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writes:i am currently in a new relationship with a girl who i have known for 4 years. she is very sweet and beautiful and really cares about me. i am currently in love with my year-long ex girlfriend who i know is my soulmate. she is nine days older than me, makes my life worth living and we have more in common than a pair of twins.i am happy with my girl, but i still try to stay in touch with my ex. lately she has been talking to me less and i'm worried that she's avoiding me. people tell me otherwise, but it's hard to be sure. i definitely can't move past my ex and i want to stay with my g/f, yet i want my ex to be interested again.i need some real help. if youre not 100% percent sure that your advice can help me, then i've probably already thought of it before.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 August 2008):
You are basically staying with your current girlfriend because there is not a better option available.
You want to be with this other girl, but you don't want to be single. I'm sorry to be blunt but you are being REALLY selfish.
Have you considered that you ex may be losing intrest because YOU'VE HAD A GIRLFRIEND FOR 4 YEARS?
If you were single and free to persue her then she might actually give her a chance.
Split up with your current girl because she deserves better treatment than this and then you'll be free to go and make a big play for your ex.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): You should spend time alone and think about what you want...your new girlfriend may really care about you too..you may have no intentions of getting back with your ex...but if your ex were to all of a sudden start to contact you... then you probably will leave your current girlfriend, im not saying you will, but just saying that you might. leaving your current girlfriend heartbroken..remember there is a reason that she is your ex...you may love her but you may just want her more becuase she isn't paying any attention to you...you should really think about your situation.
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