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writes:When it comes to men why is women picky? why is it women always say they want a good man but then its like you have to be a certain height,certain race, and have all of these materialistic things just to be wit them and on top of that they always want to talk about how they want a man to treat them, what they want a man to do for them but they never want to talk bout what they are going to do for their man and i think it goes both ways because a relationship suppose to be a 50/50 thang.Can anyone help wit me understand this? plz Reply to this Question
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reader, mellow210 +, writes (11 September 2010):
mellow210 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your answers i guess im meeting the wrong women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): Stop thinking that young women are dealing in 50/50 relationships. They're not. If you're a man and you want sex with the hottest women you can, you have to earn it the hard way. But if you're a woman, you don't have to. All you have to do is compromise the respect and commitment that you should be demanding from your partner, and you can have a guy way out of your ballpark.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): Not all women are that picky, the trouble is getting them to tell you what they really want.
In my experience women often say they want a certain type of man but then go and date someone who's the opposite.
It's all down to personal preference a bit, we all have certain chrarcteristics we find attractive in another person but they're not set in stone. My current girlfriend has a preference to the stereotypical tall dark and handsome man, she's always swooning over guys that look like that and I'm not anything like those guys. My preference is for short, big women with a little extra weight but my girfriend is tall and athletic. It makes no difference to either of us we're both very attracted to each other.
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reader, Aliceinunderland  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 To be fair, Men can be exactly the same, they have this idea of the perfect woman and how she'd treat him. It's a bit over the top to say that all women are picky, they aren't picky we just have certain likings about people. A woman may find a man good looking purely because of looks, but if she finds him to be the most intolerable person in the world he could turn into the ugliest guy she's ever seen.With women its more a matter of a combination of looks and manners, also that womens tastes and opinions.
As for talking about what they want, personally, I think telling a man what you are going to do to him, is something for long distance arousal ( boyfriend is out on buisiness, girlfriend is away for the weekend with her girls) I think it takes away all the suspense. Women like to suprise a guy.
You are right about the 50/50 thing, and if you think that then why are you having trouble understanding why women say what they want? Do men say what they want you to do to them?
Some people like giving, others like recieving, it just depends on who that person is.
I hope I havent confused you
Aliceinunderland =]
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reader, dearjohn83 +, writes (18 April 2010):
From a girl's point of view girls do not ALWAYS go on about what they want.
if there's chemistry it's there and no many wil overlook if a guy does not have everything the girl wants.
its works both ways, guys go on about exactly what they want why do you think so many girls have confidence and self esteem issues. I'm sure you are not one of those guys but you generalising women as you have does not help your cause.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): That's wrong. At least for me. Materialistic things don't matter to me and I've dated guys who are complete opposites. I think women often think of what they want to do to please their men. They also want to be treated the way a lady should. I'm very open-minded, but I do like a kind and smart man.
He just has to be taller than me. I'm tiny 4' 11'', so it isn't hard. Other than that, I'm completely open-minded, as long as he isn't an ass hole.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): most women just want to feel like they're the only one that matter to you. which has nothing to do with the way you dress, look, how tall you are or what aftershave you wear!! we're not that shallow.
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reader, LarryGalapagos +, writes (18 April 2010):
This is not true about women at all, but I understand how you feel. It sounds like this is just a generalization about the women you are metting or are coming in contact with.There are many women who don't care about materials, height, race, etc. And the right woman for you will love you no matter what, just the way you are.
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