say to him she stressed she hasn't seen you in 18 months whats going on? And why did you lie to me?
You haven't done anything wrong so don't feel like you can't be honest with him and ask him. xoxoxo
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