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Advice on Dating For Guys

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Article - (24 May 2011) 1 Comments - (Newest, 16 June 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, a-g55 writes:

I would like to share advice when dating. I am a life coach and most of my clients always want me to help them in this area.

Opening Conversation:

Women dont like feeling like they are being hit on. And will reject you if they feel like they are.

So ask for an opinion. " my sister is getting a guys name tatooed on her back after only knowing him for 2 weeks. what do i say to change her mind"

my friend's gf found a box of pictures of his ex girlfriends hidden in an old drawer and she is threatening to leave him unless he throws them away. is that right"

This works because you're not like the 100 other guys that have commented on her beauty that night. An opinion opener will get an opinion response instead of a negative go away response!

Building attraction:

Tell interesting stories that don't boast about yourself but convey to her that you are a leader of men, protector of loved ones and preselected by other women. you do this by dropping in little hints about your life.. first of all you make an observation about something interesting in the room or something that has previously happened in that environment.

eg. did you see that fight outside between those two chicks? they were fighting over this guy who was like 300 lbs and one of their boobs pooped out. they began tearing each others clothes off. the police had to carry her away in their underwear.

then link to a question

eg. has anyone ever had a fight over you?

listen and reply with a story yourself.

involve another girl.

eg. My ex gf got into a fight when we first met. I was hanging out with some friends at a bar and my friend started talking to some exotic dancers so i joined in to. I started chatting to them both having a friendly joke about his hair and he took it personally. he got really mad and pushed her and started punching her in the pace. we were like ... wheres our friend gone. he went mad. so i started pulling him off and at this point half the bar were like getting involved and i had to calm them all down blah blah blah.... thats a true story for me so you dont have to copy it. just use your imagination.

You then want to invite her to sit down with you. maybe get a few drinks.

DONT: never offer to buy a girl a drink, you wont get laid! you will end up broke by 9pm!

Then you have to get her used to your touch. pretend to read her palm.

let the conversation flow.

Next you have to seduce and close it. you say something like: im trying so hard not to kiss you right now. then you go in for the kiss.

dont be shy. if she has sat down with you and she has let you read her palm she likes you.

Message me for a more detailed approach to dating and finding partners in social settings.

Andrew

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A male reader, jonk Australia +, writes (16 June 2011):

Its easy to be confused as a guy about how to behave in this area. I would probably go more with being open and honest. Just say you fancy her, and dont think of all these complicated ways to manipulate her.

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