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I can't cum, is there something wrong?

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Question - (8 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I can't cum when my boyfriend fingers me or licks me out. What is wrong?

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A female reader, i might be a girl but i can help United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2008):

i might be a girl but i can help agony auntok just o you know this is normal its just your boyfriend hasn't found the right place, and you need to guild him its sometimes what a guy needs, everygirl is different and sometimes needs something more or less than the other. guild him around or you try it and see what you like. Also it can be the fact that you are thinking that he hasn't made you come before so he won't this time. let go you are probably nevous about your body and that he might not like it. sometime let im play with your boobs first than let him kiss you down your body maybe even a massage to relax you also he would be nevous and could be too hard too soft, and doesn't know how to lick you out but you need to try new things see what works for you.

good luck even go on the sex advice websites always helps xxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

I'd say either his technique isn't quite right or you're not relaxed enough.

Tell him what to do and how you like it. Istruct him in what feels good for you. Guide his fingers around if you have to then he'll get some idea of how much pressure to apply, in which direction and where.

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