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I was his standby girl and now that I'm moving away-he seems frantic to get in touch! Is he having 2nd thoughts?

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Question - (31 August 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I was with my boyfriend for a long time. We broke up over a year ago now and he moved back to him hometown. It was hard at the beginning but got better as time went on. I did occasionally hear from him...not often, only when he was drinking and was on the outs with his current live in girlfriend. I was his standby I guess. I have just accepted a job in the city we moved from and I gave him a call to let him know. I am moving back next week and he has left quite a few messages on my voice mail wanting to talk to me. I figure...too little...too late. Why is he doing this and why after all this time does he seem to be having second thoughts.

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A female reader, Helen1986 United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2006):

Helen1986 agony auntThere are two ways to look at this hunny. He could be trying to get hold of you because he misses you and realises there could be a chance of the two of you getting back together. Or he could be trying to contact you because he fears that you may destroy his present relationship if you move close to him because his present girlfriend might find out that he has been calling you. If however he does want to get back with you, Do you reckon you will be able to trust him? I mean he used to call you all the time whilst he was with his present girlfriend. Who's to say he wouldn't call her if he got back with you. Think about it carefully hunny. Good luck

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A female reader, bonnismiles +, writes (31 August 2006):

bonnismiles agony auntmaybe he does really like you or it could be that heis single now and knowing you coming bk he might just wait for you hen i think he relised what he actually had when youleft now he cant wait for u coming back thats what i think doll take care xx

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