A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Okay iv been going out with this guy for just under 4 months, i think hes a really amazing guy and love him to bits. however i find kissing him a realy turn-off. He is my first proper boy friend, and i felt even the first time we kissed he dived straight in with full on tounges etc.The problem is i find it a realy turn off, i dont know if he's just a bad kisser or if theres a problem with me, 4 months on i still dont find its improved, and i really dont want it to get between us, and i feel i cant tell him as he may take offense.Please help!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (27 August 2008):
Some boys are just bad kissers. Especially at your age where boys things it's all about opening their mouth as wide as possible and shoving their tongue in.
Next time he does it just pull back and tell him sweetly to kiss you softly. Then get him to sit still and show him how you want to be kissed by kissing him. You can sit on his lap and be a bit dominating to make it sexy rather than embaressing.
Kissing is an art and you have to learn to be good. If you don't like his style then it's not your fault.
Good Luck!! xx
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