All we do is fight..and now I've cheated...should I simply move on?
Q. Well...my story is a pretty pathetic one. I have been in a relationship for over a year with this guy. Initially it was amazing...but the last few months,well;they were pretty bad. I'm pursuing my MBA and 3 months ago i was really busy with...
A. 14 August 2010: The kiss was electric and you did it twice and you're still fighting, it's only a matter of time before you go all the way, either you stop fuffing about and if you're really serious about making your relationship work then get down to the root of ... (read in full...)
I'm the cheated wife!
Q. Hi I'm the cheated Wife. My Ex found his true love at work and they both conspired to Divorce their spouses. She has a kid and I've a little boy as well. My ex was not sure in the beginning but she pressured him to get the divorce first and she woul...
A. 12 August 2010: This guy loves the fact he has two women on the go and most likely you're bombarding him with questions about why he is doing this and how he feels...and he loves it. Absolute no contact with him, yes you have a child but keep it official, in order ... (read in full...)
I know I have to face what I have done but I feel so bad for him and I feel like I have ruined his life!
Q. Big problem! See my other questions to get the full story! I am so miserable right now and it is all my fault! After seeing this guy I talked about 3 times, the guilt has hit me hard. I cannot live with what I have done and decided it was best to ...
A. 11 August 2010: Just tell the truth and move on..you've done, whatever you have done, I guess you didn't feel too guilty when you were doing it, because you went ahead and did it anyway. You say if you stay together it won't work..it seems you already made up your ... (read in full...)
Is her preference for married men and casual attitude towards affairs a red flag?
Q. My girlfriend has been with predominantly married men in her past. All of her relationships prior to me were FWB. The guy she lost her virginity to was married, the next was single, but she did him while she was still with the first. The third was ...
A. 11 August 2010: "She loves me, and I know our relationship is different than these others.." and so thought first guy, second guy..etc. Question, she's been sleeping with married men, showing scant regard for the partners of these men..I know you might think you ... (read in full...)
How to fall in love with my husband again?
Q. How to fall in love with my husband again? We've been married for 5 years, and we have 3.5 y.o. daughter. About 2 years ago, I've met a guy on my friend's b-day party. All sudden I started to have feeling for him, so did he. We would chat online a...
A. 10 August 2010: You cant force yourself to love your husband, you haven't cheated once but many times, you've wilfully allowed yourself to develop multiple emotional attachments to these men, you act like your single yet you have a husband and daughter at home. A ... (read in full...)
We've been dating for a month, but he already has a girlfriend.
Q. I met a guy at college and weve been dating for the past month theres only one problem he already has a girlfriend he says he loves her but wants to be with me and i really dont know what to believe ive known him for a few years now but i really ...
A. 8 August 2010: He should rephrase that " he loves her but wants your tail!" ..best of both worlds...for him... (read in full...)
Unsatisfying sex life...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months. I cheatedd three months ago because i wasnt fully satsified in what he was bringing home meaning sex. But how do i tell him - the only way i can cum is by him givinq head to me. When we have sex i ...
A. 8 August 2010: Break up with the poor boy because he doesn't satisfy you and you'll only cheat on him again. You've already shown you don't respect him, just leave him and find someone who "satisfies" you. Poor guy.... (read in full...)
My friend wants me to cheat with him. Go for it?
Q. I had a long conversation with my boyfriend and suprisingly for once in 11 years he was understanding (or maybe he was pretending lol ). He is doing lots of efforts .Im affraid that it's too little too late.That is how I feel , I love my kids , I...
A. 7 August 2010: Go ahead and cheat and once this so called friend who wants to cheat with you (whatta pal) has used you and once your boyfriend finds out..and trust me he will know because he'll read the changes all over your face..and you lose them both then ... (read in full...)
Do I give my cheating fiancee another chance or move on?
Q. Hi, I have being in a 6 months relationship with a lady banker i met at an online youth forum,shes 25 and am 30. It all stated well with about 3 weeks telephone conversation and on our first date we kissed and the following week we had sex. Mo...
A. 5 August 2010: So either she doesn't love you enough to stop sleeping with someone, even when its clear how you feel about her, or this guy has some incredible sex she can't give up. Look you had a feeling something was off, point is you knew something was wrong ... (read in full...)
Confusion lead me to look at her phone while she was sleeping.....
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a few years. About a year ago we started fighting a lot. Since then we have had sex only six times and we havn't had sex at all in months. She doesn't even want to kiss me or cuddle with me when we ...
A. 4 August 2010: You know if something doesn't feel right, I'm not sure about this self diagnosis of hormonal imbalance has to do with anything, she's not aroused because she's not interested in having sex with you or she's getting it somewhere else or at least its ... (read in full...)
He pushed me too far and I hit him
Q. I hit my boyfriend in the nose and made it bleed last night after catching him at a club dancing with some woman, what do i do now? We have a history which has been filled with lies, cheating, arguing, but never has he been physically abusi...
A. 3 August 2010: Anger management and very fast, you've threatened to kill him then when you felt you had no power so you hit him, you say this is the straw the broke the camel's back, so is this now going to be your recourse of action whenever you don't get your ... (read in full...)
I found a message on her cell phone from a guy getting straight to the point...cheating!
Q. I am a father of a one year old, and I think my girlfriend, the mother of my child, is cheating on me. Why? Because I found a text message on her phone, from some guy I've never met, that went as follows: "Do you want to f*ck?". Seems pretty ...
A. 2 August 2010: umm if she found a message on your from a woman saying the same thing how would she act? Obviously you feel something's been amiss, otherwise you wouldn't have been snooping on her phone, but seriously, joke or not it's not right to be receiving ... (read in full...)
I feel like a bad wife and mother, I'm seeing an ex because I just want some affection
Q. I feel so down about my home life. I got pregnant after being with my partner for a year. My little boy is now 2 and I love him to peices, but if I am honest I wasnt ready to be a mum and I felt a bit forced into the situation. My partner was very ...
A. 2 August 2010: Your broody husband manned up and proposed to you when you got pregnant, there are lots of men out there that don't even take care of their kids, you dont have sex but cuddle, maybe you need to talk to your husband heart to heart and tell him how ... (read in full...)
This is just a rant but I really need your thoughts and suggestions...
Q. this is just a rant, but suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. My gf has trouble letting go of her ex, no matter how nasty he is to us and our friends. She dosent see that he's pushing my friend base away from her....they dont want to speak to...
A. 31 July 2010: umm a brother doesn't go around telling people he's having sex with his "sister", how can you commit to someone who blatantly can't let go of their ex, he'll always be around in the background lurking. If she can't be adult enough to let this guy go ... (read in full...)
Reunited with a lost love!
Q. A lover from my past has been looking for me. After 10 years plus he finally finds me. We do communicate through email only. He reminisces about the past and went through a lot to get to me. When I moved away we were on good terms. Just lost ...
A. 31 July 2010: He's found true love but still willing to cheat on her...whatta guy!!!... (read in full...)
All her guys are friends and its hard for me to trust her!
Q. Dear cupid, I am having very weird feelings towards my current girlfriend. She is out of the province and I can't help but think that she is going to cheat on me. I have been cheated on 5 times with my ex. So I can't trust anyone anymore. It bothers ...
A. 26 July 2010: You've been cheated on so many times you find it hard to trust so that's natural and yes there are some girl who have a lot of guy friends, you'll just have to trust her, it doesnt seem she's done anything wrong yet, so good luck.... (read in full...)
I tell little white lies to my guy and now there's no trust
Q. Okay,lets say i been tellin white lies to my fella for a while now. nothin serious,mostly related to the opposite sex. without goin 2 deep,we split up most times he thinks he finds out,he doesnt knowe,just thinks he has cos jealous people tell him ...
A. 26 July 2010: You lied and lied even when he told you to stop you still lied, then he didn't find out from you he had to hear it from someone else, so why should he believe anything that comes out of your mouth. When you grow up and start to treat other people as ... (read in full...)
Is this married man attracted to me?
Q. Hello everybody. There's the thing. I have recently started going to this new Café/Restaurant near my house and the male owner who is higly attractive started paying me some attention. He is married and has a kid, and I live with my boyfriend.The ...
A. 26 July 2010: He's staring at you touching you so he's not happy in his marriage, or is it he knows he's got an easy potential piece on the side because even though she has a live in boyfriend she still goes to coffee shops were she's flirting with it's ... (read in full...)
I feel like she cheated, but she didn't. I can't get over her past actions. Help!
Q. I hope someone can help me. I feel like I’ve been played, and I’m not sure how to deal with it. I reunited with an old female friend on facebook, and we started out as friends. She was telling me about her relationship problems with her current bf, ...
A. 26 July 2010: It's especially cruel since you gave up a job to be with her. Look my friend actions speak louder than words, and she's full of hot air, all nonsense about I've changed I'm a different person now is waffle. You have the facts in your possession but ... (read in full...)
Help my heart catch up with reality. Please.
Q. Wow, it's weird to call him my ex. We were together 4.5 years ( just after I turned 18) and I loved him so much. I still do. We broke up in march. 2 days after I found him in bed with someone else. " we were only kissing, no sex..." does not matter. ...
A. 26 July 2010: You need to focus on yourself and your own life. Why would you want someone who is blatantly using you, lying to you? Your self esteem is very low and until you come to terms with rebuilding that esteem and surrounding yourself with activities..or ... (read in full...)
Still in love with her despite my broken heart.....
Q. My girl had been talk to a guy for the pass 2years and said its just her friend. i dont mind it at all but he texts her and calls her a lot i ask iher if is something going on between them she said no. Until today she told me she has stong feelings ...
A. 26 July 2010: Question when she went out did she say he was going to be there? Thing is she has strong feelings for him I suggest maybe the sex was consensual and the using the drunk card as a get out. The fact is it was an emotional affair because she developed ... (read in full...)
She cheated, she's remorseful but I'm in the "should I stay or go" stage
Q. Hello. This is my first time posting. I'm not sure wheather I can continue to trust my girl friend. We have been going out 5 and a half months now and she has cheated on me. She got drunk one night while one of her male friends were over and they ...
A. 25 July 2010: You've been going out for five months and she's cheated on you already. You're the best boyfriend she's ever had yet that counted for nothing when she let someone else, not you, sleep with her. She broke the trust and is probably really remorseful ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me before we got married.should I divorce her?
Q. hello there. I have a big problem that i need help to, amy wife cheated on me before we where married. We have being married 5 years, we never had sex before we got married, she was my first and i though i was hers. We have a 2yr old boy.i found out ...
A. 22 July 2010: Divorce her now, you thought you had something sacred and spiritual and it was a lie. And she didn't confess she got caught, plus she also compared six times which means whatever she wanted to compare she must have been really thorough.... (read in full...)
This married woman wants to leave her husband... FOR MY BOYFRIEND!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now and during this time he has cheated with many times, but when i do find out he calls off the relationship them but this always happen after lots of fights and tears. Recently i found out he h...
A. 22 July 2010: He cheats on you yet if you leave him he'll be devastated..apparently, so he keeps lying and sleeping with other women because he has absolutely no respect for you and you have absolutely no self esteem, so you put up with the cheating and lying and ... (read in full...)
Do I get back with a cheater? Can you help me get over her?
Q. I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. and she had a thing for me for a really long time and i was always attracted to her. we started dating and everything was going well until halloween when something happened (its a long story but as a ...
A. 18 July 2010: Wait did she cheat four times? If she did while she was flirting and having sex with these guys, did you enter her mind once? Probably not because she had sex with four guys, not one but four guys in four months..and you want to get back with her? ... (read in full...)
My wife is acting crazy! What should I do?
Q. Hi folks, I am in a serious situation. I married a girl who was my girl friend for 2 years. And we used to love each other dearly. In between due to family problems we needed to spend 6 months apart. Then last year we got married. All of a sudden ...
A. 4 July 2010: She has no respect for you, while you hang on to the little scraps of whatever moral standpoint on the sanctity of marriage, she basically flouts it by her flirting, maybe even cheating. It's really simple, she's apart from you, she doesnt want to ... (read in full...)
He cheated because he was drunk and I cant get over it!
Q. Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months...we started going out sept.7, 2009 and its now June.30, 2010... Back in Feburary he decided to throw a small party when his mother was away and get drunk...( one girl and 4 guys) well ...
A. 1 July 2010: You are very, very young, the fact is this was not a mistake and he's not doing you a favour by telling you, it was wrong full stop, now the trust between you has gone. It is not your job to get over this, that can only happen if he's truly sorry ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend using me?
Q. [Mod note: OP original title] Hi, I am quite troubled with my relationship. I love her a lot and just her.. I have never tried to cheat on her and would just never do it. I am so sure of my love for her.. But thing is like that there are doub...
A. 29 June 2010: Stop giving her an allowance what is she your employee, your daughter? She's a grown woman, if she wants her hair cut and clothes she needs to work for it. Not that you're being taken for a ride but obviously money isnt an issue for you but this ... (read in full...)
Let the past be the past? Or warning sign?!
Q. I been with my girl for 1 year,we were having intercourse and she yelled out a name that wasnt mines. I was furious and asked her to explain her self. She told me it was the person she was with prior to me,but that wasnt what borthered me. It was ...
A. 29 June 2010: ouch no no no get rid of, how lost in yourself and the moment when you're having sex with someone and you scream out someone else's name. Intimacy is the most private and sensual thing between two people and she's replaced you in her head with ... (read in full...)
Who has gone too far. Me or Him???
Q. what the?? OK so I'm 29 and my boyfriend is 44. he has many girlfriends and is very social, and i love this about him. we've worked in the same salon together for 8 yrs, been living together 1 of the 2 yrs we've been dating. generally very happy. ...
A. 29 June 2010: Ok you two gals don't like each other and this guy is caught in the middle right? Still, if everything was above board there would be no need to go to such lengths to hide texts and change names..I mean there's nothing to hide right? Who knows if ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cyber cheated
Q. my gf and i were together for 3 years . we lived together one and half and two weeks ago i found out that she texting another guy literally cyber sex there met up last week nd they slept together .she confirmed it in last txt message she never knew ...
A. 27 June 2010: The reason she's not writing back is because she's still in contact with the guy and wants to be with him. You're a nice safe bet once things have fizzled out she's hoping you'll be there to pick up the pieces. The fact that she talked to the guy, ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants permission to have sex with another woman
Q. My fiance of 6 yrs now told me recently that he wants to have sex with another woman. he'd prefer it with me and 'her' but he'd take 'her' solo also. he explained that its not because i'm lousy in bed but because he's just bored. I know I'm not ...
A. 25 June 2010: Yes you should be enough for him, if he's bored then ask if you can have two guys to see how he likes it, I think that's already been suggested :)... (read in full...)
Am I overly sensitive or is my wife's behaviour with this friend inappropriate?
Q. I have been avoiding asking this but I am up to my bald spot with this! My wife car pools with a man, about her age, with no one else, just the two of them. Five days a week for 45 minutes to 1 hour 15 minutes EVERYDAY. They meet at our house, (...
A. 22 June 2010: It's an emotional affair quite obviously and if she can't see how much it hurts you then you need to sit her down and really talk about it. It doesn't matter there can't be three in this relationship and to have him at your house all the time and ... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend is cheating
Q. i think my girlfriend is cheating and does not really care bout me bcuz she changed from wen we first met. she doesnt call me really. she goes days sometimes she ignores my call. sometimes when were out ad people ask if we are together she says 'no ...
A. 21 June 2010: Errm how much clearer can she make it, what hint aren't you getting if she even says you're not together and are just friends..my guess is if you don't call for a while, she'll end up calling you asking why you're not calling. If somebody treats you ... (read in full...)
I still love her but I'm finding it hard to forgive her, should I give her another chance?
Q. I have been in and out of a relationship with a woman for 2 years now. She is 24, and babysits as her job. She has some college and says she wants to become a nurse, but she seems to rather want everything to be given to her instead of working for ...
A. 18 June 2010: What kind of a low self esteem, scared to be alone because I might never find another chick kind of guy are you? She continually dumps and you and you're too dumb to see it so you take her back! You give guys a bad name chump, grow up and go find a ... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm cheating!
Q. Hi Everyone. Am so sad, confused, annoyed and upset. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. Am 21 years old and he is 29. We are great together, we enjoy each others company but there is an obstacle that is bringing our relation...
A. 15 June 2010: Sex is a shared experience, both physical and emotional. This guy is only concerned about massaging his male ego or re-enacting what he sees in porno movies. If he thinks you're cheating because you don't scream and holler when you're together, then ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to give our relationship another chance?
Q. I am reposting this in hopes for a males perspective and honest advice! There were a few incidents in the beginning of our relationship where he flirted with others in my presence. On facebook there are pics of him and others, some are recent ...
A. 15 June 2010: Drunkedness and meds are no excuse for violence, he's seen another side of you and is now thinking how can he commit himself to someone for the rest of his life when she's capable of this? Unless you do a complete U-turn and change your life, you'll ... (read in full...)
I'm falling out of love with husband and into love with someone else
Q. My husband and I have been together for 12 years, but only been married for 9. We have 2 children together. When we met each other, he was dating someone else. He started cheating on her with me, then I became pregnant. He told me that he wanted to ...
A. 13 June 2010: Or maybe you want to "fall out of love" with you husband so you can pursue this relationship with this guy. Listen it's all well and easy now a days to just up and leave a marriage just because one party is not "satisfied" Your husband loves you and ... (read in full...)
G/f cheated andI don't think I'll be able to love her like I once did
Q. Ok, my gf and i started hanging out as friends and hooked up twice (not sex) last april of 2009. Maybe i started to show too much emotion and she was always in a relationship her whole life so she was enjoying the single life, so she ended up ...
A. 7 June 2010: umm she keeps boning this other dude, you actually hear it and you keep taking her back? Now she's pregnant and you're sure you're the father? I think you're both deluded and in a bad relationship. There will be no trust, she doesn't respect you and ... (read in full...)
I seduced the man who will soon be my stepfather
Q. So, in reality I know this is wrong but it feels like so right. Well it like all started when this man moved in with my mother! Within 6 months they were engaged and he was a very considerate step dad. Then things took a weird turn, i started ...
A. 7 June 2010: Wow, and wow, good luck to you, if he's so weak he's that easy to tempt then you two will be very happy together especially since you'll probably lose your mother and your family and if this relationship breaks down who are you going to run to, the ... (read in full...)
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