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writes:Hi I am 13 and very upset because even tho we have split up me n my x-boyfriend still like eachother and he knows how much I hate the thought of drugs but tonight he said he had a hooker pipe which is like a bong. He has said he has had weed in the past but has said it to wind me up because he knows how much I dont like it and the persons house he was at said he did weed another time but he only said that because he told him to say it to wind me up. So he could be lying for him again i don't know but im very concerned please help I LOVE HIM so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): hi its the person who wrote the question .. it doesnt have weed it but its flavored tobacco but still i would be :( if he even had a cigerette ( he doesnt smoke i mean if he did ) it horrible thinking the person i love is harming themselvs ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): doing it to wind you up.. i think he needs a kick up the azz and get mature. babz these things take time it may or may not work put it's a gamble which you have to take. as long as love and support is there it's only about time before he decides to give up but the fact that you are willing to be there for him is very mature cos it's showing me that you care for him and want the best for him. your a amazing lady to have and your ex b/f will appreicate you. most of the times when guys break up they try being hard core with there friends to try new things out to get attention. but if love and support his shown you'll be amazed as to the results which you see cos with love alot of things needs to get sacrificed in order for it to work and that narrows down to patience.. only you know your limits but i'm proud of you cos not only you trying to work things out with your ex but your saving someones life from drugs.. you should be very proud of yourself great work
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reader, Yos  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 If you are really anti-drugs and your boyfriend is into drugs, then you two are going to have problems. You should consider whether you are right for each other.
I'm not going to tell you that marijuana is ok, but as far as drugs go, it's much less harmful than any other drugs. If your boyfriend is 'only' smoking marijuana a little and not doing anything else, then it may not be that bad. 13 is pretty young to be doing that mind you...
By the way, a hookah pipe is not for drugs, it's for smoking tobacco. It's the same as smoking cigarettes basically (which are very bad for you, I really recommend not smoking them). Your boyfriend might have smoked weed in his hookah pipe, but that's not really what it's for.
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reader, bonnismiles +, writes (28 August 2006):
 you have your whole life ahead of you if he wants to do drugs leave him to it its his life but dont let him drags yours down with him if he is only doing this to wind you up then he needs to grow up then cheersxx
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