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writes:Is it ever to late to tell the one you love you love them? She thinks I don't love her but I do. She has a girlfriend. I wonder if she loves her girlfriend the way she loved me? Does she still love me? Will she accept my apology for hurting her? Will she look at me the same? I've learned a lot about her strength. I underestimated her. She's more magical then I supposed. Why can't I find her in other women? What am I waiting for? I took her for granted. Is it to late? My heart tells me 'no' but her echo's tell me 'yes and no.' Is it my turn to be honest with myself and her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): You are in love with someone who is in love with you. I'm in love with someone who's not in love with me. Can I trade places with you? I didn't realize how much I loved her until I watched her fall in love with my best friend. He gave her what she gave me but didn't receive from me in return. I was playing the field. Cocky and sure she'd always be here for me. Regret won't let my heart mend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): Open your heart to her and be very honest with her with how you feel. I was once the receiver in a situation quite similar to this and it was my present girlfriend's honesty and the sincerity of it that erased away all the pain and gave me belief and faith in her ulterior motive with me, love so to speak. Honesty is a powerful weapon. Nothing can defeat it, not even the worst of worst hurtful scenerios. At the very least, she will rebond with you as your friend, which is the best and appropriate starting point. Good luck!
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reader, catnhat04  +, writes (5 February 2011):
Tell her the way u feel, tell her your sorry that u messed up. I've been in a situation like this too and I told him im sorry and that I really love him and that he's soooo important and special ti me. Even if she doesn't believe u at least u told her the truth and how u feel. Maybe later in she'll come to her senses and appreciate u coming and telling her the truth and she'll ask u out again.
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reader, just a female  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 I think you need to be honest with yourself, and go for it. Tell her how you feel! Give it your best and if she doesn't take you back at least you know you gave it your all and left nothing behind!It's never to late to tell someone you love them and care for them.
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