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female
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30-35,
*tchew
writes:I read from one post before that a girl having very horrible experience when she lost virginity to her bf who having a 9" penis and felt like vagina split into two. I worry I will face the same situation as my bf slightly more than 8.5" and thick in around. We he hurt me bad like that?I plan to use a lot of lube and anybody can advise me how to use lube? I use or he use? If I use, put it at the entrance or inside?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2011): i just been there, i'm petite, and my boyfriend is big and so as his penis. i feel things will be fine if you too love each other enough. he was very gentle and with tendar forplay, i relaxed, and got ready for him to enter. we didn't use lube. i already knew it would be hurt, so when we did it, i just tried to be brave. because when you feel sore and ask him to stop, you will still feel sore next time. ...it still bleed the third time, but it was less sore and i felt we will do better and better.
hope this help for you?
just be brave, you will be fine. oh and some wine can help you relax too.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 May 2011):
 i find that lube on him and on me (outside the vagina but inside the labias, works fine.
but lots of foreplay and tender times... and patience..
and it won't be rockets and fireworks the first few times.
be ok with laughing at the funny stuff....
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reader, ArtsyGirl +, writes (4 May 2011):
I'm not an expert on lube but I know they all are slightly different, so I suggest reading the directions.
As for size problem go slow, make sure he is gentle, and if it hurts too much tell him to stop. More foreplay might help, and if possible(and if you two are comfortable with it) get a few dildo's that start at average and get slightly bigger to help you get used to it or "stretched out" so when he enters it will not hurt. Also you do not know if it will hurt. If your hymen is already broken(from playing sports/falling off a bike even stretching) then the pain will be less or completely absent.
I hope that helped!
Cheers
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