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Archived questions from: September, 2009 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Is it unusual to bleed when you first start having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Ok So hi again.. Im 19 and about a month ago me and my boyfriend started having sex. The first time it hurt like hell but didnt bleed alot. a few days later it hurt some and bled alot. since then we have had sex maybe 3 more times. Everytime we do ...

What pubic hair design should I have for first time sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Me and my Boy friend are planning to have sex for the very first time, at the moment i am a virgin and am ready to loose my virginity. And i do cut my pubic hair but i realli don't know how boys like it. boys do you like all pubic hair gone or a l...

How can I truly make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - hi...i'm an 18 year old female in a complicated relationship. it all started last year when i met a guy at my college. we clicked instantly and became very good and close friends. he had a girlfriend at the time, but told me they were on the rocks ...

Who was a virgin before our honeymoon, my wife or me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I was a virgin up until my honeymoon last week. I thought my wife was also a virgin but came to find out otherwise after she and I split a bottle of champagne in the hot tub of our resort. She insisted that no guy could abstain from sex and was ...

I forgot to tell him about my vow of abstinance!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - Im a too in love with my boyrfiend and Im 16 and have taken a vow of abstinance that I would love to uphold. The problem is I kinda forgot to tell him that 6 months ago and now Im about 80% sure he thinks he's gonna get to sleep with me and Im about ...

My girlfriend wont let me pleasure her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - I am currently having problems with my girlfriend. A little background info: She is 18 and I am 24. We met online when she was 15 and after about 3 or 4 months things started to blossom and she admitted she loves me. So once she turned...

First time sex worries!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I just had sex for the first time and we used a condom, but it slipped for a second and we both decided to put it back on the right way of course, he didnt ejaculate and we didnt do much intercourse action, but i was just wondering about it and ...

I'm still a virgin but could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Im 14. Still a virgin. Problem is me and my boyfriend of 7 months now well we've been messing around. And, i know of cases where a girl can be pregnant yet still a virgin. I know how that happens. What im worried about is i should of had my period ...

I lost my virginity last night but he was huge and the pain was unbearable!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - I am 24 and just lost my virginity last night. Almost all my friend lost their virginity during teenage, so I told my bf that I have had sex with few person before but when I saw his penis size, I almost fainted, he is about 9" and very very thick ...

I gave him bj but he couldn't stay hard and didn't cum

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - hey i have this boyfriend.. we have been together for 2 years and we havent had sex till now... i am not quite ready for it and well my guy hasnt pressured me either... which is nice. we are both virgins and we are both 23. yesterday was ...

Why does losing your virginity hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend started having sex the other night.Hes not a virgin and is experienced. But im a virgin and he got in alil but it hurt so bad i made him stop. But I wanted to try again but i dont want it to hurt. Why did it hurt so bad?!?!? Am i ...

He's too immature and inconsiderate! Should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I have a problem. I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 7 months. I never really thought I loved him. He never seemed too bothered with spending time together on our own. 4 months ago I cheated on him. We only kissed but I fe...

I gave him my virginity and he's already moved on

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I've just broke up from a short relationship problem is i lost my virginity to him im 17 and i thought he was special we broke up on monday and it was last night (saturday) and hese already found someone. I keep crying and i don;t know wet...

Are 2 fingers enough to break a hymen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Hi all. i'm very confused about something. Last night i slept next to a guy i recently met and i let him finger me however i didnt bleed. I hav never had sex before. Am i still a virgin? are two fingers enough to break the hyman? ...

He wants to change my status of virgin to non-virgin

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - I am 13 and there is is boy that i really like. we've been going out for about 3weeks and 1night we were talking on the phone and he said,"are you a virgin?" so i said "yes" and then he said "do you want me to change that?" i didnt say anything back ...

Can we have sex without him knowing I'm a virgin? Will it hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Hi. My BF who I love dearly is experienced (he`s had three other partners, one of which was a virgin) and I`m a virgin. Well... a virgin as far as never had a MAN penetrate me. I`ve participated in oral sex before and I also masturbate often. I lied ...

Is it your opinion that this could be rape?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Ok i know sum one that is 13 and she has a boyfriend that is 18 and they been going out for a while and she lost her virginity too him and they both wanted it and some of her friends says thats rape i don't think its rape if the too people that is ...

I'm a virgin getting married with questions! Like, why do people call sex "lovemaking"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I just had a few questions about sex. I'm getting married in a couple weeks... and I kinda feel embarrassed admitting this but... I'm a virgin. :/ I would just like some tips and stuff.. I wouldn't dare ask my mom these questions because ...

B/f had alot of partners I was a virgin before him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - this is kinda personal but here we go I was a virgin before I met my current boyfriend, and he has had his fair share of partners, we havnt been having sex for long, and I feel like I'm awful at it, Im very self critical, and feel like he could al...

To guys who have kept their virginity into their 20s

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

17 September 2009 (F) - As a guy who has kept his virginity into his 20s, how would you feel if your potential first girlfriend had over 6 years of sexual experience? Could this relationship still work? Would you be wishing that she had waited too?...

She had her first sexual intercourse but didn't bleed. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi. I hav a question regarding my friend. She is a very shy girl she never talk to guys never had friendship with them so there is no means of having sex with anybody. She had an arranged marraige and she had her first sexual intercourse with her ...

I'm stuck with a person that doesn't love me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm having a really really hard time... two months ago I lost my virginity with my boyfriend, and to be honest I did it because he wanted because if he didn't i'd never ask for it, i'd take things slower than we did... So know I feel like i'm...

How soon into a relationship should I reveal I'm a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi cupid people, I know another 40 year old virginity rant but ah well - tis unique cos its all about me this time :) Basically I am a 24 (and 3 quarters) year old virgin although I'm not terrible looking and I have had ex's who have offered to ...

How can I prepare mentally for first time sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Im 14, almost 15 and my gf is 13, almost 14 (her bday is 3 days before mine) I havn't been on this site for a while because i havnt had much going on that i couldnt talk to my friends about. But i have recently gotten back togather with me ...

I want my boyfriend to think I'm a virgin even though I am not

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hi, i need some help. When i was 20 years old i had sex with a guy....that was my first time. Since that was my first time so i bleed. Now im 25 years of age. And for the last 5 years i didn't had sex. I just wanted to know if now il have sex with ...

Could my daughter be lying that she is a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - My daughter has just turned 17 and she says that she is still a virgin. I believe her because when she gose places she calls me every five minutes, but my cousins all believe that she has had sex. I think that she has not because she dose not go to ...

I'm a 16 year old boy trying to understand myself and these feelings. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 September 2009 (M) - Hey, Im a 16 year old boy. I think Im normal. I think I suffer all the lessons most people go through, like annoying urges for sex when you cant have it. Im smart, I think befor I unzip, but that the point, ive never unzipped as im still a virgin, ...

Is his sex drive normal for a guy who's 20?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Hi I'm in need of a bit of advise and clarification if its needed. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 7 months and we have great sex. However he is hardly ever in the mood so we rarely have it and least once every 2 or 3 weeks. I'...

Sex is always painful

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) - soo i lost my virginity about 8 months ago. it didnt hurt too much but i didnt feel any kind of pleasure at all. not from any kind of sex we had. and i had sex with the same guy about 20 times after that until we broke up and didnt feel any sort ...

Trying to have sex for the first time and it's not working to well

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Ok so few days ago i tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we just couldn't...at first i bled little, the next day same, then in the next 3 days i started to bleed more and it was hurting a lot.I noticed that my hymen was ...

Is my hymen broken?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - I had sex for the first time ever a few nights ago with my boyfriend. It did hurt but not alot and there was blood, does this mean my hymen had already broken or is there a chance that it is still there? My boyfriend is very understanding and we ...

I like masturbating to transexual porn, and I think this may be stopping me from losing my virginity...will things change?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

6 September 2009 (M) - Hi i wrote a question in a while ago saying that i had a problem because i was very confused as i'm striaght but i am attracted to transexuals. Last time i wrote in i sed i was finding myself wanking over transexual porn and hardly ever over ...

Why didn't sex hurt the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

6 September 2009 (F) - Okay im new to this but i really do neeed advice. My boyfriend we were both virgins when we met.and of course where not anymore.and yuh know the stories i hear about how when you lose your virginity its suppose to hurt! right? well mine didnt.it...

What is the easiest way to have first time penetrative sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) - What is the easiest way to have first time penetrative sex?? Hi - sometime in the future I plan to give my virginity to my boyfriend - but wonder which is the easiest way without too much difficulty/hurt....

I'm ready to have sex with him but very intimidated by how much more experienced he is than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm 16 and entering my junior year in high school. My sophomore year I spent 9 months dating this guy who I really had feelings for. We broke up in April and I was really down and missed him. In June he confessed that he was stil...

I saw precum on his underwear, I sat on it... could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - hi u can call me shan. Recently me and my boyfriend were fooling around and i sat on his penis but i was still in my panty and a shorts and he was still in his underwear too. Before i sat on him i saw precum on his underwear. Our clothes were very ...