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Love to be single, but love belonging to someone, too. What should I do?

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Question - (26 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

dear cupid, i have a problem, im 18 and im 90% of the time single and am a freshman in college now and i love to be single and go out every weekend and just have an absolute blast and im not really boycrazy (i don't die everytime a hot guy smiles at me) i put school first and nothing comes before my family and friends. im very goal oriented and just love to ahve fun and im not normally worried about a guy but i just got out a two month relationship with my best friend and it ended terribly and he broke my heart but it was the first time i really allowed a relationship (ive had boyfriends but never a relationship) and i honestly liked it alot .... the whole single free party thing was great but i liked the whole im his girl he cares about me thing too. and there is this guy who really likes me but it would be extremely serious. what should i do? i love to be single and have fun but i get so lonely that way and having nobody esp. since i know what its like to be in a relationship. does anyone have any advice that could maybe help me?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2008):

It is nice to be in a relationship but you can be equally happy being single.

Why not NOT decide what you want to be. You don't have to be completely single or completely hunting for a husband.

Go out, have fun and if you meet a guy who you really like then see where it goes. Let fate decide.

Good Luck!! xx

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