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writes:Ok last night i was hanging out on my porch with my "the boy next door crush" There was alot of flirting, touching,cuddling kind of stuff going on. I mean we were like hanging out for like an hour and a half and it was like non stop flirting.Well somewhere in the middle of us hanging out he just out of the blue said to me "i dont like relationships and thats why i dont have a girlfriend" and i said "why are you telling me this" and he said " i know you like me" and i said "ya so what if i do" after that he just didnt say anymore about it. Even after what he said we were still flirting strongly until he left. He hugged me goodbye (a really good hug) and said ill talk to ya tommrow. I texted him alittle bit after he left and i said "thanx for hanging out with me and stuff" he said " :) nite " and i said "goodnite"I know he likes me its sooooooooooooo obvious and i can just tell!!!!!What should i do about this.......I dont know how to read this guy.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (27 August 2008):
Well he's told you up front that he doesn't want a girlfriend.
So if you continue to flirt cuddle and anything else then it is just fun. He will not want to be your boyfriend and may also be going cuddling and flirting with other girls too.
If you don't want to get hurt then don't do things with him. No matter how much you give to this guy, you will not win him over.
Treat him as a bit of fun and a self esteem boost but do not let yourself care enough that he could hurt you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (27 August 2008):
 He sounds quite upfront to me? And likes the flirting and the chasing, but doesn't feel like he likes relationships...yet
That could all change when he meets the right girl. That could be you!
But for now i bet he just wants to hang out and have some fun. I wouldn't sleep with him if i was you, not til he has decied to give you some more commitment, you dont want to be use do you, but whats wrong with just being mates for now?
C xxxx
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