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Our first time wasn't great! What happened?

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Question - (1 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2011)
A female Antarctica age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend sex me and it was my first time,but why is it I dont feel so much delight? yes i admit it hurts cause im still a virgin,he has a tiny penis,lol,and it doesnt feel so much good,I think im not satified,why is it? Do i need a guy who has a lot bigger penis than he has to make me feel satisfied..?? And he ended up too soon...and his penis is too slow to come hard again.pls advice anyone,tnx!!!

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A male reader, Hugh.J United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2011):

Hugh.J agony auntNo, you don't need a bigger penis, HE just needs to learn technique! He needs to understand that you won't be instantly turned on unless there is lots of foreplay, especially as you are a tight virgin, else it will be more likely to hurt.

Does he know that he needs to engage your mind long before he engages with your body?

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A female reader, auntyR United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2011):

It has nothing to do with his penis. It's because it was your first time! The first time is never pleasureable and amazing. It just hurts, and then you tense up and as you are not relaxed you can't enjoy it like you will later on. Try different posistions, such as you sitting on top of him. That way you can control how far he penetrates you.

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