How do I handle this relationship? He's 22 and I'm 15. My parents do not know about him yet
Q. I've got a situation.. I'm a 15 year old girl that's in love with a 22 year old man. I met him when I had just turned 15 one month before and he had been 21 for about 7 months. We started talking and when we hung out for the first time it was like...
A. 22 January 2012: Sweetheart do not continue seeing this much older man. There is a word for his kind, a pedophile. Him being nice, is actually him grooming you.
This will only result in an ego boost for him & hurt for you.
Age is not so much of an issue when y... (read in full...)
Is he only looking for sex?
Q. I ve been talking to a guy on the phone and through text for over a month. We decided to meet soon and he often mentions he cant wait to hug and kiss me. I asked him exactly what hes looking for and he said for u to be good friends that hang out and ...
A. 20 January 2012: As long as you've had no texts that are too sexual you have nothing to be worried about. That would be an immediate red flag. For example if he was asking for explicit photos or sending 'sex texts' etc; he isn't though, which shows a respectful ... (read in full...)
Is he a player. Should I stop texting him?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts! I went clubbing for the first time on Thursday night. I met a guy 4 years older than me. He kept trying to snog me :-/ I swapped numbers with him. Thing is he has tried phoning me 3 times. He has text me asking if we could meet ...
A. 14 January 2012: 'Here have my drink, take it home and dip your willy in it, that way you can say we've had sex too, you fecking weirdo.' Hahaa yep that is so freakin' right!!! What a good way of putting it.
Well, he's just text me now saying he misses me. What... (read in full...)
Is he a player. Should I stop texting him?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts! I went clubbing for the first time on Thursday night. I met a guy 4 years older than me. He kept trying to snog me :-/ I swapped numbers with him. Thing is he has tried phoning me 3 times. He has text me asking if we could meet ...
A. 14 January 2012: Thank you for all yours answers.
Especially Cerberus. I always like your advice, really good, thank you.
I couldn't agree more with you. 'Strum his flesh guitar', that is soo right, good wording too. Yes, many red flags. He seems way too pushy & ... (read in full...)
How do I make sense of this episode?
Q. Can someone please explain to me what just happened to me?? Theres this guy I like...he is 26 and im 21 (22 next week) and we get along amazingly. We flirt all the time through text and through an msn type chat and I sometimes see him at work ...
A. 8 January 2012: Oh my, I had the exact same experience with a 26 year old! :-O The texting...flirting...staying over...pub...club... So I can relate to how you are feeling and why you are so confused. Sounds like he is a bit of a charmer. Why? To get you to f... (read in full...)
In a relationship with man, but this needs to end! Please help because he refuses!
Q. I’m in a huge dilemma. I am in a relationship with a man I’m not supposed to. I want to end this. First off, let me say that throughout my whole life, I have been very insecure and I lacked a huge amount of confidence. I was very vulnerable to any m...
A. 2 January 2012: Oh dear sweetie.
You are in a bad situation here. You aren't at all happy with this guy. It's now time for you to put your happiness first. You've spent your time giving him happiness by giving him his satisfaction. Get yourself out of this, you ... (read in full...)
I have no friends! How do I get out of this mess?
Q. i feel like i have no friends at all they have all gone there seperate ways and just don't bother texting or even replying i don't get invited to any parties or anywhere anymore i feel really left out and feel like im just billy no mates. ive ...
A. 30 December 2011: It's okay to feel the way you do
I know it's difficult, I'm in the same situation. It's very frustrating.
Don't feel as though you're a loser, you're not. You're having trouble finding a girlfriend because you're not going to the right places. ... (read in full...)
I'm 19, he's 33 - can it work? Opinions please.
Q. Hello, I am 19, and have only had one other relationship with a boy who was 21. He was a kind person and a good first boyfriend, but he didn't want anything serious and was more interested in going to the bars all night with his friends (somethi...
A. 26 December 2011: Ooo I've just had a bit of a bad experience with a 26 year old, I'm 18. So I understand how you are feeling regarding the age gap. I was always concerned about the age gap, and I was right to be. Turns out he was just after one thing. He was ... (read in full...)
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