I don't want to be gay!!
Q. I am a Baptist Christian guy. I know the Bible prohibits homosexuality, or bisexuality etc. But I feel attracted to mens bodies. It's not like I love men. It's lust. And with girls I'm not attracted to their bodies as much but I love them for who ...
A. 24 February 2011: I know its something that seems natural or something you can't escape. Earlier poster's said why would God make you this way if he thought it was wrong? I think God did make you this way for a reason.
No one is made exactly the same, I believe ... (read in full...)
Can we fix this? I don't appreciate her lying right to my face
Q. me and my girlfriend ahve been seeing eachother for a little over 6 months now and i recentley caught her in a lie the other night, there has been a huge fight and dsipute with me and a few of her friends regarding one of her friends, she had been ...
A. 24 February 2011: That is the longest sentence I have have ever read... (read in full...)
I feel like I've let my boyfriend down...
Q. hi everyone, i've been with my boyfriend now for over a year and i really do love him so much and i do see a huge future for us and we've been through so much together. however, lately i've had an unwanted crush on someone from my college class it...
A. 9 February 2011: Well I think thats part of human nature, don't cheat on your bf. If you really need to try to get with this guy tell your bf everything no matter what and break up with him first. I bet it would only be a temporary cure though, as goes the saying ... (read in full...)
I did something bad but I found out my girlfriend is cheating on me
Q. I suspected my girlfriend of cheating on me with her ex so I made a fake facebook and added him. I found out that she is cheating on me with him but I feel bad for doing something weird like this. What should I do? I don't know this guy and none of ...
A. 9 February 2011: Hell no dude yeah it might be wrong and if she wasn't cheating she might be pissed about it but you found for sure she is cheating. This isn't a court of law the evidence isn't tossed in the trash if you don't have a search warrant.Shes cheating on ... (read in full...)
I want to abstain from sex until I meet someone special, will this mean my vagina will get tighter?
Q. So im 19 years old and in my whole life I had sex 4 times with 4 guys. Ive just want to be with somebody that I could could make love with a special person. But now I want to abstain from sex until im a serious relation or until i finish college ( ...
A. 3 February 2011: I'm not a doctor or anything... But I have heard that its really not an issue of how much sex youve had, (unless youve been experimenting with bowling balls) but more so a genetic thing. I mean your born with a certain "tightness" and thats what you ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my cheating husband?
Q. I just found out my husband left my 3 children and I to go out with his friends in a far away town(2-3 hrs away),pick up some girls at a bar, go back to there place and slept with one of them. I had called him the same night and he was trying to ...
A. 3 February 2011: totally agree with caring guy there, what a piece of shit.... (read in full...)
My married lover's wife calls me when he is away from her!
Q. I have two kids from different fathers, i was married to the first child dad and we divorced in 2004, i divorced him because i didnt love him anymore for no reason. i met my long high school lover and we got back together and we got engaged in 2006, ...
A. 3 February 2011: Ok, so your annpoyed because this mans wife has been calling you? Well it is her husband, she probably has the right to come visit you and kick your ass, but why would you stay with this guy? Money? I guess you've been cheated on before, so being ... (read in full...)
Should I be ok with my girlfriend sleeping in another guy's bed?
Q. My girlfriend went to a sleepover with her guy friend, since he supposedly dosent have a guest room, she has to sleep on the same bed as him, should I be fine with that?...
A. 3 February 2011: Why is she going for a sleepover with another guy? I mean I wouldn't be down for that at all. Is he her brother? Gay best friend? My gf doesn't spend the night at any guy's house, especially sleep in the bed with him. Couldn't she at least find a ... (read in full...)
He called me his ex's name!
Q. Last night my boyfriend and I were in bed and I was kissing him and he turned round and said 'No *****' (Not my name) so I imediately jumped up and said what did you just call me?? He tried to grab me and hug me and said sorry but at least I was ...
A. 3 February 2011: I agree with capri, being friends with the ex isn't a good deal. I wouldn't appreciate my gf being friends with one of her ex's. As far as saying her name, I think that was just a mental mistake on his half. Does he see his ex regularly? Unless he ... (read in full...)
Is he avoiding/ignoring me because I wouldn't have sex with him?
Q. Just wanted to get a guy's perspective on this: I've been dating a guy for about 2 months, we seemed to get along, joke, talk about sports (yes I like sports), and he's been affectionate with me, however we haven't had sex. He's been dropping hi...
A. 3 February 2011: Guys perspective-Yes, he wants sex. No, he doesn't want to put the time in to getting to know you. He's been with you for two months and it's going nowhere, so he's not going to push the issue anymore of spending time with you if he's getting no ... (read in full...)
What is the Push/Pull theory?
Q. Hi everyone. Can anyone tell me what the Push/Pull theory of dating is? Does a man use this when he is trying to sleep with a woman only? Or is it when he is attracted to her and wants to date her? Do single men do it or do married men do it? What ...
A. 3 February 2011: What the hell is the push/pull theory?... (read in full...)
Is 'no contact' the right way to get her back?
Q. basically,my and ex and i broke up around 4 and a half months ago.it came out of nowhere,we were very much in love we talked in dept about our future,she told me she never met anyne like me and etc.the break up was down to silly arguments because of ...
A. 3 February 2011: Looking at your title "Is no contact the right way to get her back" usually when you show someone you care you dont forget about their existence, but I understand how things work. Honestly after saying this a few times and going back on your word ... (read in full...)
I've done everything he wanted but I can't seem to win him over!
Q. Okay, so I've liked this senior for a while now. I'm 14 and he's 18. We hung out in the beginning of December. He told me he couldn't be serious because of the age difference. I was really crushed. We quit talking for a while because we got in an ...
A. 3 February 2011: Well I'm glad your being honest because you are young, I know i'm only 22 and when people told me what not to do I got defensive and wanted to grow up. Truth is though you may totally disagree with me, there are way more guys out there than just ... (read in full...)
She finally confessed her infidelity. What do I do?
Q. This is a very confused guy who loves her girlfriends of 6 years to bits. However,my Girlfriend finally confessed to me the guy entered her but stopped when she shouted because it hurt. (From the description, I know personally how difficul...
A. 3 February 2011: Well I dont think I am capable of sugar coating my response. She cheated on you, you dont feel the same and dont love her, so why are you still with her. I understand taking time to make a decision but if you dont love her then I would be gone. You ... (read in full...)
I've done everything he wanted but I can't seem to win him over!
Q. Okay, so I've liked this senior for a while now. I'm 14 and he's 18. We hung out in the beginning of December. He told me he couldn't be serious because of the age difference. I was really crushed. We quit talking for a while because we got in an ...
A. 3 February 2011: Because your 14, who wants to date an eight grader while their a senior? sorry thats probably the truth, please calm down on the dirty stuff your only 14 believe me any boy your age that was interested in you is intimidated by this and your ... (read in full...)
I want to move in with him!
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I have bin together for a year and a half. We are both 24 (ill be 25 this month) living at home. I work two jobs one full time and one part time he works nights and goes to school full time. I just applied to grad school ...
A. 3 February 2011: You cant force anyone to do anything really, all you can do is tell him how you feel and demand an answer for why he wont make the move, its strange that he wouldnt unless it has something to do with leaving his dad alone cause it sounds like his ... (read in full...)
Abusive partner...
Q. I asked for advise on my partner of 12 months not long ago all the advise was great i wanted to take it but now its a whole different ball ground.... ok i dont want advise telling me to leave him because i cant.... My partner asked me when he lost ...
A. 3 February 2011: Thats ridiculous, you need a restraining order on this guy, he is borderline abusive and is on the verge of hurting you. I'm sorry that you feel such love for someone like this I don't know why females put themselves through this kind of behavior ... (read in full...)
I feel so much guilt for doing this!
Q. I have a gf but we haven't had sex in a while she is out of town ... I miss it and sometimes i watch porn and porn videos of gays come out .... so today there is someone that i didnt know and we were talking on the internet and he asked me if i wa...
A. 3 February 2011: Well thats interesting, honestly you need to tll your gf about this I think its probably the best move.She gonna be pissed so expect that but I would own up to it. Thats the only way you are going to feel any better about the situation, trust and ... (read in full...)
Do men treat their girlfriends differently???
Q. Do men treat their girlfriends differently? If so, why? I broke up with my ex just over a year ago. I thought I was getting over him quite well until I saw some photos of him on a social networking site with his new girlfriend. She talks of...
A. 3 February 2011: No you don't have to spell anything out, if were not into you we don't want to do anything inconvenient for something were not real serious about. On the other hand sometimes its hard to know what your gf wants, I try for my gf but I always seem to ... (read in full...)
Was it reasonable for me to ask her to remove the guys she had a threesome with from her facebook?
Q. I have been with my fiance for the last 11 months, she has many of her ex-boy freinds on her facebook account which she claims to be good freinds with, This also includes 2 guys who have had a threesome with her, it is a bit confronting and hard ...
A. 2 February 2011: Hell no your not being unreasonable. She had sex with two guys at once and I thinks it ok to be uncomfortable with that. If you said look I don't like that these guys still can communicate with you could you please delete them? no problems with ... (read in full...)
Help should I go back to my ex??????
Q. Okay I have a situation in my hand. A couple of months agomy ex of five years ended our relationship of five years. It has been what some say emotionally abusive"him calling me fat,i need to wear makeup, this that" basically to make a long story ...
A. 2 February 2011: Youve moved on, took some time like it does for 90% of women to see "wait hes a dousche bag and there are guys out there who will treat me like gold". Don't go back to his lame ass, he spit on you?WTF. You would be crazy to get back with a guy like ... (read in full...)
I'm unfaithful and it's killing me!
Q. I have been married for 10 years to the man I loved, and we have 2 wonderful children. After 4 happy years, a big issue based on my hubby's "unfair" suspicions, almost made our marriage collapse. We managed to overcome the matter but without going ...
A. 2 February 2011: Well he loves you deeply but he completes looks out for himself in the bedroom and doesn't communicate at all with you, Id say the other are right if your not in love with your husband then leave the children will survive. Don't be that kind of ... (read in full...)
How to tell my boyfriend that I want to keep my baby?
Q. I am not really seeking advice, just wanted to get things off my chest. Any comments however will be taken into consideration and welcomed. I am very much in love with a man, well at this point I am not sure what it is anymore. I wish I could jus...
A. 2 February 2011: Please don't go through with it! I'm not saying that from a strict religous standpoint.. don't put yourself through it. I have never heard a "i'm happy that I got an abortion story". I have a 6 month old son with the woman I love, I'm 22. She talked ... (read in full...)
Am I being used or played?
Q. Ive being seeing a guy for the last 3 months. He says we are in a relationship but I dont feel it.Hes 26 and Im 19. We live really close to each other but I only see him about 2 days a week. When i first met him I was in a relationship but it was ...
A. 2 February 2011: After the 26 and your 19 comment I thought hes playin her for sure, you don't complain much, you give it up, you don't bug him to hang out even tho you live close.
Id say your gettin played but he texts you everyday maybe he just doesnt know rel... (read in full...)
Still have thoughts of my first love even though I'm married now!
Q. hi, long story short. I'm married to a man i do love, but i cant stop thinking about my ex, my first love. ive always loved him but i fell in love with my husband and forgot about my ex for a while, but now i cant stop thinking about. I dream about ...
A. 2 February 2011: If it bugs you you need to tell him the whole truth, if you can live with feeling "fake".
Otherwise hold it in I suppose I would be hurt bad if my gf ever said that tho especially if she was my wife.... (read in full...)
Thinking of other men during sex!
Q. my husband and i got married 5 months ago. before marrying we had a child in 2001 and broke up for 4 years and got back together in 2008. We have been having some communication issues. And i feel sometimes he does not understands me. And that makes ...
A. 2 February 2011: Its not a real big deal I guess kinda makes me wonder about my gf now, as long as its fantasizing and thats it I guess it isn't too bad.
DO NOT ever tell him that. especially about guys from your past that would hurt pretty bad.... (read in full...)
I don't think its fair to start a relationship with this guy if I'm not completely over my ex.
Q. hi ive posted on here a long time ago. So if any of you read my other questions, some were about a guy i was involved with. We ended up dating and i was extremely happy. However we broke up about a year ago. I was devistated and i basically gave up ...
A. 2 February 2011: Welp, Iv seen many girls that fit that profile. Have an ex usually their first long relationship, they think their bf loves them and they will be together forever, live the fairy tale, nothing could ever go wrong and this is "the one". Thats great ... (read in full...)
Am I related to the guy that I'm falling in love with?
Q. Ok, so this guy that I'm falling in love with his mother is like my mother's 4th or 5th cousin... and I just found that out, does that mean me and him are closely related??? Please help I don't wanna be kissing cousins.. =( ...
A. 1 February 2011: no not related at all, youd be surprised how many marriages are made that are closer than that.... (read in full...)
Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?
Q. Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...
A. 31 January 2011: Wow I'm sorry that you feel this way, I don't think its a male instinct there, sounds like you found out she didn't have it for you anymore and you didn't have it for her either, this relationship sounds far from being salvaged, with the children ... (read in full...)
We've been together now for over 3 months but still haven't had sex!!!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 and a half months, but haven't had sex! We are very close and have a strong connection, however, he is reluctant to fully have sex with me. We have fooled around orally and we both obviously turn e...
A. 20 January 2011: Well I'm not real experienced on convincing guys to have sex with me (I'm a straight guy so I could give a shit less about that) but maybe hes been through some relationships where he was used or sex ruins things, your awful young to be sleepin with ... (read in full...)
I told her everything and now she doesn't want to be friends any more...
Q. The girl that I love who went out with another guy had asked me to tell her everything (she knows that I love her). She doesn't know what is everything and what I mean by everything is... a lot of bad things about her boyfriend. I have been trying...
A. 20 January 2011: Some people want to know the truth, some people get pissed for knowing the truth. She probably wants this guy to be an allstar like she has pictured in her mind...but in real life hes a dousche bag and shes pissed that her fairytale was crushed. You ... (read in full...)
How do I stop myself from regretting losing my virginity after its done?
Q. So i've met this guy. it was through a friend of a friend and we met only briefly but i have him as a friend on facebook. So we began talking and the conversation quickly became sexual. We swapped numbers and have continued this to and fro-ing of ...
A. 19 January 2011: I'm a guy. Just because you have no sex experience doesn't mean your gonna suck at sex youll do great your first time experience or not, your a girl every penis will be pleased by that. If you lose your virginity I doubt that your going to get a... (read in full...)
I'm thinking I wasn't the only guy she slept with when we started dating!
Q. My Dilemma: When I started dating my girlfriend, she told me that she didnt sleep with more than one guy at a time..... well, it took me 2 months to actually have sex!! I thought she was worth it... Now i know im stupid for doing this, s...
A. 19 January 2011: Well if you got on this website for advice i'mpretty sure your confident she is full of shit and you want to know it all, you probably really like her but no one wants to live the lie and feel like their partner is fake. I would come clean and talk ... (read in full...)
Do I have to tell this guy I'm seeing about my past sexual experience?
Q. Do i have to tell this guy im seeing about my past sexual relationships and experiences or does it not matter?... things have been going really well, and weve been getting to know each other, i just wondered if it was neccessary to tell him? He ...
A. 19 January 2011: This eats guys up, im one of them my gf voluntarily told me all about her past and her and I didnt know how much it would hurt later, it took a long time to get over it and when it came up again she left some out and lied about things she told me ... (read in full...)
She cheated and I forgave her. Now she's doing it again. How do I deal with it?
Q. Hello, a year ago my gfriend cheated on me. We broke up for a short period then I forgave her. A year later, now, I discover she is still chatting online with the guy she cheated with. Frankly I want to dump her. It took me some stomach to take her...
A. 12 January 2011: Thats not an easy situation but talking with someone she cheated with is dealbreaker for me...The child needs two parents but they need to be happy ones. I have a similar but diff situation so and I know I can't leave my son but if I didn't love his ... (read in full...)
I hate being rejected. She's not as interested as before. Our LDR is deteriorating. Help!
Q. Hello, I've been dating my highschool sweetheart for the past going on three years of college. She is about an hour away at a different college, however hopefully transferring here. Im truly in love with this girl and I would like to spend the rest...
A. 12 January 2011: Yeah dude you might be pushing her a little much with the sex. Sounds good, sex is, bring it up and tell her that you feel like shes not interested see what she has to say...Don't play mind games females are waaaayyy better at that shit than you ... (read in full...)
I'm not ready yet. But I seek your guidance on how to initiate sex for the first time?
Q. Okay.. Please don't be mean with answers to this. I'm not planning to make an instant decision here. To start off, I'm 19. I am a virgin, by choice. I've had a lot of chances of "Losing it", but I didn't want to until I was ready, and with someone ...
A. 12 January 2011: Believe me I'm a guy with a kid and sex can wait until your ready. I do respect the fact that you have waited not many make it that far. Alot of guys do want girls who are like you and honestly aren't going to push sex. Sounds like the guys your ... (read in full...)
He's apologized for his remark, but I'm feeling broken and lost inside. He means so much to me.
Q. I don't know what's wrong with me now. There was a misunderstanding between my boyfriend and me. He thought I was talking bad about his friends and said something to me that made me feel less important. I love him so much but I feel as if I don't ...
A. 12 January 2011: Actually I recently had a fight with my gf and I said something to her that I truly didnt mean but i knew it would hurt her feelings so being the shallow bastard I am I hurt and feelings and ever since she has been hurt by what I said.I keep telling ... (read in full...)
I never imagined my affair would leave his wife!
Q. I met this man whilst he was away for 5 months on work and we were instantly drawn to each other without really speaking. When we did talk it turned out he was married with kids, although my moral stance as always been very strong on this sort of ...
A. 12 January 2011: wow you two are great together thats good news, maybe he wasn't happy with his marriage, that happens too that was probably wasn't the case since he told her everything immediately. Now the kids get a part time dad and a woman probably got her heart ... (read in full...)
What positions do guys love most in bed?
Q. WHAT POSSITIONS DO GUYS LOVE MOST IN BED...
A. 24 December 2010: yep doggy is the bomb, everything is pretty awesome really haha...except reverse cowgirl...doesnt work good fro that one.... (read in full...)
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