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I cheated on her when drunk... how can I get her back?
Q. Hi, i please need help i don't know what to do. i have been home one year now but i really wasn't content with my self, last week i got very drunk and cheated on my girlfriend, i know that this happened as a combo of my own state of mind and the ...
A. 29 November 2006: to be honest get down on your knees and beg make her feel like she the only one for you drink has no excuse i hope you know that as well... (read in full...)
My nightmare came true...my bf doesn't feel the same about me as he used to! What can I do?
Q. PLease help... my boyfriend, after two years, has decided that he isnt sure Im the one for him any more. He doesnt think he feels the same as he used to... that he wanted to marry me, that i was the one for him, etc. I cant bear it. its my nightmare ...
A. 29 November 2006: hi hen i think you should talk get to know each other a bit better do something use have not done before go on holiday but let him go out without texting you need trust as well i hope things go well xx... (read in full...)
help i am 14
Q. i am 14 i havent started my period i have really small boobs what should i do help...
A. 5 October 2006: hey girl i know that you proberley think when is this ever gonna happen but it will hen if i was you i would be counting myself lucky youll see that when it happens... (read in full...)
I am a shy guy, how do I ask this girl to a school dance?
Q. Hey! I am a shy 17 year old guy and i want to ask this girl to a school dance. how should i approach her and what should i say? we get on fine at school and she seems to be a plesant person....
A. 5 October 2006: hi there i remember being at school i was like you so shy that i really couldnt even talk to a guy so what i done was i just started saying few sentences to him then i found out what he really liked and i asked him if he fancied doing it he said yes ... (read in full...)
This will be the first time for both of us!
Q. Hi, I've been seeing this boy for about four months now and we are really mad about one another and are thinking about having sex (this will be the first time for both of us!) We have basically done everything else already and both really love...
A. 5 October 2006: hi hen if use are both ready and that is both of use and use are serious about each other it would maybe bring use closer but no one can give you advice about this except yourself if you are ready then you will know ... (read in full...)
what he does wiv me he does wiv other girls
Q. hiya evyone, i am 15.i dnt reali no how to word this but im gonna try my best. there is this lad at my school he is in the yr below me. He seriously flirts wiv me we hug all the ime and he has tryed to kiss me, he puts his hands up my top and on to ...
A. 5 October 2006: hi there ask him what he wants first cause yes he can be doing it for fun or he might reallylike you ask him if he fancies doing something just the two of use then you will find out for yourself hunny ... (read in full...)
In a long distance relationship-what do you do about your sex drive?
Q. In a long distance relationship. What do you do about your sex drive?...
A. 17 September 2006: to be honest pam in her five sisters only kidding a long ditance relationship you have to be init towin it its hard but you can have phone sex or even cyber but thats all you could really do its hard i know i have been in a long distance ... (read in full...)
Im 17 hes 15, we have a sexual relationship that our are aware although know its illegal, is this allowed ?
Q. i am 17, i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now.only problem being hes younger than me, hes nearly 15. i know its strange but hes not your average 15 yr old mentally and physically. weve grown realy close, in a stable relationship and have ...
A. 17 September 2006: to be honest we know its wrong with age diffrence but you cant help who you fall for dear if your happy you go for it gir it sounds like he makes you happy and it sounds that he is mature for his age just tellyour parentsthe truth that use really ... (read in full...)
My Mum died and I miss her so badly. Any advice in helping me get through this?
Q. Hey guys! I know this isnt relevent to this site but i lost my mum in march the 14th this year and im finding it very hard to move on. Ive resorted to booze to ease the pain. I dont want to do this but i cant see any other other way and my life ...
A. 17 September 2006: hi hen im really sorry about your mum i know your proberley feeling lonley right now but hold your head up dear it hasnt been long since your mum has died it will take a while but it will happen havee you got friends or a boyfriend what will help or ... (read in full...)
Ive waited 2 weeks for her to call since our breakup...but no contact. Should I just move on?
Q. I had a short relationship of about a month and half. Everything seemed cool but my girlfriend decided to break up saying "she was confused". It has already been two weeks since the break-up. However I am still hopeful that she will call back. But ...
A. 31 August 2006: to be onest i think you should move on dear she has made no contact or should you no intrest definatley time to move on take carexx... (read in full...)
Are her orgams real or fake?
Q. I think i gave my girlfriend an orgasm but i dont no! the last three times me and my girlfriend have had sex she has been on top and after about 10 mins she says she feels a pulsing inside of her a few mins later she says she has 1 big pulse an...
A. 31 August 2006: well i dont think it sounds like she faking but whatyou sayingit sounds real take care xx... (read in full...)
Both attending different uni's this fall...should I tell her our relationship won't work or keep trying?
Q. my gf just moved to the other side of the country and in the next year ill proably see for like 2 weeks. I love her very much but a year is a long time to wait for 2 weeks. I kinda know its never gonna work out , it cant but she seems to think it ...
A. 31 August 2006: to be honest long relationships can work but you are o certain this aint anyways you could break up with her and if you dont get another g/f when she comes back hook back up or maybe she doesnt want that but if i was you i would follow your heart ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my best friend's brother and she's pissed off at me! What should I do?
Q. I am an 18 year old girl who has fallen for her best friend's brother. I understand it may be weird for my friend to imagine us together, but we really love each other and I do not understand why she can't be happy for us. She has made it clear...
A. 31 August 2006: hi hen well lets see i thinkyour friend doesnt want you to go out with her brother she wants her best friend sh doesnt want to lose you i know you will stay friends but it will be a wee bit weird for her usually going out partying with you to ... (read in full...)
He gets texts from his ex but says I shouldn't have contact with my ex! Double-standard? Is he playing me?
Q. hi i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months now and already we have a problem. ive found out that hes been recieving text messages from his ex-gf and then deleting them straight away, and telling me they are from one of his gay mates. to be ...
A. 31 August 2006: i think there is one rule for you and not for the other and yes i think he is playing he has no reason to delete them unless there is summun up or if there aint you are right hen he could tell you anyways you soundd like a great gal you can do ... (read in full...)
I was his standby girl and now that I'm moving away-he seems frantic to get in touch! Is he having 2nd thoughts?
Q. I was with my boyfriend for a long time. We broke up over a year ago now and he moved back to him hometown. It was hard at the beginning but got better as time went on. I did occasionally hear from him...not often, only when he was drinking and was ...
A. 31 August 2006: maybe he does really like you or it could be that heis single now and knowing you coming bk he might just wait for you hen i think he relised what he actually had when youleft now he cant wait for u coming back thats what i think doll take care xx... (read in full...)
Why do married men look at porn? A man's perspective, please.
Q. Why do married men look at porn? I have an agreement with my husband (of 9 years)that strip clubs, magazines, movies and surfing the net is fine...but i found a subscription to a web site that featured one girl. I found this to be pushing it. ...
A. 30 August 2006: hi hen see half the things half thesemen have wrote henporn aint right its a discrace to women i would be here if it was me doll trust me anyway why do they need porn when they can have the real thing i say doll tell him to stop and that you dont ... (read in full...)
This is a bit of a Jealousy/insecurity issue, but please hear me out and please help...
Q. Hi guys. This will sound to all of you like a ridiculous problem. I have real jealousy and insecurity issues. I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of two years, and Im very aware of how attractive he is. He is coming over to...
A. 30 August 2006: have you been hurt in the past hen maybe thats where it is all cming from those feeling you are having or if not try and talk to him if there is no trust there is no relationship darling take care xx... (read in full...)
He called me a 'jumper' and said we wanted different things from a relationship! What am I doing wrong?
Q. I am a single mom with two young children. they are ages two and four. I have just recently started dating again. I have only been out a couple of times. However, I seem to be coming on all wrong. The last guy I saw approached me. We had 4 dates, we ...
A. 30 August 2006: hi hen you doing nothin wrong good guys are every where doll there is plenty ofthem try gettin a babysitter go out with your friends and have some fun maybe then you will meet someone take care xx... (read in full...)
I'm only 12 and my Dad's friend always grabs at me! Who will believe me and what should I do?
Q. hi.i'm 12 years old virgin. my dad's closest friend grabs me at any chance he gets. i've told him not to do that and i'll tell for him if he tries it again but he says no one will believe me not even my dad his good friend for years. He said he will ...
A. 30 August 2006: hi darlingim so sorryyou areputting up with that if i was you tell your step parents if there not willing to listen you say your are adopted tell your social worker i know there would be trouble but if he does end up doing something you have told ... (read in full...)
I'm 16..he's 15 and he's talking marriage and babies! I need to end this. Any ideas on how to do that?
Q. yey people got a huge problem my boyfriend keeps on talking to me about having kids and starting a family and settling down. and im really not ready for it all i mean im onli 16!!!!! and he's onli 15!!!!! i need to end it now befor it gets too far ...
A. 30 August 2006: tell your boyfriend that you need to slow thingd down cause you are only young and you have your whole life ahead of you hen make him understand if he dont then you will have to end it iif you not happy doll take care xx... (read in full...)
He gets so close to orgasm but just can't do it..and he complains it hurts! Whats should he do?
Q. my boyfriend and i recently started having sex but for some reason every time we do it he gets really close to ejaculation but in the end it just doesn't happen. im a bit worried because sometimes he says it hurts. ...
A. 30 August 2006: i think you should ask your boyfriendto go to the doctors darling because that aint normal so phone a doctors appointment or ask him to phone i think he should get medical help doll cheersxx... (read in full...)
Any Ideas to reduce in growing hairs ?
Q. Hi, Does anyone have any easy treatments for ingrowing hairs ? My man shaves every other day to try and eradicate so many, but just lately hes getting quite a few and no matter what he tries he still gets ingrowing hairs around the neck ...
A. 29 August 2006: i have a idea for you my partner gets the same thing he uses johnsons hair minimising cream it works and your hair doesnt come in as bushy and as fast cheersxx... (read in full...)
My father molested my daughter when she was small. I kept quiet and now..I feel like i should've done something more.
Q. I didnt grow up with my father since he separated from my mum long when we were kids but still we had a good relationship with our father especially after mum passed away. I had a bad marriage since my husband was violent and physically abused m...
A. 29 August 2006: hi it not your fault hen you did what you could i have been through a similar act except i was the victim my dad done it to me i was scared of him and i got through it but my mum blamed herself it was not her fault though i never told her and when i ... (read in full...)
I was raped and I cant talk about it
Q. i am very self concious since i was raped even more than i was before and that was alot i find it very hard to sleep because wen i manage to sleep i only get bout 2 hours if that sumtimes i get less than 30 mins i dont eat because i cant it makes me ...
A. 29 August 2006: hi chaz my name is bonni this is hard for me what about if i tell you this happend to me and it was by a family member and i went through it for 12 years well thats what i did and chaz it does get esier trust me it does but it takes a while i was ... (read in full...)
We had sex with no condom..but he didn't ejaculate. I am so scared of being pregnant! Advice needed.
Q. my boyfriend and i had sex for the fist time yesterday. we didnt use a condom, but he didnt cum. im still scared of being pregnant. can someone help me? what do I do....
A. 29 August 2006: i dont think you will be pregnant but if you miss your cycle go to doctors and get test but i dont think you will have no worries just make sure you either get condoms or concereptive cheersxx... (read in full...)
The 'butterflies in my stomach' feeling is gone with my bf.....but that feeling is there with his best friend!
Q. Ok i'm 16 and my 19 yr old boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half now and problems are starting to arise. For one, I no longer want to be intimate...Having sex and kissing just freak me out...It's like everytime we do someting ...
A. 29 August 2006: if you have fell out of love with your boyfriend you shouldnt be hangin on cause at the end its his feeling you will be hurting his friend seems to be with use like a rash use need time together i think if the spark is gone then you know it is over ... (read in full...)
After sex this guy didnt talk much to me
Q. so im sleeping with this guy, and he's said things like we're perfect for each other, he wants to know everything about me, and how he's glad i like him for more than just "ass". the thing is, the other night we finished, and he was just hanging ...
A. 29 August 2006: maybe he has problems of his own thats why he is quite or it can be that he is comfortable around you he dont need to chat but have a talk to him if it keeps going and ask for answers cheersxx... (read in full...)
It went cold and just wants to be friends, what can I do ?
Q. I had been going out with this boy for 2 weeks and he ended it while i was holiday. he told my friends it wasnt working but we had only met up 1 since we had been together coz he was then ill and i then went to france for 10 days. At the start of ...
A. 29 August 2006: maybe he no ready for a relaionship tell him how youfeel and see what he says there could be a few reasons why he has done this maybe he was scared of losing you and thought it would easie if he done that why dont you just come out and ask him ... (read in full...)
I love him but, He has a hooker pipe
Q. Hi I am 13 and very upset because even tho we have split up me n my x-boyfriend still like eachother and he knows how much I hate the thought of drugs but tonight he said he had a hooker pipe which is like a bong. He has said he has had weed in the ...
A. 28 August 2006: you have your whole life ahead of you if he wants to do drugs leave him to it its his life but dont let him drags yours down with him if he is only doing this to wind you up then he needs to grow up then cheersxx... (read in full...)
His grandad says we're cousins but I am adopted
Q. im 17 and recently started seeing a lad who lives near me. we were at his grandads one night and thought everyone was in bed when his grandad walked in the living room and caught us laid on the floor kissing eachother, i dont know how long he was ...
A. 28 August 2006: well you go gal if your happy then go for it dont let your family stop you try and talk to them but if they dont understand then its up to them it not their life it urs cheersxx... (read in full...)
I Want to go for a week and my GF will have none of it
Q. Please help, myself and my girlfriend have been together 13 years since high school I am now 27 she is 25. We live together and have no previous history of cheating. The problem is I have booked to go on holiday with the boys for a week in Sept and ...
A. 28 August 2006: well what would it be if you were in her shoes would youlike that if you ok then tell her that you love her and she the only gal for you if not well theres your answer cheersxx... (read in full...)
I tried a move on him and he rejected me
Q. Please I need some advice, because I have totally made myself look like an "ass". Basically, I was going out with a man for many many years, and we broke up a couple of months ago. So, we decided to meet up for the first time ever since our break ...
A. 28 August 2006: maybe he doesnt want to get close plus his head will be messed up if he is ready to break up with his recent girlfriend give him a while to get back to normal then talk to him tell him how you really feel then see what happens but remember dont get ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and domestic violence!
Q. what should i do my girlfreind is having bad mood swings no matter what i do she keeps screaming and shouting at me shes even kicked me in the face and broke my nose punched me and thrown stuff at me when i ask whats wrong she just seems to get more ...
A. 28 August 2006: i think your girlfriend need some help for anger i think she had a bad past maybe and she is keeping it bottled up when she should let itout tell her mate she needs to talk cause you aint no punch bag your a human being like everyone else cheersxx... (read in full...)
My husband insults me...what shall I do!
Q. My husband and I have been together since we were 15 we are now 26 and I accepted his moods and the fact that he made it clear that I should not expect romance as its not in his nature. We never fought. I thought we had the perfect marriage. He ...
A. 28 August 2006: hi hen im just gonna be honest its what i do this aint perfect it aint right you dont need a man what is gonna call you down you dont deserve it and if a man told me he didnt love i sure wouldnt be sitting there now thats my opinion and p.s everyone ... (read in full...)
Tips of flirting
Q. i like a guy, feel kind of silly for liking him, im 16 hes 18, we get on really well, not know eachother for long but we did hit it off straight away spoke and that a few times but we talk online alot he gives me lovely compliments !!! i dont want ...
A. 28 August 2006: if you are going to meet him hen when he says summin funny laugh and touch him slightly on the arm or summin make yourself hotso he will be all over you hen but smiles touchin slightly it will work hen cheersxx... (read in full...)
We spend so much time together - is it normal?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We have a great relationship and are now beginning to move forward woth our relationship and working on plans to move in together. We were wondering whether our current situation is ...
A. 28 August 2006: well i wouldnt beconcered just now it meansthat use are happy to talk for ages untill there isnothin to talk about and if use are happy go ahead doll cheersxx... (read in full...)
Sex problems with LT partner
Q. i have been with my gf for 3 yrs have a baby togather but in the last 6 months iv had this problem i orgasm really quickly i never use to it is really getting me down can you help?? C...
A. 28 August 2006: can i say summin this is actually quite common mate dont worry it should sort its self out but if you want a night of passion with no bother there is a pill called viagra go to doctors and explain they might help cheers xx... (read in full...)
We have an arranged marriage and my husband has no respect for my parents. What should I do?
Q. we r indians who got arranged marriage.in our culture girls parents should giv all house hold items and gold to the pair.my parents did't do the household. This created a ego problem with my husband,parents and my parents.i asked my husband to giv u...
A. 27 August 2006: i think that he is not been loved him self when he was young has no respect for anything or anyone if i was you try and talk to him if he doesnt listen try counselling hopefully that will work mind family are there forever men come and go ... (read in full...)
Caught my bf having sex with another guy! How do I forgive them?
Q. i feel used and i dunno how 2 trust ppl again, i recently found my ex bf in bed with my ex best mate and her bf in bed with mine but its worse .then it sounds he wasnt sleepin with her at the time he was havin sex with her bf. I never knew he ...
A. 27 August 2006: to be honest hen leave him if he is intersested in men there is no chance of competing but hold your head up you can do better anyways... (read in full...)
Is Two Years Too Much?
Q. I'm almost 16. I've been getting close to this guy that just graduated (he's 18). We've been talking on phone/computer and now he wants to take me on a date. (He's from my school, not some random guy, we just never talked before) Some of my guy f...
A. 27 August 2006: no thats not a bad age gap if you are happy and he treats you well then go on ya gal... (read in full...)
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