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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: dear cupid, i have a problem, im 18 and im 90% of the time single and am a freshman in college now and i love to be single and go out every weekend and just have an absolute blast and im not really boycrazy (i don't die everytime a hot guy smiles at me) i put school first and nothing comes before my family and friends. im very goal oriented and just love to ahve fun and im not normally worried about a guy but i just got out a two month relationship with my best friend and it ended terribly and he broke my heart but it was the first time i really allowed a relationship (ive had boyfriends but never a relationship) and i honestly liked it alot .... the whole single free party thing was great but i liked the whole im his girl he cares about me thing too. and there is this guy who really likes me but it would be extremely serious. what should i do? i love to be single and have fun but i get so lonely that way and having nobody esp. since i know what its like to be in a relationship. does anyone have any advice that could maybe help me?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 August 2008):
It is nice to be in a relationship but you can be equally happy being single.
Why not NOT decide what you want to be. You don't have to be completely single or completely hunting for a husband.
Go out, have fun and if you meet a guy who you really like then see where it goes. Let fate decide.
Good Luck!! xx
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