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writes:Pardon my ignorance, but when a girl breaks up with her boyfriend of a year, and gets another one three weeks later...isn't she supposed to be happy with her new bf and moved on......but, My ex keeps asking people how I am and saying "Make sure you tell him I asked how he is"......then at a party she gets mad coz I'm there and that her friend have said hey etc...she even cried. She then proceeded to kiss her bf infront of me about 100 times. Literally ever time turned she was there kissing. Her bf at this point is oblivious to all the nights crying and storming off......and as the new bf goes to the bathroom, she comes dancing up to me and half hugs me, says 'hey, Wow! You smell nice' and have a bit of chit chat then she gets up and says she has to go as her bf walks back in. Oh, and kisses him again in front of me. What does she want? A reaction? ( I gave none!) or is she trying to make me jealous and she just on the rebound??Also the day I leave she texts all mutual friends and my friends! including my best friend!!! and asks them to go out to the bar with her :SPlease, any girls that understand these crazy action, can you explain it to me...coz I'm confused!!!!
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 She is trying to make you jealous, and she keeps on approaching you because she wants to get a reaction from you. Don't play her games, She broke up with you and expected you to go crawling back and begging her to take you back and since it didn't go her way her ego got hurt. Don't play these high school games and move on.
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 If she it tries again, just look at her and say, I'm over you! Stop embarrassing yourself, and walk away.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 March 2011):
 I agree with YouWish, your indifference to her is the perfect response to behavior like this. She's definitely trying to make you jealous. I feel sorry for the guy she's using right now. It's pretty pathetic behavior, and that of a manipulative personality. You're definitely better off without her in your life.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (16 March 2011):
 Yeah, she hasn't gotten over you. She's trying to make you jealous, and unfortunately, her new boyfriend doesn't realize that he's just the accessory to get to you.
She sounds immature to be honest. I'm sure you consider yourself lucky to be rid of this high maintenance clinger.
Just don't react. Don't give her what she seeks. Go on with your life and try and go to things with your friends that you know she'll not be at, though you don't need to run away from your circle of friends that she is also in.
Just keep doing what you're doing - be completely and utterly indifferent.
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