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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): yes this would be considered an orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007): I can usually tell when my fiance orgasms, I feel her tighten up and it actually feels GREAT for me. I don't know if it is me or her, but if we really go at it she can have up to 40 orgasms, she often passes out after that. Sounds to me like she had an orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): I do not know about it. Sometimes you can make noise and other times you can be silent. I do not know but I read about it in the book. So I think both making noises and silent can me be true. I also think if the relationship is on great and strong can make a difference too. What is the difference between coming and having an orgams?
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (1 September 2006):
 I am sure that it is hunny. why don't you suggest she lay down on her front and you enter her vagina from the back. I tell you what that gets me going everytime. Try it and I guarantee she definately wont be faking it then. Only do it if she is comfortable though. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2006): If you can feel her pulsing and then she "freezes" or arches or quickens breath...pretty sure that would be one.
Not all orgasms will be earth shattering.
If she says she is and if you feel it...it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2006): yes a do think she ad an orgasim. an when a sleep wit ma partner a dont make noises i just breath faster and stuff dont worry a think she loves it
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reader, bonym +, writes (31 August 2006):
 My friend why does it matter if you gave her an Orgasm, at the end of the day, you have not said that she is not happy with the intimacy so what is the problem? Npt all women will scream with ecstasy, so what, she is happy isnt she? You are happy, so whats the problem? Take care. xXx
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reader, Yos  +, writes (31 August 2006):
 There are orgasms. Then there are Orgasms. And ORGASMS, and O-R-G-A-S-M-S!!!11!!!!11one!!11
It sounds like it mighth be an orgasm. Maybe an Orgasm. But not an ORGASM.
If you are trying to give her an orgasm through intercourse then you're onto a losing battle. You'll have much more luck if you pull your cock out and focus on her clitoris and around there. With your fingers, tongue etc.
When you get it right, she'll have an O-R-G-A-S-M-S!!!11!!!!11one!!11
When you have one of those, you know you've had one. You won't be sitting there wondering 'was that an orgasm?'. There will be no doubt in your mind.
And just to recap: don't go with intercourse to get there.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (31 August 2006):
 It sounds pretty genuine to me, as if she was faking it she would probably make a lot more noise about it. Also she perhaps wouldn't be so descriptive..
Why worry anyhow, as long as you are both enjoying yourselves? No pressure = good sex!
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reader, bonnismiles +, writes (31 August 2006):
 well i dont think it sounds like she faking but whatyou sayingit sounds real take care xx
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