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anonymous
writes:Okayy so me nd my boyfriend have been goin out for a year now..we have done many things like oral sex nd foreplay...but we really havent got to sex nd we r both virgins..well last time he was fingering me..later on dat day i noticed that his fingers actually went all da way in me...my question is how did fingers get in me if im still a virgin.? Nd it is possible dat he popped his cherry wiff his fingers.? Nd hes has done it many times now nd i was jus noticing dis a while ago..
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reader, just a female  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 ok well your only not a virgin when you have had penis in vagina sex. but sure i think it is possible that he may have broken your hymen with his fingers if he went deep enough.
but its ok that doesnt mean that you have lost your virginity and neither has he.
when you do have sex adventualy you may notice that there isnt much pain and no blood but that is just because the hymen is already broken, doesnt make you not a virgin though.
i may add that with mos women the hymen is already broken before fingering or sex. it can sometimes tear just from using a tampon etc.
so your still a virgin and so is he.
i hope i have helped you or atleast cleared up some confusion.
all the best
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reader, Lilyxoxo  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 Well,our society defines loosing your virginity as having sexual penetration. As you tell us, you have not had intercourse, therefore, you are still a virgin.
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