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writes:I have a Very low self esteem. I had this boy friend for 3 months. Well 1 because he dumped me. Because he could no longer take me putting myself down. Well i met this guy. He was really sweet and geeky. He wanted to take me on my first date. My boyfriend lives in a differennt state. But the sweet guy changed his mind when he talked to my boyfriend. But oh well. I got over it. Then he asked me out again. I was shocked. And i said okay. We went out and long story short we made out. I told my boyfriend because i felt so guilty. And he called me a horrible person. And all this other stuff. And was like i didnt ask beg him to take u out for him to kiss u. So i was taken back and i was like what. I asked the sweet guy and he was likee yeah. But i kissed u because i wanted too. He also wants to have sex with me because i am a virgin. He is also leavin where he lives now. And he told me not to fall in love with him cause hes leaving in less then a year. Ive never been touched the way he touched me or treated the way he did that night. Hes the second guy ivve kissed. We met online. And i have a very low self esteem i did not thinnk he would like me in person. But i regert it. I really do not no what to do. I have been crying the past to days none stop. I neeed advice :( thank u for reading.
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reader, lisa b  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 i am glad your sorted it out hunnie i wish you the best of luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your advice.... My boyfriend and i broke up because hes back in jail.... And me and the sweet guy are talking. So thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMe and my boyfriennd only know each other online. And he asked for the sweet guys number
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reader, lisa b +, writes (2 May 2011):
right missy stop that crying over a man there not worth our tears xx
ok this guy treated u nice and u enjoyed your time with him but he was told to ask u out how do u know he was not asked to try get u into bed sorry to be upfront hun but u do need to think about this even if he told him not to kiss u he still beg him to ask you oout if yoour really into this sweet guy you need to cut all ties with your ex
good luck hun xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): I am confused. Is your boyfriend still your boyfriend? It's not clear from reading this, but I guess he broke up with you after 1 month and you guys got back together? Have you met your boyfriend in person or is this an online relationship only so far? Why did this "sweet" guy end up talking to your boyfriend? Do you know what he said to your boyfriend? I don't understand why a guy would "beg" another guy he doesn't even know to take his girlfriend out!
You're better off cutting off contact with the "sweet" guy. He just wants to have sex. To just want to have sex with a virgin BECAUSE she is a virgin, is disgusting. What's done is done, it's another level of experience--regret is a normal feeling but don't be too harsh on yourself for it. Just cut this guy completely out of your life to save yourself from more problems later.
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reader, ball_boa +, writes (2 May 2011):
hes what u what u would u would call a tipcal man. try not to take what he has to say to heart. im sure u are more atractive then u think all girls are. and if u dont think so then change ur sichuation; workout go joging look up abdimum workouts on line get on a diet thats 70% veg and only drink water if u want to feel better about yourself then go for it and invesf into yourself as 4 ur relationship with him let it go hes not worth ur time and is undiserving. u need a mab who is protective of u and whont pout u at risk by sending a nether man to take u out. and dont sleep with this other guy u deserve a guy whos gana stick around weather u have sex with him or not. becides the 1st time for girls dont feel so great anyways and haveing a history of sex partners when u fined ur one will make u regret it.
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