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I am married and I also have my ups and my down like everyone else. I will try and give you my best advise without being judgmental, and I'll be as open minded as possible.
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Guy I like broke up with me after seeing blood from my period during sex. What can I do??
Q. I had a huge crush on somebody that I met 3 years ago. He was so cute and from another state. From the first time we met, we knew exactly that we were attracted to each other. He stayed at the hotel and we exchanged our cell phone numbers. The sex ...
A. 30 June 2011: I honestly feel that the guy should have known before hand. He could have a Germ phobia, he could be Muslim where a female is not even allowed to pray or have sex when they are in thier menstrual cycle because they are considered to be unclean.
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Questions regarding a threesome...
Q. My boyfriend really wants a threesome. It will be me and him (obviously) and one of his friends, who is male. I have told him i wasnt interested but he is kinda talking me into it. however i do need some questions asking. Is it a good idea to be ha...
A. 30 June 2011: I can share with you my experience, I had a threesome with my husband and my best friend. My husband would always tell me he wanted a threesome and I would always say no. One drunken night I ended up having it and I regret it up till this day. I ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should get back with him, but I don't want to lose him!
Q. me and my ex boyfriend are friend because I break up with him 2 days ago because he been making me cry and making me sad even being a jerk to me. We have been txting since we break up like we did, when we was dating but I find it hard because I ...
A. 29 June 2011: It's normal to be hurting, you just broke up with your boyfriend. Just remember that you broke up for a reason, something in you decided that breaking up was the best choice. Give it time you will heal, but don't go back to him just for you not to ... (read in full...)
Do I follow the advice of others or listen to my heart?
Q. There is this guy that I like a lot and certain people around me keep trying to convince me that he is not the guy for me, for instance they brought up an issue about his personality being different than mine because he parties frequently and I ...
A. 29 June 2011: I wouldn't listen to your friends and I would go for it. No major issues have been given to you as to why you shouldn't presude a relationship with this guy. So he parties a little more than you, don't put a red flag just because of this and give it ... (read in full...)
How can I make this playboy fall for me?
Q. How to make playboy fall in love with you? I love my friend. I am 16 he is 23.He is a playboy, he sleep with any girl. He told me that. But I still love him. He said that he can just keep a sexual relation with me. He cares for me.He is not forcing ...
A. 8 June 2011: If you want him to love you than play hard to get and don't give him your goodies. Get his respect and he will hang around, sleep with him and you become nothing more than a number to him and most likely will loose him. You have the cards on your ... (read in full...)
I'm in tremendous pain over this past breakup-relationship situation!
Q. i am hurting so much over a past relationship breakup (last breakup was 2 months ago), i can't figure out what to do, i can't even figure out how i feel. i had pushed away my feelings because i couldn't deal with them, it's too painful. the last ...
A. 8 June 2011: your going to feel sad anger maybe cry but you have to let go of all these feelings and never in his presence don't give him that power. ... (read in full...)
As an American woman, is it possible for me to find a Mexican man to marry?
Q. I`m feeling blue and I don't see how I can ever be happy. I don't want to date or marry someone just to be dating or marrying someone, I want to share my life with someone I really love. Being lonely is horrible but I won't settle for someone I ...
A. 8 June 2011: go to Mexican clubs, go to Mexican gatherings, go to Mexican restaurants, and you will find Mexican men. Your not to Old not at all. I have to agree with you Mexican Men rock!... (read in full...)
Husband with my friend he cheated with, our son doesn't want to go with his dad now and I'm a mess!
Q. I am such a mess, how am I going to get through this, I can't stop crying, I just want the pain to go away, how am I going to cope? Long story short, my husband cheated on me with my friend 3 months ago, he is in a relationship with her and living w...
A. 8 June 2011: You can't force him to be a father. When your child is older he will know that you were both mom and dad to him because his father was to busy running around making time for everything except him. It is hard right now because he is young ask family ... (read in full...)
I was going to break up with her on Friday but she's been crying!
Q. Hey guys I was going to break up with my girlfriend on the friday coming but today she told me she doesn't want to loose me when I wasnt with her today, I didn't know she wanted to be with me that much I don't want to change my mind but I don't want ...
A. 8 June 2011: You can't stay with a person out of guilt so the best thing is to break it off. She will eventually get over it and the tears will dry, she will meet someone else. You have to look for your own happiness. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I'm in tremendous pain over this past breakup-relationship situation!
Q. i am hurting so much over a past relationship breakup (last breakup was 2 months ago), i can't figure out what to do, i can't even figure out how i feel. i had pushed away my feelings because i couldn't deal with them, it's too painful. the last ...
A. 8 June 2011: Let it go! He is not worth your tear and your pain. Why let him know how he hurt you. Instead of cleansing your soul, you'll be giving him the power to think that your not over him and that you still want him. Best think you can do is pretend he ... (read in full...)
I want to get back with him, just not yet!
Q. To cut a really long story short, my ex recently started talking to me again after 6 months saying he still loves me and wants us to try again? - (We split because of distance) I said no, because the distance is too far i would rather wait then get...
A. 8 June 2011: Your not sure if you want him or not, so I think you should let him go. Its not fair to ask him to wait for you, and to not search for a person he can call his girlfriend. Many time LDR don't work out but it can work if the couples work on it but ... (read in full...)
My break up....did I deserve this?
Q. I was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years in total. I had started dating him after 6 year relationship I ended because I was so young I grew out of it. We fell in love and after a year and a half I cheated.. he started neglecting me sexually he ...
A. 8 April 2011: let go and since you have a history of breaking up and getting back together maybe this time you should let him go and move on. You cheated and he probably hasn't forgiven you deep down. He doesn't have the right to be-little you in this way and ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I believe my married lover when he says he doesn't sleep with his wife
Q. Im too much depress now, because my boyfriend is too busy and he have wife and 4 kids.. i understand of his being busy because his a General surgeon he always have operation, he told me that if he ddn't do his job the patient get died.. he is ...
A. 8 April 2011: He is a cheater therefore a liar and your right in not believing him. I would advise you to leave this man alone and don't ruin his marriage and his family. Do you seriously think he is not sleeping with his wife, all cheaters sleep with the wife ... (read in full...)
Need suggestions on how to win her back while she is dating someone else.
Q. alright i know what ur gonna say do u really want ur ex back. Shes a good girl im just wondering how to show her that im not possessive. She broke up cuz i was supposedly possessive. I realize im gonna be who i am and if she don't like me again fuck ...
A. 8 April 2011: You were possessive she didn't like it so she left you, and than you say your going to be who you are and if she don't like it than F*ck it, why would she want to come back to an abusive relationship. No one likes to feel trap, that they have no ... (read in full...)
Should I Tell Him That I'm Pregnant With His Baby?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm sorry to bother you all but I've got myself into a difficult situation. I'm 17 (18 in 2 months) and I just found out that I'm 29 weeks pregnant. I was really experiencing any symptoms which is why I never found out earlier. The ...
A. 8 April 2011: Best thing is for you to tell him he is going to be a father. He has a right to know and your child has the right to have his/her father involve in its life. ... (read in full...)
My ex is now willing to get with me, but I think it's too late
Q. I'll try explain the situation as much as I can within this. I've had an Ex but we broke up before christmas, but we had tried many times to get back together and failed. But now we're more liking and he is a lot more willing to get with me. But...
A. 8 April 2011: I suggest you leave your ex alone and don't get back with him, you are not really that into him. My advise is to follow your heart and be with whom makes you happy and that you have feelings for. ... (read in full...)
How can I trust her if I don’t believe her? Do you think she physically cheated on me?
Q. Could I ever trust my partner again ! My partner convinced me that she wasn’t seeing anyone behind my back when she ended things but I believed otherwise. My gut instinct was screaming at me and I was just sensing things weren’t right. She said...
A. 1 April 2011: To be honest I don't know she probably did or she maybe didn't, only her and him know for sure. If she is going to give it 110% to the relationship and you are willing to give it a go why not try to save your marriage. Why have disturbing images in ... (read in full...)
He asked me to pay for dinner on the second date! What should I think about this?
Q. If a man asks a woman to pay for dinner on the 2nd date what should she think ?...
A. 1 April 2011: There is a difference between a boy and a man, there is no substitute for being a gentle man. When a man is after a women and he wants to court her there are certain customs that shouldn't be lost. Equality should be an issue in a realationship and ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for 2 men to share a bed??
Q. Is it normal for 2 grown men (early 40's) to sleep in the same bed? What if they were watching a movie and due to the late hour had simply fallen asleep? Is it normal for grown men to lay on the same bed watching a movie together in the first pl...
A. 1 April 2011: I don't find it weird, I think that society does not let us see men in certain kind of situation without people classifying them as gay. As if it were two females in the same situation the question wouldn't even been brought up, because this would ... (read in full...)
I'm sending this letter to my lover, what do you think?
Q. I'm sending this letter to my lover, What do you think? It breaks my heart having to say these words to you, but I feel that our relationship has ran its course. It has been wonderful knowing you, you are a great man. I'm sorry that I have to s...
A. 1 April 2011: I think you need to confess to your husband, that you cheated and disrepected your home. Even thought your doing the right thing right now you have to remember that you lied to your husband. If you clear it out with him he might forgive you but if ... (read in full...)
The family is noticing the sexual relationship developing between me and my husband's young brother.
Q. Heloo everybody, I have requested same question before. got rejected for lack of information. now i think i will keep more information. Please help me. I have relationship with my husbands youngest brother. he is 20 yrs old. we are very friendly...
A. 29 March 2011: In my book this is cheating. You and your brother-in-law are disrespecting your husband with your harmless tickling play. There is more to an affair and cheating than sexual intercourse.... (read in full...)
She doesn't want me. I don't know how to cope with this.
Q. I love her a lot. But she's not trying to understand me. I was the one who proposed to her first. But she told me that, she can't see me like that. She was in love with a another guy. But it broke up due to some reasons. I can't forget her. Her ...
A. 29 March 2011: If she is not into you and she has told you maybe it will be best to not see her again. She knows how you feel about her and even thought she is not with her ex she is still not with you. Don't sit around and see her with next boyfriend just go out ... (read in full...)
He says he is coming, How do I handle his response?
Q. Dear cupid! Sorry if this is extremely long . I met this guy online some time ago and whenever we were chatting it wasn't for long, just regular small talk. I wasn't even paying attention, but generally I considered him to be a nice ...
A. 29 March 2011: Just wait and see if he keeps his word. If you don't want to talk to him about it there is not much you can do but wait and see if he keeps his word.... (read in full...)
Why did he make me wait 3 whole minutes before having sex?
Q. The other night I wanted to have sex. So I asked my boyfriend and he said "can we wait till tomorrow morning?" so I said okay fine then I got up to go to the bathroom came back and he was naked I asked him then, why are you naked? Then he said ...
A. 29 March 2011: I don't see why you wouldn't love him, he was obviously playing. He first tells you that you have to wait till tomorrow, you go to the restroom come back and find him naked and tells you to wait, and you have whats coming. He is playing around ... (read in full...)
Does this make me or him the selfish one here?
Q. Does this make me or him the selfish one here? So im in a LDR and we talk everyday, miss one day and we kinda miss each other and 2 days is just hell. Anyways...I talked to him for a little while on saturday and on sunday he was a no show...did...
A. 29 March 2011: Man turn into babies when they are sick. Just give it time have him call or message you, this way he will learn that its not nice to treat people bad just cause your not feeling your best. ... (read in full...)
My G/f has fallen for a much younger man,lies to me about meeting him and she has an alcohol problem. I don't know how much more of this I can take....
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for 6 years now. I love her very much and she says she loves me too. She has a bit of an alcohol problem, not an alcoholic, she just gets pretty weird after a few glasses of wine, bit mad really. Times have bee...
A. 29 March 2011: You can only do so much and she is being very disrespectful. If you don't want an open relationship this is your right and she has no buisness going around this behind your back. I don't blame the guy completely its your girlfriend the one that owes ... (read in full...)
I know I did wrong. But how can I help improve the situation with her? And be forgiven?
Q. My wife and i recently had a bad fight. all the info about it is in a question i posted previously. I completely broke her trust. she is still with me, but not really. we haven't been intimate in over a month. she hates coming to bed unless i'm alre...
A. 28 March 2011: There is a pattern in an abusive relationship and that is that one person will hit another cause that person physical pain and than cry and come back saying "I'm sorry" over and over again and than in a blink of an argument strike again. This is to ... (read in full...)
I have destroyed my own marriage, my life is a mess...all for my lover who refuses to leave her husband. How do I get her to come to me?
Q. All, I have been reading this post for about 6 months now and can see that what I have been involved with is Wrong! However, I found my soulmate in a younger woman and If circumstances were right she would be my wife. Nearly 2 years ago, I met...
A. 28 March 2011: His choice was to cheat. His choice was to seek another women to satify himself sexually. It was his choice to leave his family. He did the cheating and he should be held responsible for his own actions. If the sex was so bad and that was the only ... (read in full...)
I know I did wrong. But how can I help improve the situation with her? And be forgiven?
Q. My wife and i recently had a bad fight. all the info about it is in a question i posted previously. I completely broke her trust. she is still with me, but not really. we haven't been intimate in over a month. she hates coming to bed unless i'm alre...
A. 26 March 2011: If she is still with you must be cause she loves you. I would honestly say I wouldn't be with a person who hit me. Its going to be hard for her to trust you again because she might feel scare to voice her opionion without getting hit or slammed to ... (read in full...)
I have destroyed my own marriage, my life is a mess...all for my lover who refuses to leave her husband. How do I get her to come to me?
Q. All, I have been reading this post for about 6 months now and can see that what I have been involved with is Wrong! However, I found my soulmate in a younger woman and If circumstances were right she would be my wife. Nearly 2 years ago, I met...
A. 25 March 2011: The husband cheated because he wanted to. Not having sex in the marriage is something that should have been discussed and talked about, maybe see a sex therapist, but to choose to cheat because the sex is not there is simply an excuse. Trying to ... (read in full...)
I have destroyed my own marriage, my life is a mess...all for my lover who refuses to leave her husband. How do I get her to come to me?
Q. All, I have been reading this post for about 6 months now and can see that what I have been involved with is Wrong! However, I found my soulmate in a younger woman and If circumstances were right she would be my wife. Nearly 2 years ago, I met...
A. 22 March 2011: You have ruined your marriage and has broken your wife heart and I truly wish her happiness after all the pain you have caused her. I hope your wife finds a good man someone she can call her soulmate and be very very happy. You destroyed your ... (read in full...)
Whenever I see people from school they laugh at me!
Q. How do I deal with this? It's been five years since school but sometimes I see some people from school who hated me and whenever I see them they laugh at me. I live in a small town and i'm finding this hard to deal with. It's affecting my sel...
A. 17 March 2011: You are always going to come across bullies and haters. All you can do is ignore them. Don't let your selfesteem depends on what others think about you. You should love your self and think highly on the person that should matter more to you "YOU". ... (read in full...)
Married and can't forget about this other man.
Q. I have strong feelings for a married man. I am also married. I just cannot seem to get him out of my head. I have had these feelings for him for about a year now. He feels the same way. The problem is it is affecting my marriage. I am at the poin...
A. 17 March 2011: The only thing you can you do is keep your distance. You are married and you are having an emotional affair which could be worst than if you were phsically cheating on your husband. Your husband forgave you for your crush once do you really think he ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am being tested all the time!
Q. I am in a a difficult situation. I believe that I have trust and faith in my husband, but also feel like I am being tested all the time. I am pregnant with our third child, my husband is in school full time, so the stress level in our house is ...
A. 17 March 2011: You are his wife and you are pregnant, so he should be giving you way more love and lots of attention. You talked to him and he has not listened, but you need to tell him how you feel so that he can take your feelings under consideration.
If yo... (read in full...)
In-law can't seem to understand to get out of our house
Q. The problem is that my fiancee and I plan on getting married next year,but I don't want to marry the guy if I'm going to live with his dad till death do us part. I love him,he's a great guy but I can't deal with his family situation anymore I want ...
A. 17 March 2011: Well the reality is when you needed a roof over yours and your childrens head his family was there to help. In the long run you all are going to be one family and should be able to count on one another for support, help, and advise. Families are a ... (read in full...)
I cant cope with my fiance being bisexual!
Q. My Girlfriend and i have been together some time now and we are engaged, we're quite young but i know i feel strong enough to make this commitment as does she, however she has cheated on me twice before but promises me that it was stupid mistakes ...
A. 16 March 2011: Being straight, gay, or bi-sexual definds your sexuality.
Being with more than one person at a time makes you a cheater.
A committed person will not cheat on the person that she or he claims to love.
When a person is committee to the rela... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before I am sure that I have made the right decision to finally divorce my husband?
Q. I have asked my husband for a separation due to the fact that I was hurting so much as a result of his words and actions. We have been married for 13 years. He had 2 emotional affairs; 3 years into our marriage and another one 6 years thereafter. I ...
A. 16 March 2011: You have separted because of his cheating ways and still with you taking this action he still will not accept counseling in the attempt to save his marriage. This man is a selfish person and he is only thinking on himself. He has betrayed you and ... (read in full...)
Should I go to my ex's house and tell his family he cheated on me?
Q. What should I do? are my friends right? ? My ex boyfriend cheated on me, betrayed my trust and my love for him. I loved him so much and he hurt me and lied to my face over and over. He told me he doesn't want a relationship and wan...
A. 16 March 2011: What would you gain out of it, the relationship was between you and your ex. If you come out talking sh*t about the relationsip and about him what is this going to solve. You need to get on with your life and worry about you and only you. Don't ... (read in full...)
My ex has moved in with her new guy after only 6 months together, is this too soon?
Q. So here's my situation, it's been a good 6 months that my LDR ex and i have been broken up. She said that we were on different paths in life and I never understood that because we both loved each other and had made future plans together as well. And ...
A. 16 March 2011: I don't think 6 months is to soon, they are living together not married so if any of them decides this is a bad decision they can just pack their bags and move out.
You have to get over her sometimes LDR don't work because a person needs to conta... (read in full...)
My ex-girlfriend seems to be trying to make me jealous!
Q. Pardon my ignorance, but when a girl breaks up with her boyfriend of a year, and gets another one three weeks later...isn't she supposed to be happy with her new bf and moved on... ...but, My ex keeps asking people how I am and saying "Make sur...
A. 16 March 2011: She is trying to make you jealous, and she keeps on approaching you because she wants to get a reaction from you. Don't play her games, She broke up with you and expected you to go crawling back and begging her to take you back and since it didn't ... (read in full...)
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