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He is going away for about 10 months. Can we be faithful to each other? Are we too young?

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Question - (26 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2008)
A female France age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okaii...so here is my situation:I'm 16, and my bf is going to the states for almost a year, to see his family and stuff.He's leaving on the 7th of spetember or so, then coming back in july next year.He told a friend of mine that he's gunna be comited to me but he doesnt know if i can comit to him for sucha long time.Then he added that he doesn't think he'd be able to have a family with anyone else but me...which is shocking cuz, when we first met he tol dme he didn't really want kids, or maybe just one.I was super touched when my friend told me this, and I realy love him so I know I'd wait for him as long as it takes.But...we're still young.Maybe we're jus fooling ourselves, maybe he's lying...

I told him all of this,and for the first time, he took my hand and said he loved me, then he broke in tears.I think he means it but...we're really young.I'm almost 17, and I really do want kids..I just don't know if i want them with him or if we're meant to be.What would yu do?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2008):

I'm an army wife and my husband goes away for 6 months at a time.

It is incredibly hard, especially for one so young.

If I were you then I would agree that you will take it just one week at a time. As long as you are honest with eachother then you will be ok. If you need to break up then just tell him, and he should understand.

You can always meet up with him when he gets home.

Good Luck!! xx

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