Online girlfriend is pregnant by her ex, but I'm going to see her soon. Is it her hormones or has she lost interest?
Q. Okay this girl and I have been in an online relationship (I know it's not a good idea) for three months, but we just met on Facebook and started talking. We became online friends, and we eventually started getting interested in each other. She even ...
A. 1 February 2011: It sounds like she might not want to abort her baby. How would you feel if she didn't? Would you be there for her? If yes tell her. And Idk why she wouldn't want people seeingjer hold your hand. She's a grown woman for christs sake. Maybe she's ... (read in full...)
I had a miscarriage and am afraid to tell my boyfriend
Q. I was 3 months pregnant and started having really bad tummy pains... My boyfriend, who i live with, said its just something to do with the pregnancy and told me not to worry about it, whilst he was doing his paper round i decided to talk to his mum ...
A. 30 January 2011: If that's the only reason he's with you then why do you want to be with him? Someone will love you for YOU! and just tell him.its his baby and he will ne more angery the longer u keep it... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex-wife and son are constantly interfering!
Q. Well here goes I guess. The guy I am seeing is perfect for me. I know he feels the same about me. So our problem is his 16 year old son and his ex. She has sent me facebook messages saying she wishes us the best, but then argues about me all the ...
A. 30 January 2011: Its not your job to control this boys disorder. Its his. He's big enough now to know what bothers him and he should avoid thing that might bother him. that how people manage disorders. If a 16 year old is alergic to peanuts they know to stay away ... (read in full...)
Should I continue waiting for my married lover, or am I being taken for a ride?
Q. Greetings All! I have worked with this person for two years and have always had a mutual great feeling. We began an active relationship last year. I was in process of a divorce, but the feelings for her were very real and true. She put forth the ...
A. 28 January 2011: Wow. Ummm where do I start. Ill start with the statement "I dont really mind the pain". You need to have more pride in yourself. You need to put your self worth in order. And no I don't think you should "push" the issue. I think you should talk ... (read in full...)
Can all women squirt?
Q. So I was a spectator to a discussion at a party the other day (alcohol involved) involving squirting. One guy claimed that the squirting in porn was real. (which I know its not) When someone voiced this contrary opinion, the kid stated that that was ...
A. 27 January 2011: Yes. Some wemon squart some leak but its all the same... (read in full...)
The thoughtless way my bf's father speaks upsets me. What can I do about this?
Q. Hi everyone i'm a 20 yr old female and i have been with my boyfriend (19) for over 15 months. We live together, like most girls i have a problem with his ex, however they never were really an item she just messed him around. He hasn't seen her sinc...
A. 26 January 2011: After 15 months. Its enough. Its time to out an end to it.... (read in full...)
The thoughtless way my bf's father speaks upsets me. What can I do about this?
Q. Hi everyone i'm a 20 yr old female and i have been with my boyfriend (19) for over 15 months. We live together, like most girls i have a problem with his ex, however they never were really an item she just messed him around. He hasn't seen her sinc...
A. 26 January 2011: Your bf needs to say something. He should tell him she an ex and she's in the past and he wants to think about the future. He should blame it in you by saying " it makes my new bf uncomfertable". He should say HE doesn't like it and HE doesn't care ... (read in full...)
Is this normal for an uncircumsized male?
Q. Hey well i'm 21 and it is my first time being with someone uncircumsized. But i admit the skin freaked me out, but got over it. he got hard and when i went to touch his penis he complained it was very sore why is that ? i barely touched his penis....
A. 26 January 2011: No sore is not normal.... (read in full...)
Is this relationship okay?
Q. Ive recently enetered a relationship with my x sister in laws x partner, we both have children that are cousins, we're not planning on letting kids in on it till alot later, is this wrong? [Mod note: commas inserted to make this more legible.]...
A. 26 January 2011: Take it slow. You don't want to start any trouble if its not going to work. How old are the children? My friends step dad and her step mom ended up together and now her 1/2 brother and her 1/2 sister are step siblings. I never affected her intact ... (read in full...)
Can all women squirt?
Q. So I was a spectator to a discussion at a party the other day (alcohol involved) involving squirting. One guy claimed that the squirting in porn was real. (which I know its not) When someone voiced this contrary opinion, the kid stated that that was ...
A. 26 January 2011: I believe that all woman can have them. And most of the time the first time (maybe the first few times) a woman has one it from fingering.
Use ur to fingers makeing the "come here motion." Find a bump on the front wall of her vagina. Kind of ... (read in full...)
My wife has webcam sex chats with men, and hides things from me. Should I be worried?
Q. My wife does webcam sex chats and hides a lot of stuff from me. Should I be worried? ...
A. 25 January 2011: She should spend the 8 hours she would normally work to search for a job. And beggars can't be chooser. Put in 8 applications everyday minimum! Id rather flip burgers, bag groceries, or clean toilets than subject myself and my marriage to that. ... (read in full...)
My wife has webcam sex chats with men, and hides things from me. Should I be worried?
Q. My wife does webcam sex chats and hides a lot of stuff from me. Should I be worried? ...
A. 25 January 2011: She should spend the 8 hours she would normally work to search for a job. And betters can't be chooser. Put in 8 applications everyday minimum! Id rather flip burgers, bag grocerys, or clean toilets than subject myself and my marriage to that.
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My wife has webcam sex chats with men, and hides things from me. Should I be worried?
Q. My wife does webcam sex chats and hides a lot of stuff from me. Should I be worried? ...
A. 23 January 2011: I thought she was hiding it from you? Your storys not adding up. Anyways burger king pays 8.00 an hour so if you both get a job there full time that's over 600 a week. That's a much better way than prostituting your wife out to a buch or weirdo on ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife I cheated on her with over 30 prostitutes?
Q. I'm 35, my wife 36, we have 2 kids, married for 7 years. Before our kids born we have really great relationship and have sex every day. Sine she got pregnant the first kid her interest for sex declined sharply. No matter what I tried the most we can ...
A. 23 January 2011: Chigirl I totally agree with you! It makes me so sad that so many people on here are so quick to bash. People come for advice and get insaulted. It happens on so many posts!
Anyways you sure got yourself in a pickle! I think you should be hones... (read in full...)
My wife has webcam sex chats with men, and hides things from me. Should I be worried?
Q. My wife does webcam sex chats and hides a lot of stuff from me. Should I be worried? ...
A. 23 January 2011: If other men r seeing her naked no matter how its bad. Also she's outrun a lot of trust in these men because they can keep the images and do crazy hits with it. She needs to put an end to it!... (read in full...)
Am I be controlling by not wanting my boyfriend to meet up with his ex?
Q. I went out with my boyfriend the other night for something to eat and a couple of drinks, we ended up having a heart to heart and he said to me 'If (his ex) ever asked me to hang out with her one day would you mind?', I was a bit tipsy at this ...
A. 20 January 2011: I think u need to be completly honest win him about this. And no I don't blame you. Sometimes you need to leave the past in the past and I think that what he needs to do. I don't think its fair if he choices to satisfy he want over yours ( she wants ... (read in full...)
Sleeping with my friend's boyfriend!
Q. Dear Cupid I'm young girl whose feels like I'm not a true friend to my friend. First of all i don't want to be judged cause I'm only human. I've been cheating with my friend's boyfriend and no i don't have a boyfriend. The thing is this guy want...
A. 20 January 2011: Ask yourself who is more important the man or your friend? I have a feeling its your friend cause there's plenty of men out there that will give you attention. Stop seeing the guy. Start being the friend she deserves.... (read in full...)
His brother tried it on with me and I also think my bf is cheating on me. How do I handle this?
Q. My boyfriend and I been going out for almost a year....The thing is he used to be a player and so did i so we both have trust issues...Anyway The other day we got into a argument and he left me at his house with his brother. I was pissed and ...
A. 20 January 2011: Get a straight answer from your bf. And trust your gut. And as far as his brother. STAY AWAY!! he not a good person if hes trying to get with his brother gf. If he doesn't respect his brother he wont respect you. And im pretty sure he doesn't love ... (read in full...)
I love my current girlfriend, but I still love my pregnant ex!
Q. im 25 years old and in a relationship with a 20 yr old woman i left my gf 8 months ago after been with her for 5 years. She just didn't interest me anymore plus i fell out of love with her, around the time i broke up with her she told me she was ...
A. 20 January 2011: I don't know about the girls part. But you need to step up as a dad. You need to stay incontact. You need to go to ultrasound. You should figure out your roll as daddy before your roll as boyfriend. For christs sake that baby deserves a father who ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if I could be gay?
Q. i'm a male in my twenties and i'm confused about my sexuality, i think i might be gay. i started being confused about it within the past 2 years but before that i was sure i was straight but since then i have had dreams of being with another man and ...
A. 19 January 2011: Don't label your self. It may be a phase or may not. Untill you experiment you wont know. You may try it and reside its not for you and your straight. Or you may like it and still like girls. Its not about labels its about doing what feels right and ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the death of my child?
Q. I am a mother of three, have just lost our middle child to a seeming suicide. He leaves behind a wife and young son. He was diagnosed as bipolar recently, but chose not to take the medication. He suffered extreme mood changes, highs and lows, and ...
A. 19 January 2011: I also lost a son. He was just a baby though. I try to imagine different ways I could have saved him. Sometime ill be having a good day amdthen his death hits me like a punch in the stomach. Once I was at the store and the cashier had the same name ... (read in full...)
Is oral sex ACTUAL sex? Is it still illegal if you are underage?
Q. is it illegal for an eighteen year old to go down on you when your fifteen because its not really sex its just oral you know or does oral sex count as real sex?...
A. 18 January 2011: Its illegal to have sexual contact with a minor. Oral sex can be debated weighed its sex or not but it can not be debated weighed its sexual contact. It is.... (read in full...)
What should I wear on this date?
Q. i cant decide between 5 dresses which one i should wear for a date.. please someone give me a clue on what type of dress we have to wear on a date. your answer will be appreciated...
A. 17 January 2011: Petina is right. But it also depends on what your doing on this date and what type of relationship are you wanting?... (read in full...)
I wish the spark was still there
Q. Hi everybody im 16 my boyfriend is 18 we have been dating for 2 years and since about 5 months ago wen we was fighting alot the spark has gone away i wanna be with him but also I just wish the spark was still there and since its not it makes me want ...
A. 17 January 2011: What are the reasons you want to be with him? Not just "I love him"... why do I love him? Ask yourself if u want to be with him because u been together so long and ur comfertable. If the feeling r gone it maybe be time to let it go. It probably not ... (read in full...)
Should I talk all the time on stay quite during a movie date?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are going to the movies in a couple of weeks. We have been dating for two months and this is our first actual date. Iv been out to dates at resturaunts and iv met my ex s parents but iv never been to the movies on a date. am i ...
A. 17 January 2011: You can make a couple of comments but very quietly so he can hear. But u are there to enjoy the movie. Also keep in mind that there are other ways of communication besides talking. Make eye contact, smile, hold hands. If something scarry happens ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to friend with your ex husband?
Q. my marriage is over, I love my hb in many ways...he wants to be my friend after divorced, he said we can be good friends after all this sad situation. It's a good idea be friend of your ex hb? We didn't have a bad end, just things doesn't work as we ...
A. 17 January 2011: I don't see why not. Unless if you or him start dating someone and you ex starts problems. Are there kids involved? But as long as you keep a safe distance I don't see why it would be bad as long as you both have a good understanding with eachother.... (read in full...)
She already knew I had kids but got upset when she found a video of their birth of my computer!
Q. I met a girl 2 month ago, we heard so much fun in a very short period of time, I have 3 kids one 5, and twins 2, with different women, at first I told her I have 1 child, later on as we where getting serious, I knew I really like her, so i told her ...
A. 17 January 2011: You should have been honest from the start. Its possible she didn't know how to react to the news of your kids... and the lie u told... and just acted ok but later after thinking about it she might have changed her mind. It may not even be the kids ... (read in full...)
Why did my boyfriend text disgustingly hurtful stuff about me to his friend?
Q. Why did my boyfriend say that? what am I gunna do?:(? my ex boyfriend has been calling me lately and my boyfriend asked and obviously i couldn't lie so told him the truth. i went through his phone( i know i shouldn't have) in the text he told his...
A. 16 January 2011: Sounds like he's two faced. I understand that sometime people say things they don't mean. And I do understand that people man mistakes. But that is wrong. How r u going to feel if you hang out with him and that friend? Your going to feel stupid. I ... (read in full...)
Music will always be 1st in his life, not me
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years has told me that I will always be second best to music and it will always be put befor me. What should I do....
A. 16 January 2011: He's being honest. He means what he says. How long have you been dating? If you got married and had his children would you and the children be second? Anyway ask yourself if this is ok with you. Are you ok with being second... to music? Its a ... (read in full...)
My husband won't slow down during sex and it hurts!
Q. I try to tell my husband to slow down but he does not listen but I thinkit is hurting because on jan10 and I was having sex and I was in pain that same day so I think that's why so I don't know what to do anymore ...
A. 16 January 2011: You have to tell him and if he doesn't respect you and your body you need to stop having sex with him and maybe see a counciler. If he loves you he would want sex to be enjoyablefor you. He woulnt want it to hurt you.... (read in full...)
Does he love me... or the baby momma number 1???
Q. okay now i am 18 and i am seein this guy that go to my school but the problem is he has a baby and he still talks to the baby momma every day but he is telling me he aint dating the baby momma but every time i turn around she is there. i know he ...
A. 16 January 2011: I would tell him asap. But I think if I was in your spot I would confront him about his feelings for her. Deside if those feelins are something you can handle and if you can try to see if you can make it work. And im sorry if I sounded judgemental ... (read in full...)
He's gay... but I love him anyway!
Q. ok, so i really really love this boy, but he's openly gay. at a party once he took me upstairs and we just kissed and got drunk together, but another time he told me he wanted to have sex with me, i was drunk so i agreed, he was amazing, and he told ...
A. 16 January 2011: Bi is an option. And he shouldn't feel stuck to any label. Talk to him. U deserve to have an open relationship. And pleeeease use protection!... (read in full...)
Virgin at 22... thoughts?
Q. Hi Guys, so im just wondering what people think. I'm almost(!!) 22 and im still a virgin. I mean i have done fooling around with guys and i have had lots of boyfriends but i have never had sex with any of them. Im not sure what the issue is, im not...
A. 16 January 2011: Why do people think being a vergin is negative? Andwhy wouldn't you want to wait for " the one"?... (read in full...)
Does he love me... or the baby momma number 1???
Q. okay now i am 18 and i am seein this guy that go to my school but the problem is he has a baby and he still talks to the baby momma every day but he is telling me he aint dating the baby momma but every time i turn around she is there. i know he ...
A. 16 January 2011: His love for you doesn't have anything to do with your pregnancy. What if he doesn't love you? Then what are you going to do? Deny your baby a father? Deny him the right to know about his baby? And if he loves you not that doesn't mean he's going to ... (read in full...)
Pull out method... reliable enough???
Q. me and my boyfriend want to have sex, im not on the pill or anything and neither of us have got condoms. he said he could put it in then take it out when hes about to come, but i dont know if thats okay or not. what is the best thing to do?...
A. 16 January 2011: No I is not reliable. There is pre-cum ( not to be confused with pre-ejaculation) it is a clear liquid and it DOES contain sperm. So even if he has person perfect accuracy you might get pregnant.... (read in full...)
I'm scared he won't go out with me if he knows my real age!
Q. Ok....... I need some help... I am a gay guy and have started taklking to this guy online, who I am really interested in, but theirs a couple of issues. To get on these websites I've lied about my age, I'm 17 but I say I'm 18 to get on these web...
A. 16 January 2011: You should tell him. He has the right to choose if he wants to be with a 17 year old. Anyways its only one year if you explain it to him the way you explained it here I doubt he'll have any problem. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Should I hold on and give it some time or should I let go and move on with life?
Q. My wife wants a divorce after 8 years of marriage. We have drifted apart blaming each other for our failures in the marriage. She claims that our love has died. We have a daughter that is 7 years old. 3 years a go I had file for divorce do to the ...
A. 16 January 2011: It sounds unhealthy and these kind of situations are hard to give advice without hearing both stories. Maybe you should confront her about the secret meeting. Maybe there's some information your missing.... if you want to make it work you should ... (read in full...)
I have a long term boyfriend but I'm attracted to someone else
Q. I have a long term bf whom I love a lot. But I am attracted to a guy who I know from the gym. It is not something I'd act on, but what does this mean? ...
A. 13 January 2011: Its normal to find other people attractive. I love my hubby with every cell in my body but god knows when I see shamar moors on tv my eyes r glued to the tv.... but it depends on your relationship with ur bf and how that's going and the level of ... (read in full...)
I feel he loves this 12 year old more than he does me!
Q. my bf of a little over a year, finally got rid of his gf of 13 years. she was a tweeker and cheated on him, got pregnant, made him think it was his, found out it wasnt, one week b4 baby turned 5 years old and now is adament on raising her kids. well ...
A. 10 January 2011: Accept it or move on. Id say move on.... to me the naked tub and queer thing is pretty creepy but in his heart that's his daughter. Don't try to go in between them.... (read in full...)
My BF and I are in our 40s', but is it ok for us to spend the night together, at the risk of setting a bad example to our kids?
Q. my boyfriend and I met 8 months ago and we are in our 40's. the problem is he has 2 daughters 20,22 and I have one son 7 years old. We don't live near eachother so we don't get much time alone. When we are together we can't be alone in our rooms ...
A. 8 January 2011: His kids are old enough to know the facts if life. Its your baby u need to worry about. Get a sitter of when he has visitation with his other family. It wouldn't be fair to him to be bored stuck with two girls in their twenties while mommy shaking ... (read in full...)
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