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Am I fetishizing foreign women?

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Question - (26 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *ndigo writes:

I am a white male but almost all the girls I date have been black, hispanic, asian, ect. I don't why I just like dating outside my race, but somebody said I was fetishizing foriegn women when I do that. Is it bad to date exclusively outside your race?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2008):

I'm tall and I really don't like being with a guy who is smaller than me. It doesn't mean I'm fetishing over tall men, it's just what I like.

As long as you treat these women well and love them for their personality as well as their looks then that is all that matters.

Some men like blondes and some brunettes, it's exactly the same with skin colour.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, babewithbrains United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2008):

babewithbrains agony auntThat's like saying it's bad to mix breeds of dog. Some people don' like it but most aren't that bothered.

I find other races attractive, but i also like lots of white people and (incidently) all my friends are white or half and half. I don't think it's a problem, but maybe their just aren't that many white girls that interest you.

aS LONG AS YOU GO FOR LOVE, (or at least like), rather than deliberately dating to be cool and modern. I am completely white and I am very glad to be English and happy, because although people don't have any grudges against anyone else, people still suggest things to do with race. (IE. Pakistaanis are most likely terrorists andmost idians eat too much curry and white people smell like wet dogs.)

Well, i don't think you have anything wrong with you, your just being observant.

Jelly

xxx

PS. I think black people have pretty noses.

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