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writes:Sooo, I need some advice. The other night I got drunk with my best friend and her boyfriend. Me and her boyfriend have always had this unspoken tension between us. Well it finally came out when he kissed me. And then he kissed me again the next morning, when we weren't drunk. I have no idea how to tell her. I don't want to hurt her or lose her friendship. please please help.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 August 2008):
He might have been the one to kiss you but you let him do it.
You have both betrayed her. But it was only a kiss. I think you just don't tell her and you agree that it DID NOT HAPPEN. Never speak of it again.
Then you need to spend less time with him and if he happens to be in the same place as you then don't be near him. As for him, well I think he needs to question whether he wants to be with your friend if he is straying to other girls. But I guess that's up to his conscience.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, cthulhuhugs +, writes (26 August 2008):
 Whatever you do, make sure that you're the one that tells her so that she doesn't have to hear it from someone else because that'll make the blow even worse. Tell her the whole truth, because (believe me) it WILL come out eventually. It's best to let it all out so that you don't have to repeatedly build up trust only to have it knocked down again by having a new part of the truth come out.
I suggest that you tell her what you told us: that you kissed him once while you were drunk and once again while you were sober, that you're deeply remorseful, that it's tearing you up because you care about her so much and you don't want to lose her friendship.
Then you need to throughly kick your own ass for kissing him back ;)
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