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writes:Do guys prefer virgins? Cause I'm still one at 35 years old. :( Been told its something to be respected. I've never really thought I was pretty. Is there still a chance for me or am I officially done in the "relationship department"? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011): that's even hotter. go for it honey
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): don't you ever give up ...giving up is for losers.... and also stop thinking you are not beautiful...I bet you are it's just the way you think of your self...change that lease and try to enjoy your life...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): Youre definitely not doomed :)... itll just take a little more initiative on your part if you want to get things going! Socialize anyway you can with friends, family, websites. What about your hobbies? Lots of times those can link us to people. Like for example, I met a girl thru DJing and even tho I never got laid lol I still met her and at least had a shot.
Im very sorry to say this but I will be blunt and honest. MOST men there in the US would laugh at you if you told them your lack of sexual experience. You see, sex over there is so casual and not a big deal to most if not all people so when they hear the v card, yeah they get shocked but not in a good way unless they are religious. Now, because you arent socially accepted in that way, does that make you dumb or weird or leave you no chance at a relationship cause of your ethics and morals? Definitely not. You just need to find the right guy for your type of situation. I, myself, wouldnt hold anything against you. In fact, I was holding the v card til age 25 by personal choice and not religion. Do I regret? YES, I most certainly do but we wont get into that. But you deserve a big muscular guy with a HUGE d***, not some average dumb schmuck like me lol. Meet people doll get out there and continue to be patient and hopefully youll find someone really good and deserving of your great qualities :)
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (17 May 2011):
 There is definitely still a chance for you. Any guy you meet will be shocked to hear that you are a virgin and I don't mean that in a bad way. It is something they would never expect and probably have special feelings for you because of it.
You are never too old for a relationship, you just have to put yourself out there whether it is by group activities or a dating site. Which ever you prefer.
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reader, EuropeanGuy87 +, writes (17 May 2011):
No, don't you get discouraged 1 second. It is never to late to be in a relationship. Trust me..
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reader, Shamandalie  +, writes (17 May 2011):
You are young. Why would you be off the relationship department? When my parents got married about 35 years ago they were both 25 and my mom was considered past her "marrying age". Times have changed a lot (thank goodness!) so being single at 35 doesn't mean you missed your chance.There are lots of ways to get dates now, through mutual friends, websites, those speed dating events, etc. Just don't go thinking you have a huge "virgin" sign on your forehead. Just go, have a good time and try to know the guy. If things go well and you feel a sexual encounter is a near possibility, bring the subject up but don't make a huge deal about it. If the guy gets away it means he's just not worth the effort, but that sort of guys will probably want sex right away so you'll spot them quite soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): Hi, I personally really belive there is a person for everyone and I think once you stop looking for love it will find you. My aunt just got married at 42 and she is just loving it. Being virgin is your choice. Do not ever let a man treat you badly, never ever let a man live with you and not be married. Always show that you deserve respect and dont allow the man to give you anything less. Do not settle for less in terms of repsect, morals etc. You will regret it. If you belive you are pretty I gurantee most people who see you will agree. If you have self confidence you can make the illusion that you are just as beautiful as Elizabeth Taylor. I think there is sort of a self esteem problem. However you view yourself if how other people view you.If you do not love yourself how can someone else? Remeber you are still young and have plenty of time. Maybe spend some time on your career and friend. Good luck!
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