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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Should I have sex ASAP? Or wait next till forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hello all, I asked a question on here a while ago about a girl that had only a tendency to date "douchebag" guys, and now she's mine 3 yay! But someone incepted (planted an idea in my head, nerd reference) me recently.. Last night me and my girlfr...

Has my masturbating taken full control of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - I'm a 26years old male from nigeria and havn't any sexual intercourse with any woman before, but i do masturbate and this year will make it 13years that i have been masturbating. I watch a lot of x-rated movies and read a lot of sex novels. but i'm ...

Is it normal to worry that you won't be good at sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Hey Just a quick question. My boyfriend is older than I am, and I know he isn't a virgin, whereas I am. I'm a 17 year old girl and we've been together for 8 months now, and we're ready to take the next step in our relationship and sleep together...

My boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level and have oral sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Ok, I really need some help. So me and my boyfriend have been dating over almost a year now. We are closer to each other than anyone else, and everyone knows it too. We were bestfriends before we started daying and had known each other for two ...

I'm so angry and regret giving him my virginity..any advice?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - i have been really close to this one boy for almost a year and i have never felt this way about anyone before! but he gets through girls really quickely and i was just another one of them but then we both lost our v with each other a few weeks ago ...

I don't want him to know I'm a virgin. How do I fake being Good in Bed and experienced, the first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - So I really like this guy and he really likes me but he doesnt know I'm a virgin and I'm not planning on telling him. I've told him that I haven't slept with anyone for over a year but have said I have had one sexual partner. There is no way I am ...

I'll give him hand jobs, but won't let him finger me. ..is that weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 May 2011 (?) - Hi there, So, I've been a 'thing' with this guy for over a year. We've started to 'do' stuff, he knows I won't go all the way, we're both virgins, but I've given him hand jobs and he enjoys it, I enjoy it. Except, he keeps trying to finger me, but ...

Sex with him leaves me unsatisfied.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I came to my current partner as a virgin although, I had experienced oral sex before with my ex of four years. I didn't want to have sex with my partner but it happened anyway and after a while, I learned to like it. But now, I don't feel the same. ...

Older male dating a younger one, who was a virgin and is now seeking more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - I am a 38yr old male dating a 20yr old male who was a virgin. We have had sex, though I have not penetrated him. He is still wanting to wait, and I am fine with that. We have been together for 4 months (as of last night)and he has started masturba...

Teenagers and sex--the stress is almost unbearable!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I have some thoughts I’d like to share with you guys about the sexual pressure young people are under. I appreciate that I’m only speaking for myself, and most of my points will be drawn from my personal experience, but any opinions and feedback ...

Does he want to be with me just to have sex because I'm a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - My boy frd dated me for 2month,nd left without any explaination.after 7month he come back for me.i accept him back.on my birthday he didn't get me any bday present.and yet am madly in love with him.he ask me that am i still a virgin,i told him ...

What do girls think about an 18 year old virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

22 May 2011 (M) - theres a girlm i have started to like and she sounds like she likes me too as we flirt all the time and she immediately replies to my messages that i send her. theres this friend who we both know she went to school with this girl i like and im at...

I am really sexually confused.and need advice.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - I will be 18 this year and I am still a virgin and the reason why is because I'm so confused and scared. So I spend time watching porn gay and straight and I am so sexually confused. I find a gay interesting first and ive been looking since about ...

35 year old virgin - have I missed the chance at relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - Do guys prefer virgins? Cause I'm still one at 35 years old. :( Been told its something to be respected. I've never really thought I was pretty. Is there still a chance for me or am I officially done in the "relationship department"? ...

I can't quite figure out what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - I have a friend who told me he loved me and we have a lot in common . . . I really like him. I'm a virgin and he is not and I don't know if I can be with him now because of it. I wanted a virgin boyfriend, and I look at him differently for it, I ...

I don't want my boyfriend to know that I'm not a virgin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - im not virgin n i dont want that my boyfriend know that im not virgin on our wedding night plz help...

Alone and single because I'm still a virgin and I'm scared people will find out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - So i'm 19, and NEVER had a boyfriend. I've only ever kissed 4 guys and thats always been when i'm drunk. I'm getting quite depressed about it really. I have guys who like me alot, but i'm too frigid to do anything about it, i think to myself, right ...

20 yr old female virgin

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I'll be 20 years old in a a few months and I'm having a hard time being ok with being a virgin. I've also never had a boyfriend. I had my first kiss last year. It took forever because I would always reject guys thinking my first kiss was gonna be ...

Kissless virgin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) - There is a stigma surrounding virginity. But there is a much bigger one surrounding kissless virginity. I have told some people I am a virgin, if the moment seems right, and they just assume it's because I haven't found the right girl or something ...

Should I give my virginity to this married friend who wants to help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - My story you may feel different. I'm 26, healthy, handsome and still a virgin man. I had tight foreskin and consulted doctor recently. He advised try to do handjob always with the help of porn in net or books which doesn't worked actually. And later ...

Can you break your hymen during a shower?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I want to know is it possible to broke hymen while using shower water for masturbution ...

My boyfriend called me a slag even though I lost my virginity to him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 to 6 months and have a good relationship we were getting over an arguement that was his fault so i was a bit heated at him when the question about sex came up. he was being abnoxious at the fact that i l...

How can I fake being a virgin?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - hi there, my name is nancy and i was wondering if anyone has any ideas on how i can fake being a virgin. because i'm gettin married soon and it's a crime in my culture to have sex before marrige....

I'm worried when I eventually have sex nothing will feel good!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - im 18 female and i cant seem to get myself off... ive tried fingering and touching myself but it doesnt feel that good to me at all. The most enjoyment i get is from "pillow sex" so to speak which is rubbing myself against or riding on a pillow. ...

I still can't figure out why he decided to cheat on me. My friends say dump him, but they don't understand him like I do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Okay, so I have a BF that had lied to me about being a virgin, I found out that he wasn't a virgin by a friend of mines who knew him longer than I have. I asked him multiple times, yet he denied it.. afterwards we was in a good mood.. and I asked ...

Do you lose your virginity if you get fingered?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Do you lose your virginity if you get fingered?...

How do you know if your hymen has broken, even if you havent had sex? Is there any way to tell?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Hello, this is just a short question, but how do you know if your hymen has already broken, even if you havent had sex? Is there any way to tell if it has already been broken or not? I'm only wondering this because I do go out on my bike and horse ...

I'm worried that my boyfriend's large penis will hurt me when I have sex for the first time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - I read from one post before that a girl having very horrible experience when she lost virginity to her bf who having a 9" penis and felt like vagina split into two. I worry I will face the same situation as my bf slightly more than 8.5" and thick in ...

Do these few seconds he had inside her count as him losing his virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Right I don't know if this question belongs on the site but it's too hard to find out on google ... Basically I don't know wether my boyfriend is still classed as a virgin or not he said once when he was on holiday he met this girl and they kinda ...

Why is it bad to lose your virginity to a Prostitute?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - I'm a 28 year old male virgin, who has never had a girlfriend. I have asked dozens of women out in my life though I was always rejected. There were plenty of women that I liked but did not approach them because I knew they had boyfriends already. I ...

How dos an 18 year old introvert get laid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - I'm 18 and I'm still a virgin but I'm not very bothered by this, except when my friends make jokes about me and when I get the horn on. So, I'm coming to realise that I know absolutely nothing about how to get into a girls pants. I understa...

If you give a blowjob are you still a virgin? Is he?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - If you give a guy a blowjob are you still a virgin? And is the guy still a virgin too?...

LDR b/f wants us to have sex when we meet!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Okay, so I really don't know how to start. I'm having a long distance/online relationship with a guy whom i'm supposed to meet in July. He is a really great guy, fun to be around and a really nice person. The only problem is that were not on...

Bothered by the idea of losing my Virginity to a non-virgin....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

1 May 2011 (M) - Hi all, Just gonna be simple about this. I am a 17 year old boy who wants to save my virginity for marriage but I am bothered by the idea of losing my virginity to a non-virgin. I would just feel slighted in that I wasn't their first and they d...

My boyfriend asked him to take me out! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - I have a Very low self esteem. I had this boy friend for 3 months. Well 1 because he dumped me. Because he could no longer take me putting myself down. Well i met this guy. He was really sweet and geeky. He wanted to take me on my first date. My ...

Our first time wasn't great! What happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend sex me and it was my first time,but why is it I dont feel so much delight? yes i admit it hurts cause im still a virgin,he has a tiny penis,lol,and it doesnt feel so much good,I think im not satified,why is it? Do i need a guy who has a ...