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writes:I had sex for the first time ever a few nights ago with my boyfriend. It did hurt but not alot and there was blood, does this mean my hymen had already broken or is there a chance that it is still there? My boyfriend is very understanding and we have talked about it.
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reader, musefan  +, writes (8 September 2009):
The first time i had sex there was no blood, but months later of having sex it hurted and i noticed some blood, so it could be possible it didnt break.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice k_c100 has set my mind at rest =) xx
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (7 September 2009):
 Even if there was no blood, I'm still 99% certain it will have broken. Like I said before - there are lots of things that can break the hymen even without you realising it so the chances are you have broken it in the past before you had sex!
Dont worry about the hymen, it is a pretty flimsy piece of membrane and doesnt really have an impact on anything!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry I ment to say that there was no blood, thats why I am confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): yes it is broken since there was blood.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (7 September 2009):
If you have had sex then the hymen will be broken! The hymen is pretty easy to break - if you use tampons then you could have broken it without even knowing! Sports like horse riding and gymnastics also can break the hymen, so there is a chance you have broken it years ago without even realising!
I'm not sure why you would want your hymen to still be there? But anyway I would say with some certainty that if you have lost your virginity then the hymen will have been broken during sex, that will explain the blood!
I hope this helps!
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