He says I'm hotter than his wife and we have sex, what should I do?
Q. We see each other whenever we can, he calls me beautiful and says im hotter than his wife and hasn't seen anyone hotter than me. He speaks to me nearly everyday and everytime we see each other we have sex in his car, i really like him and want him...
A. 6 July 2009: OK everybody is right but didnt need to be so harsh about it..ive been the other women and sweety all it does is end up in heartbreak and tears for all three of you..seriously..you need to tell him too choose one you or her..... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with my ex but falling hard for her again
Q. HI me and my ex GF dated for about a little over a year, it all came crashing down in April when we broke up over her accusing me of being too controlling and me accusing her of not doing enough. well about a month ago we started talking, and we ...
A. 16 June 2009: see if she feels anything but dont tell her that your asking because you feel that way... (read in full...)
16 and pregnant! He says he's not the father!
Q. hi,ive been with my boyfriend since we were twelve years old. we are childhood friends. our parents always use to joke about us getting married when we were older. who know he would actually be the guy to make me fall inlove? he's generally ...
A. 15 June 2009: good luck with telling you parents honey keep us updated on how it goes were all here for you... (read in full...)
What could this discharge be?
Q. okay so i noticed i have had A LOT of discharge. Mostly when i get up in the mornings. its always clear and has little or no smell.. what is this? I'm almost 17 and i weigh 82 pounds if that helps any.. and no I'm not a virgin. What could this be?...
A. 15 June 2009: well sometimes it does smell but not awful. just to be safe i want to get tested but im going to be 17 in 4 weeks.
does anyone know where i could get tested without parental consent? :(... (read in full...)
My Fiance left me with our 2 year old child. Please help I'm feeling so lost
Q. Ok, so in December of 05 I met my fiance' (well she used to be my fiance), we both had just gotten out of bad relationships but seemed to hit if off well. In february of 06 we found out she was pregnant. She had just told me she didn't want to be ...
A. 15 June 2009: Im sorry but she doesnt sound like a woman you want back if she would put you threw all that it sounds like shes playing with your head. Id say find someone better and take her to court already.... (read in full...)
She doesn't know that I love her
Q. My best friend and I are three years apart. She's 21 while I'm 24. We've known each other for seven years now, and we're literally closer than family. She has problems with self-harm and depression, she has BPD, mild bipolar and chronic insomnia. No ...
A. 14 June 2009: tell her you love her. ... (read in full...)
We had the worse fight, do I break up with him?
Q. I keep telling my boyfriend not grope me in certain place because I don't like it but he won't listen. Well one day I was at his house (he's 22 and I'm 16) and we were making out he started touching my chesty bits. I kept telling him to stop but he ...
A. 11 June 2009: umm if you said no its a no!... (read in full...)
Scared to go too far into relationships
Q. ok so i was raped wen i was 6 and now i keep jumping from guy to guy before we do anything at all ive not even done oral now ive got together with my mate n weve been going out for about a year now and he wants to take it further but i cant seem to ...
A. 11 June 2009: If yall have been together that long i think you should explain to him the situatiton. He should understand im almost certian he will and if he doesnt well then he isnt worth it. but please dont have sex with him until your ready sweetheart.... (read in full...)
I told her she could kiss other guys, and she did..is it cheating?
Q. I went on a 4 month trip to Europe without my girlfriend of 5 years. Before I left we decided to stay together, but during the trip we spoke on the phone and I told her that I didn't care if she kissed somebody as long as it was just a kiss. I ...
A. 11 June 2009: No she didnt cheat because you told her she could. Altough she shouldnt have anyways that was a dumb move on her part but you can tell she felt bad about it. You have also said that you did it in the past so my question is how can you not forgive ... (read in full...)
Do I stay, let her cheat, just so I can see my boys every day? I feel so lost...
Q. My wife and I have been married for six years and together for eleven. We have two beautiful boys soon to be five and six. On our third year of marriage work required me to leave for a year and I was only able to return for a two week block about ...
A. 10 June 2009: Does she even have a job?
Im a teenager and im sorry but if my mom was cheating on my dad i wouldnt want my dad too stay he deserves better than that. He deserves to find someone that loves him and would never do that to him. Your childern... (read in full...)
Should I be patient, or walk?
Q. I have a crush on this guy who is basically getting out of a depression. he never used to talk or hang out with us and now he is slowly starting too. the more i hang out with him, the more interested i am. he is really smart and funny, just really ...
A. 10 June 2009: i went threw depression myself and recovering from it i was just like that too. Its raelly tough opening up to people. Ecspecially people you like. And it hurt even more when they thought i was just playing games with them and they would leace and ... (read in full...)
He's sent e-mails to another woman...what do I do now?
Q. I know I shouldn't but I've been hacking into my boyfriends email account and recently found emails to another woman which imply they have had a previous encounter (not sure how long ago) but my boyfriend has told the woman I will be working away ...
A. 10 June 2009: you need to make sure something is actually going on first i think. you should do number2 on what honeypie posted. see if you can find where there going and go have looksee.... (read in full...)
Would you stay?
Q. I have been married for over 18 years and together with my wife for 25. We have 2 great kids ages from 13 and 15. Here's a brief history first: We both know and admit that we weren't "head over heels" in love when we first married. We had know...
A. 10 June 2009: Honestly i think you both deserve to be happy. Staying for the kids is not right, even though its sincere. But you both deserve as adults to find true love if thats truly what you want. Dont you think so?... (read in full...)
We keep getting back together...but we're still fighting
Q. I'm 17 and been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and 4 months, i only had like one boyfriend before him which was like 2 months he said he loved me and then i found out he cheated on me.So i left him and soon after i started ...
A. 9 June 2009: hah yes i defiantly get super horny when im high. but look if you dont think your in love with him anymore you need to end it. dont hurt him anymore than you already have sweety.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my ex's new girl that he's cheating on her?
Q. ok this is kinda hard for me to write this but i really need advice, Im still good friends with my ex bf and we do still get on great,he has a new gf whos pregnent with his baby and yes i admit i find it really hard sometimes to see them both tog...
A. 9 June 2009: Ive been in the same posiotion except his girlfriend wasnt pregnant and i was the girl he was cheating with..it was because i still cared though. She loved him so much as did i.. I knew that either way i was going to end up hurt if i told he would ... (read in full...)
Something has been missing for a long time, I cheated, but I'm miserable
Q. Im not really sure where to start with this mess that I am in. Im in a relationship and have been for a very long time but at the end of last year, even though I have never even looked in the direction of another man since we have been together I ...
A. 9 June 2009: wow okay the people that are saying hurtful things to you fuck them. Yeah you made a mistake people do and what you did was wrong. Look you need to be straight with the other man and with your partner you need to come out and be honest aboutt ... (read in full...)
He wants me to give my virginity to him to show my love
Q. Hey frnds plz............ help me to come out of the complicated situation. For the last 4 years i am in relationship with a married man. Though he never forced me for anything, i was equally involved. we both r Indians and in India this type of ...
A. 9 June 2009: do not loose your virginity to him sweetheart that would not be wise... (read in full...)
Help!!! My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me.
Q. I am so in love with my boyfriend, I do so much for him, I go out of my way for him, I hang out with his friends, I tell him how much he means to me and how I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. My boyfriend however does nothing for ...
A. 9 June 2009: you dont deserve to be talked to by that you should leave... (read in full...)
I didn't break up with him..did I do the right thing?
Q. A little while ago my boyfriend cheated on me. he was drinking.. a lot and this one girl who has been after him for a long time.. a few years (shes.. not exactly particular about who she sleeps with, all she wanted was him.. but not really as a ...
A. 4 June 2009: no honey i honestly think you did the right thing by not breaking up with him. The fact that he shoved her away and left means he had remorse and he was a man about it and told you about it. most men dont until there caught. id give him one last ... (read in full...)
I can't things end like this, can I? He disappeared and I didn't know he had pneumonia!
Q. Ok so, I was going out with this guy for a few months. It was decent relationship when we were actually communicating. But after having the same problems, repeatedly I ended it. It took 3 weeks to actually leave him. Then one day I stop hearing from ...
A. 4 June 2009: if something does happen to hiim and you didnt go see him your going to regret it everyday of your life honey trust me. please go see him.... (read in full...)
Disrespected? Or over reacted?
Q. I live in Texas and met a guy who lives in North Dakota. We talked, emailes and texted everyday for about 2 months. He is in the military and was getting a long weekend off so wanted me fly there. I bought a ticket and off I went very excited to see ...
A. 4 June 2009: holy shit dude i live in texas and i was seing this guy from south dakota haha how ironic is that. and he pretty much pulled the same shit on me but i didnt go see him. send me a message and we can talk some more.... (read in full...)
I don't want him to think I'll just drop everything and keep running back to him
Q. ere's the situation: We've been dating for awhile. It's a long distance relationship, but we both went into the relationship knowing it wasn't going to be easy. He said we were in it for the long haul; good or bad. We got into an argument t...
A. 4 June 2009: just wait a day or two too see if he replies.. and update when yall talk hun... (read in full...)
After 11 years together, he got drunk and cheated, can this be fixed?
Q. Dear Cupid.. I've been with my fiance for 11 years. 3 of those years we have been engaged. We pretty much grew together. We met when I was 18 and he was 23. I'm now 30..Anyway, Saturday night he walked down to the local bar, something he will usu...
A. 4 June 2009: dont listen to the people that say this isnt fixable it is. atleast he was a man and sat down and told you. make him promise it wont ever happen again but for rite now that you dont trust him and hes going to have to prove himself to you. but if you ... (read in full...)
Confused, she aborted her roomate's baby, says she cares about me, what am I to believe/
Q. Ill try and keep this brief, but this is a complex situation, which is why i am asking for outside help(not friends and family who have their own agendas) Met this girl through a mutual friend 6 weeks ago and we have had some of the most romanti...
A. 4 June 2009: i totallyy think you should go ttalk to her tonite about it tonite..thats the only way your gonna get down to the truth but dont let her push you around. update on what she says. good luck hun... (read in full...)
Surely, there has to be a part of him that still attracted to me?
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up.. 4 years ago now when he went to College, as it was 5 hours away from where we lived, and he didn't want to do a Long distance relationship. He graduates this semester, but I'm not sure what his plans are, if he's ...
A. 3 June 2009: you would just be setting yourself up to get hurt most likely trust me ive been in that position. but update if anything happens we'd like to know how everything went... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex the baby is really his?
Q. Last year i was meant to have an abortion after me and my boyfriend split up, but i never. I never told my ex i was pregnant either. I gave birth to a healthy baby boy called Levi on 24th January. I have seen my ex 1 or 2 times since we split u...
A. 17 February 2008: defiantly tell him he has a right to know and people are right if he walks he walks you still have your boyfriend... (read in full...)
He's aggressive, but I love him. What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, This boy likes me and I like him But we keep on going back togeather and breaking up. We are crazy about one-another but he is to agressive and I love him and he loves me what do I do. ...
A. 16 January 2008: how is he aggresive?... (read in full...)
A move means we will break up. What should I do?
Q. My family are planning on moving house but I don't want to. Mainly because I am with a girl I know I could spend the rest of my life with, but we've both agreed that we mean so much to each other, a long-distance relationship wouldn't work. What...
A. 16 January 2008: well if you are an adult than you dont have to go with them
but if you have to if you can drive drive to see her all the time well how far apart is it?... (read in full...)
My sister's bf's daughter (same age as me)...and I'm in love with her. Is this wrong?
Q. Hi I need some advice My half-sister is about 19 years older than me and has got a new boyfreind. He has a daughter around the same age as me. My sister thought it be good if we swapped msn addresses. So we got talking and we met up before christ...
A. 16 January 2008: she is not family and so yes you should go for it... (read in full...)
If she is unhappy with her current boyfriend as said, why are they still together whereas she flirts with me?
Q. well I met this chic through my cousin. I knew she had a boyfriend, and wasn't trying to holla. we started texting just friendly at first. after about a month we started texting all day and night. the conversation changed over into flirting and ...
A. 16 January 2008: because some girls when they have been with a guy for a long time they have a comfort zone with that person and it takes a while to get out of that comfort zone because there afraid if they do it might be a mistake (not implying that leaving him is ... (read in full...)
I can’t seem to get the courage to tell her how I feel, as I got hurt in the past for doing this.
Q. Hey I have known this girl for quite a while. I’ve started to have feelings for her, but I don’t know how to tell her. I can’t seem to get the courage because last time I let someone know I liked them I got hurt. I’ve tried writing notes but I ju...
A. 16 January 2008: maybe try and have a friend talk to her for you if you cant... (read in full...)
Does the fact that my cd made her cry mean my ex isn't over me??
Q. My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago. She's been with someone else for about 3 weeks and last night I gave her a compilation cd i made. I asked her if she'd listened and she txt back and said some of the songs made her cry. Do...
A. 14 January 2008: well i think you should give her some space to see whats shes missing... (read in full...)
Where best to propose? Paris or restaurant on Valentine's day?
Q. I can't decide which of the two events I should use to propose to my girl friend. I originally planned to propose to her on valentine's day in the same Italian restaurant we had our first date. I have the ring and I have made arrangement at the ...
A. 14 January 2008: defiantly paris thats everygirls dream!... (read in full...)
Should we meet on neutral ground or should I just walk away??
Q. My boyfriend of a year broke up with me a week ago. I feel 50/50 about it. Relief because we had been living together and it wasn't working, I feel happier back at home with my family. Sad because he was lovely to me, and I miss him, and it's har...
A. 14 January 2008: you should just meet face to face thats always easiser because ive learned that fights can heat up alot faster when your talkin on the phone or internet and it will be easier to meet face to face because if yall do decide to spilt you can have a lot ... (read in full...)
My bf keeps asking for sex but I don't know what to do.
Q. dear cupid, My bf keeps asking me for sex, should i say yes or no? I am 13 and don't know what to do.... helppppp...
A. 14 January 2008: ducky is rite your 13 and at 13 i thought i was ready too we all do..but if you still have seconds thoughts dont and telll him you want to wait and if he doesnt want to then you know it wasnt meant to be... (read in full...)
We are trying to enjoy our final months together but I am not always sure how he feels.
Q. I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now with a man who is a fair bit older than me. He's my best friend, my first boyfriend and I am very much in love with him and am always trying to show how much he means to me. But, being a fairly u...
A. 14 January 2008: if he really cares and you know he does sit down and talk to him about it and i know its sounds all cliche' but really it does work and yall can make it work if your really want it too... (read in full...)
I really don't want to be alone living so far away from home but we argue everyday.
Q. Hi Everyone, I really need some help. I have been with my boyfriend for two years, he has cheated twice but i forgave him. We moved hundreds of miles away from all our friends and family to start a fresh. But when we got here i was real depresse...
A. 14 January 2008: my ex boyfriend tried to pull that all the time when i tried to leave he would say he was going to kill himself but when we were toghtehr we argued and he cheated and then came back i think you should head back towards your friends and family they ... (read in full...)
Does the fact that my cd made her cry mean my ex isn't over me??
Q. My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago. She's been with someone else for about 3 weeks and last night I gave her a compilation cd i made. I asked her if she'd listened and she txt back and said some of the songs made her cry. Do...
A. 13 January 2008: yes you should ask her why she cried but yeah i think it's because she's not over you... (read in full...)
I will tell him as soon as I am certain of my pregnancy, but I do not know how, or if he will help me.
Q. I'm 17, and took a pregnancy test today and it said positive. What are the chances it's a false positive? I only took the test because the end of my last period was 40 days ago. Also my boobs are really sore and feel like they've grown, I've had ...
A. 13 January 2008: if you got a positive your are most likely pregnant and i hope that everything works out and if your boyfriend really does care he will be there for you and the baby keep me posted i want to know how things go for you!... (read in full...)
I told my wife if the baby isn't mine I'm leaving her!
Q. ok me and my wife have been together for about 3yrs and a couple of months ago she cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend, i forgave her because i love her and i let her know that i'm hurt. but now she is pregnant! i told her i would stay with her and ...
A. 13 January 2008: i think that if you really love her you will stay with her when you said vows on your wedding day your promised that you would be there for her till the day that you die and if you love her as much as you say you do you would still be there for her ... (read in full...)
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